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      Emily Alt
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      I wish I had smaller feet. There are so many beautiful shoes that don’t come in my size.

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      Rachel Williams
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      Simple.  Not to have any body hair, genetically.

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      karley delaware
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      I would like the acne scars off my face to look as pretty as I can……………….karley

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      Alisha Alex
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      Perhaps a smooth body with no hair at all. lol

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      Paula F
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      I would definitely wish for a slimmer more femme body, esp with narrower shoulders and better hips.  I’m okay with my height, 6’1″, but would love to have some of those dangerous curves like women had back in the 50’s or 60’s before it was a ‘sin’ to look gorgeous and sexy.

      PaulaF

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    • #412209
      Rachel McFadden
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      Physically, I’d love to have a body that feels lighter and more ‘delicate’. As a man I’m not huge, 5’11 and ca. 13st (~180lbs for my American sisters). But even when I lose weight, my whole body feels dense and heavy, it takes quite a lot of effort when out as Rachel to remind myself to tread lightly and float, rather than stomping around.

      Mentally/spiritually, I’d have liked to have accepted who/what I am much earlier in life and had the courage to come out to the people closest to me. Although my life would likely have been quite different, I think I might have been freer – currently I feel trapped in a wonderful cage, I have everything a MAN could want but I’m not sure I want to be a man.

      Rachel xx

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      DeeAnn Hopings
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      I would wish to be able to wear 4” and 5” heels, but that would mean that I wouldn’t have arthritic ankles…

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      Rei Durden
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      I had initially thought my big honking nose as well, but as my evolution continues I’m going to have to go with my voice.

      What would I give for a sweet, pleasant female voice?

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        Alisha Alex
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        Your nose is beautiful and sexy. Nothing’s wrong with imo. xx

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          Rei Durden
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          Thanks Alisha, we’re all our harshest critics!

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    • #411896
      Carla
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      I would change my propensity for putting on weight every time I even look at food or a glass of wine. Interestingly, since I came out to my wife my hatred for my moobs has completely gone away and I embrace the little mounds of fat on my chest. I met my wife ten years ago and she has been amazingly supportive of me recently but had I come out before then it would not have gone down so well with partners or potential partners. So my initial thought of knocking 20 years off my life may not be as good as I first thought.

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      Amanda Burton
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      Amanda dear…

      What’s the difference between a meggie-monyfeet and a hornie-gollach? Between snap-an-rattle and murly-tuck?

      Work that oot, love Nicola x

      I thought you were Donald with no trousers, now your Nicola sloshed

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      Amanda Burton
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      NOW we know…… apparently the Queen has been asking Charles to take over and be king for 20 years and he didn’t know….because Steph had his ears!!!!!! ..golly he will be livid when he finds out…..there goes your knighthood two poo’s!

      grace x

      Does this mean Stephanie takes over by default Grace, if she refuses to hand them back? Ear wait a minute we can’t call our Stephanie “Queen Stephanie” we’ve been fighting that sort of prejudice for years, golly, 2poos will have to have a make over, christ she will be humping the guards bearskin. This could be the end of the monarchy Grace. Oh my God they may kidnap Stephanie and swap her for Nicola Sturgeon. How would we know we don’t understand half of what they say anyway Grace.

       

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        Grace Scarlett
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        Amanda dear…

        What’s the difference between a meggie-monyfeet and a hornie-gollach? Between snap-an-rattle and murly-tuck?

        Work that oot, love Nicola x

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      Amanda Burton
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      Sounds as if you have a lush wild garden – or is it a nature reserve?   2poos doesn’t like moles. She shoved her nose in one of their hills and backed off – she doesn’t like their smell. However if Grace could dig it out I’m sure 2poos would give it a run for its money.  She hates Badger – the next door neighbours cat.

      No humping of the mole then Stephanie. Just asking does 2poos like any other animal?

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    • #411730
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      Hello Amanda. I think we all have little things about our bodies we would want to change… but my wish … I would want us to be accepted for who we are, being able to wear what we want, whenever and wherever with out prejudice and fear.

