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Assuming you’re attracted to women, what is that very very first thing you notice about a woman that warranted your glance in the first place?
For me, it’s lashes. False lashes or not, it’s like I spot it right away and it attracts my eye and brain to do either a longer first glance or a full on look to check the rest of her out. Which is probably why I myself will never go out en femme without putting on my lashes. It’s probably why I have spent so much time trying different ones to find the perfect one I like seeing on my face in the mirror. It’s probably why I’m probably OCD in making sure they’re perfectly sized, perfectly applied and will redo them over and over again until I feel satisfied before heading out the door.
Since that’s the first, I can also tell you the last thing I look at… boobs… I mean, we all like boobs, but it honestly has zero bearing on whether I find a woman attractive or not.
I have to say the way she is dressed as this has been a fixation and lifelong habit. Once that millisecond has passed then it is a more detailed glance that lasts at least a few second more. Any more time than that could be interpreted as a leer and make the lady feel uncomfortable. One has to be careful these days.
For sure. Being a creep is very unladylike anyway! LOL!
Did you like this one Angela? I posted this one just for you… no deep thinking, no deep conversation… easy question… Hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am surprised at its simplicity Carmen as you are a deep thinker. However you uniquely went for eyelashes something a girl would probably be more inclined to notice first as some of the replies are indicating something more chesty!
How did I do on the last test.
And, I’m just a face person. I get so much from the face. The emotion, the expression, the “soul” of a person. The face is the energy, the aura, the attraction. The other parts, while I do enjoy, are just these “detached” objects that I can’t really attach “attraction” to. It’s like looking at a porn magazine, sure the person might be “hot”, but doesn’t make them attractive.
I think you totally correct! There are so many things that make people beautiful, myself I think its the eyes 👀 as you can tell a lot about someone by their eyes. Although boobs and butt’s are nice eyes and faces are definitely the things I look for in a woman whether she is a bio one or women like us. X
If a woman is dressed nicely and you can see she took time to make herself look nice that’s a bonus 😉
Hi Carmen. Honestly the first thing that catches my eye is their hair. Women have the ability to do so many wonderful ( and some not so wonderful ) things with their hair. Long, luxurious, flowing, ….. just love it. And I will admit to…… checking out the bum. Yes. A cute butt is always nice. Of course I notice the clothes, but they’re just clothes, and can be changed.
Boobs mean next to nothing to me as to whether someone catches my eye or not. I am just as happy staring at two beautiful eyes instead of two breasts. (Yes, I know the eyes are up there, lol!) 🙂
Stevie
Yes, hair!
But lashes… I was sitting at starbucks near the window and just kinda staring out into space. Anyways, this woman pulled up in the parking lot, as MANY other customers do. Anyways, she had on lashes, and in my brain, I already knew I’d be sure to take a look again when she got out of her car just to re-observe.
She’s the only one at that moment that I had to re-observe… so, I’m sticking with lashes LOL!
Ever since I started presenting full-time as a woman I love looking at whats fashionable for bio women and alot of the time it gives me great ideas for what I wear, if you wear clothes that everyday women are wearing ive found you blend in more (which is my main goal) since I’ve done this I don’t get the ‘ hey look there’s a man in a dress taughts) over the past 3,4 months I’ve been blending in more and more and im just another women walking down the street thesedays which is so nice even had a wolf whistle today? Which I dont know to be mad at? Or take it as a compliment? Still I’m living the dream ✨️ xx
I’ll be very frank, a woman’s butt.
I am drawn towards a woman’s “hour glass” figure, especially the butt. I guess part of me wants to see if i can spot vpl but I find a woman’s rear end very attractive.
Next is how they dress, especially those that are dressed very office professional. There is something alluring about a well dressed professional looking woman.
For me it’s their eyes, when I do my own makeup it’s always my eyes that take the most time and effort to get just perfect. Sometimes I will do lashes for special events, but on a day to day basis, which is how I am now living and home and at work, I just go with multiple coats of mascara. I also notice long nails, pretty shoes and feet.
Another vote for hair. I notice from far away. I love all styles and colors.
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I have a bra fetish and love all bras and boobs… no surprise huh? I’m always trying to catch the outline of a womans bra but you asked what was the “very first thing” noticed, so for me that would be the womans hair, followed by the face, and yes, I love lashes too, then the boobs, then the whole package. Women are exquisite creatures.
Hi Carmen
For me it could be anything which makes her stand out. It could be beautiful well cared for hair, well applied make up, a bold lippy, a smokie eye, a fashionable dress that compliments her body shape, bold shoes, a statement purse or jewellery, even a gorgeous perfume can make me think ‘wow’ love it.
B x
I look at the face in general for well done makeup. With that said the eyes can look so pretty and feminine when done right. So I do look at the eyes specifically and when I see beautiful lashes they get my attention. I have not tried false lashes yet but it is on my to do list.
Hugs, Liara
In order, hair, clothes, boobs. I like to see longer hair, sure, shoulder length or longer, but if it’s done right, slightly shorter hair I find attractive. Something a little stylish in clothes, nothing haute couture, but flattering and fitting well. And yes, breasts, not large, but not definitely those not even noticeable.
Hugs, ChloeC
Yes VPL can be a nightmare for many women, I found myself the other day telling this women that the back of her skirt was tucked into her knickers? It wasn’t too bad as she had a long skirt on but imagine if she was wearing something a little shorter? None the less she smiled and thanked me and I said ” us girls have to look out for each other” xxx
I’m just always checking out what women of my age wear? None the less i think I can say I’m a bit more on point than many bio women of my age (54) I’ve always said to myself I’ve got a decent pair of legs and I love wearing a skirt or dress that shows them a bit more than the average female. If you got it flaunt it ! X
I think 99% of women are beautiful in their own way, since I’ve been presenting as a female 24/7, there is a certain look that women give each other to compliment each other and I think I got one off a bio female yesterday as she smiled at me and I noticed her checking out my killer heels, I think its awesome when a bio woman gives you a compliment even if its a subtle one. I love being able to blend in with the crowd and just be another woman just walking down the road and be checked out by a bio female is certainly a badge of honour 🎖 and I hope to get many more as im startING to blend in so much and being accepted as a female is the best feeling in the world. So my motto is ” keep on blending in and don’t look back” I love that since I went 24/7 my confidence has sky rocketed and ill never go back to the drab gender as having experienced a different way of being and living I can’t wait for what life throws my way. Xx
For me there is no question that the first thing I notice is the clothes. Do the clothes fit the occasion? Are they stylish? Do they fit the woman’s body, both is style and size? However, since I present in public most of the time as an old white man, I do not examine the detail of a woman’s face close enough to notice make-up application. The very last thing I want to be identified as is a dirty old man. An old frumpy woman would not be so bad, however.
For my right now I usually look at shoes first, unless something else jumps out first. Sometimes I notice the flashy leggings in the mall, usually on the black ladies. Sometimes it is the nice colorful top. sometimes the hair and the way it frames her face
Unfortunately 80 to 95% of the women I see are dressed in what I call feminine drab, you know tennies, blue jeans and a plain top, with no makeup and hair in a mess.. .Cassie
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