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- October 7, 2020 at 12:45 pm #391555
Hey all, what do you do if you see someone out who is a CD who who you might be a CD???i was at a hotel and the girl in the elevator was i thought a CD, dressed nicely in jeans and a sweater. but the makeup and the voice.. i was not sure what to say except. WOW you look lovely this morning. I like your boots. dahhh dumb i know. but what else do or can you say???
- October 7, 2020 at 1:00 pm #391569
You probably did the right thing. But I am sure I would be tempted to whisper a ” me too” to her as I walked off.
- October 7, 2020 at 1:05 pm #391570
If I was en femme and saw a sister, I’d absolutely make a nice comment about her boots if I liked them, but that would be it, unless a conversation naturally struck up.
I wouldn’t comment on someone’s general appearance unless they’d first commented on mine, in which case I would feel a kind of protocol to reciprocate.
Fortunately, I do get lots of nice comments, so I am liberal in return with praises!
Just my approach, of course.
Love Laura
- October 7, 2020 at 1:07 pm #391571
i wasn’t dressed. I was on my way out of the hotel and it was about 7 am. but i hear ya. Rita
- October 8, 2020 at 5:48 am #391874Anonymous
Hi Rita,
Absolutely nothing wrong with complimentary comments to anyone. Doesn’t matter if you suspect they are a CD or not. Most females are happy to receive compliments as are most CD’s too. I would prefer most people to say hello or compliment me on clothes, rather than tell me they dress or presume I am a cross dresser and tip me a wink to say I know , because I find the above relevant.
- October 8, 2020 at 9:08 am #391985
This a tough call to make. A lot depends on the “vibe” that was present in the elevator. Some people just are just naturally easier to talk to than others. I would not have known how to handle it and most likely have said nothing. Then I would kick myself for missing an opportune make someone’s day by tossing them a compliment.
Emily
- October 8, 2020 at 9:35 am #392002
If you were in male mode I would just pass a compliment treating her like a lady and sure it would make her day
- October 8, 2020 at 9:38 am #392004Anonymous
There is a transwoman who works as a cashier at a local grocery store. She has rang up my groceries a few times. I try to be polite and say “good morning” and “how are you?” Not sure what else to say when she is at work in public.
I thought about wearing some mascara and eyeliner to the store and go to her check out line. My thought would be to get a smile out of her. I know, we are wearing masks but you can see a smile in people’s eyes too!
Kay
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