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    • #411697
      Kelli Marlowe
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      Age is of course the obvious non-physical answer.When I was 17, wanted to be older to access the bars, that’s the last time I remember wanting to be older. like to go thru my twenties again.

      as far as physical, a change in facial features to look more androgynous

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    • #411695
      Rachel Cross
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      i would change the color of my eyes. i have brown now but would like blue or green eyes. and a flatter stomach. its not really bad but could use alittle more flatting. guess cold sculpting can fix that.

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    • #411693
      Amanda Burton
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      Hi Steph

      no frogs or toads for me…but I have hover mowered snails….golly gosh…the shrapnel took out my sunflowers!!!

      Smiles, grace x

       

      You need to the settings adjusted Grace on your mower, snails should only reach the height of daffodils, not 6ft sunflowers sweetie.

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    • #411691
      Dani CD
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      Great topic Amanda, I have a long list. But at the top is my height, I’m 6’3 and tall heels 👠 just don’t look right.                                                 Dani👩🏻‍🔧

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      Dani CD
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      Great topic Amanda, I have a long list. But at the top is my height, I’m 6’3 and tall heels 👠 just don’t look right.                                                 Dani👩🏻‍🔧

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    • #411685
      Bobbi Sue
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      Outside gender, I’d like toes that work and a cure for osteoarthritis. I do wish i could wear 4 or 5″ stilettos.

      A few of the other things I’d like…
      * A smaller nose.
      * Softer features.
      * Way less body hair.
      * Boobs.
      * Hips.
      * A really sexy voice.

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    • #411675
      Sally Drinkwater
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      My weight varies from week to week and the fat weeks last longer than the thin weeks but I accept that no trouble at all.

      I really would like to lose my double chin though.

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    • #411657
      stephanie plumb
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      Smashing post Amanda!   Now the list…..   it goes ever on and on…  difficult to choose only one.

      One physical thing – I would like to give Prince Charles his ears back.   But at least I can hide them under a wig, and sometimes I do like the way they peek through, so perhaps I will keep them after all.

      My belly?  No – “the belly keeps the back up.”

      Smaller feet then?  Grace’s size 7 would be great.  I would have a much better choice in shoes and boots.

      No – just give me the body I should have had instead of this horrible male one. But no,  my life wouldn’t be as it is now.

      I will settle for – being less indecisive.

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      • #411751
        Grace Scarlett
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        NOW we know…… apparently the Queen has been asking Charles to take over and be king for 20 years and he didn’t know….because Steph had his ears!!!!!! ..golly he will be livid when he finds out…..there goes your knighthood two poo’s!

        grace x

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      • #411674
        Amanda Burton
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        Why thank you Stephanie, I am sure Prince Charles has excellent hearing too. But your happy sweetie that’s the most important thing.

        Toads yes a few, and yes one or two have sadly been dispatched by the mower, accidentally I may add. Badgers that recreate the somme battle fields. Talk about wildlife life Grace has a mole, can she borrow 2poos the exterminator, or will she catch it and dominant it!!!!. Grace has two dog biscuits in her handbag (don’t ask) so there is a reward.

        Size 7shoes? God she is so bloody perfect (jealous)

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        • #411701
          stephanie plumb
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          Sounds as if you have a lush wild garden – or is it a nature reserve?   2poos doesn’t like moles. She shoved her nose in one of their hills and backed off – she doesn’t like their smell. However if Grace could dig it out I’m sure 2poos would give it a run for its money.  She hates Badger – the next door neighbours cat.

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    • #411641
      Regine Rich
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      I would have to pick body hair, Im naturally covered with it, and it’s so much trying to rid myself of it.
      Love the responses everyone had:-)
      Regine

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    • #411618
      Rhonda Jones
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      What would i change ?, only one thing .

      Take 20 years off my age  .

      Why ?That would put me back in my 40s , a younger body ( this one has aged very well )

      that could wear more younger woman’s clothes, and not look like mutton dressed as lamb .

      Rhonda .

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      • #411642
        Rhonda Jones
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        Thank you Regine .

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      • #411623
        Rhonda Jones
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        Gee Amanda, you took less time to reply to me than what it me to write that .

        Could you please tell me what you liked about it  .

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        • #411633
          Amanda Burton
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          Well Rhonda, one you answered, which I very much appreciated, and I think it’s only polite to thank people that do.

          Your honest evaluation of your age as regards clothing. As regards how quickly I replied well, I was going to say my speed, but simply your answer popped up just as I clicked on.

           

          • #411636
            Rhonda Jones
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            Thank you , Amanda .

            Rhonda .

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    • #411583
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      I would have to say my wait and mid section. I’d love to have a more slender waist and more hourglass shape. Either that or to be completely hairless naturally, that would be AMAZING!

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    • #411577
      Mika Malone
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      A smaller waistline. Even when I was at my fittest, I had a little bit of fat on my sides. My love of beer has crept up on me. I’ll lose some weight but in the meantime, SHAPEWEAR!

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    • #411575
      Caty Ryan
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      My ongoing prevarication about having a proper version of “the talk” with my beloved. Every time I get close, something gets in the way.. Or at least I let it do so,.

      Covid is a prime example, tho I plead leniency on that one. Down here in Melbourne OZ we were locked down all winter. No point in starting up something and not having  the “space” to finish it.

      As for anything physical or mental, not much a few extra kgs.lbs off the tummy would not hurt. But this “mature” Aussie CD is basically happy with his/her lot.

      Caty

       

       

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    • #411560
      Grace Scarlett
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      Golly Amanda,

      I have actually thought of one little thing I would love to change….but it’s probably a bit vain and trivial considering what other girls are requesting, but here goes….

      you see, I have this mole, and it’s in a really embarrassing place. I have tried to conceal it but even when I do, it’s like I know it’s still  there somewhere!!!

      It’s worse first thing in the morning, before I put on any make up, sitting there with my coffee I could cry !!….

      I look out the window at those little piles of earth in the middle of my lovely lawn……I hate that bloody mole !!!!!

      Tee-hee, grace 💋💋

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        stephanie plumb
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        As ever, your response was nothing short of pure brilliance!  Perfectly crafted.   Oh I do so wish I could have half of your clever wit and sense of humour.  You inspire me to try harder.

        steph 💖

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      • #411609
        Amanda Burton
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        Well sweetie, that’s nothing, I watch the re-enactment of “Toad of toad Hall” most nights

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          stephanie plumb
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          You have Toads?   You lucky girl!   I have one or two that come out after the rain.

          Have you ever put one through your lawn mower?  I haven’t – at least not a Toad, but I accidentally chopped up a Frog this summer.   I was upset for days.

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            Grace Scarlett
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            Hi Steph

            no frogs or toads for me…but I have hover mowered snails….golly gosh…the shrapnel took out my sunflowers!!!

            Smiles, grace x

             

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        Mika Malone
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        I had to think about it for a few seconds, lol

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      • #411564
        Cindy Lou
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        You gave me an unexpected laugh, thanks for that you nut!

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    • #411528
      Bridgette VonSmirff
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      At five foot seven and 235 lbs, if like to lose around 65 lbs, and move about ten of that to my butt. Admittedly, one can lose weight, and with enough effort, keep it off. I just don’t have the determination. So this girl is a chunky little thing, and that’s just how it is.

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    • #411499
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      I know we can’t change our age, but how about this? I would like the change the time when I was able to accept my true self. I would be much further evolved as a woman if I started a long time ago!

      Kay

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    • #411485
      Kaz Duchamp
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      If I could change anything, I would be about 25 years younger.  I would go back to one of those points where I looked pretty yummy and was happy, but for various stupid reasons just stopped and went back to what was socially and culturally expected. So basically, I’d reboot and I’d keep moving forward instead. But that’s just regrets and wishful thinking.  Interesting that in writing this now, I equate “moving forward” with continuing on the path to attaining my feminine self. At least I’m back on track now!

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        Kaz Duchamp
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        But if it was one physical thing – laugh lines and wrinkles on my forehead!

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    • #411483
      Stephanie Flowers
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      My weathered face. Many Many years of sun and wind . My wife for well forever had told me to wear sunscreens,   apply mostinizers I should have listened to her.  Everything else is in one way correcting. Losing weight to protecting our skin,  “oh so important” .. last few years I have taken care of my skin and things are slowly improving but only if I would’ve listened….🌷…

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    • #411478
      Jennifer McCrennaugh
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      Great topic! Let’s see…physically I’d like a more slender, feminine build. Mentally I’d love to be more confident and carefree. One can’t really be changed. The other? Working on it.

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    • #411466
      Stevie Steiner
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      I would have to say my health.  I would love to gain about 20 – 30 lbs,  mostly on my hips and ass please.  Oh, and a new set of teeth so I can have one of those Hollywood smiles.

      This is all assuming I can’t change my age, right Amanda?  Otherwise, that’s the one!  Lol

      Stevie

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        Amanda Burton
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        Well Stevie changing your age would not be ethically acceptable within the confines of the question

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    • #411459
      Grace Scarlett
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      Hello Girlfriend…nice idea babe.

      I have started this half a dozen times….and ditched it half a dozen times…

      I so do not want to sound conceited, but it’s taken me such a long time to get to this point, and I am in such a good place at this moment in time, I won’t change a thing, thanks.

      God, I’m ANYTHING but perfect, but I’m just so settled and content, and everything is so good at this moment,  no way I’m rocking this boat baby!!

      …so I will pass my free ” change something” to any girl that wants to accept it…. please take it !!!!…

      …..because I’m living my dream.

      Love to you all, grace ❤️

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        Laura Lovett
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        Dear Grace – you are on fire, sweetie!

        😍😍😍😍😍

        Love Laura

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      • #411464
        Amanda Burton
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        Grace sweetie this is why I love you, your so honest and sweet, happy and humble.

        I wouldn’t change one thing about you , except never losing you as dear  girlfriend. Now you are just the inspiration that  Caroline needs to aspire to.

        Beautiful reply sweetie.

        Love Amanda xx

         

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    • #411453
      Amanda Burton
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      Amanda I changed my profile pic to show my face a little clearer. A tiny step towards self acceptance.

      -Caroline

      Beautiful sweetie.

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    • #411450
      Dala Carlian
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      Frame shape for dressing. I’m 6’1″, 46/36/41 inch barrel chested.
      I lift and I know I don’t help myself in that regard, but I would love to be one of those slender slinky girls when dressed…

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        Mika Malone
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        I used to lift before I decided to crossdress. Well, I was still underdressing back then. I bulked up really easily and my body fat was down to 7.5%. All of that went down the drain when I shattered my clavicle jumping a mountain bike off a 10 ft drop. Now that I want to wear cute dresses and skirts I want to just do cardio. I do a lot of manual labor at my job and I still seem to be stronger than average despite not having lifted in 6 years. And I loved lifting. But I still have to buy darker and longer sleeves to hide my arm size just from the work I do.

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        Evelyn
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        Hi Darla. We all do things we know we shouldn’t, like working out with heavy weights, which gives us a body we despise. We do these things to hide ourselves from ourselves. I once joined a bike club. They would have kicked me to within an inch of my life if they’d known what I was wearing under my leathers.
        I predict the phase of getting all muscle bound will end and you will find happiness. Stay safe x

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        • #411465
          Dala Carlian
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          Evelyn,
          I would hope that you’re right. My body would probably appreciate it if I changed my workout style as well.
          I’m 48(49 in Feb), and I push myself in the weight room like I’m getting ready to play football or hockey.
          I like being strong, at work…when guys can’t take something apart or lift this part of the printing presses I fix.. It’s “get George to lift it” or “George can break that stuck thing-a-ma-jig loose”.
          So I find myself wanting to maintain that, to the detriment of Dala looking less lumberjack like.

          Thank you for the input, I do truly appreciate it.
          See you around,

          XOXO

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    • #411441
      Lee Ann Rakers
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      Registered On: August 18, 2019
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      Those doggone 13W feet!

      Lee Ann

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    • #411440
      Bobbi
      Lady
      Registered On: September 13, 2018
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      I would adore smaller feet!  OMG My feet are my worst feature.
      I’m fine with my naughty bits because they’re so small, men don’t feel threatened, & actually don’t mind playing with them.  Of course, none of that matters now, because I’m a housewife now. I tied the knot last month!  🙂

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    • #411435
      Evelyn
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      Registered On: June 18, 2020
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      I would change my lips. I would like them to be fuller and more shapely. I’ve experimented a lot with make up, but you cant beat the real thing can you xx

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    • #411431
      Erin Talor
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      Registered On: November 22, 2020
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      I would make myself about 20% smaller than what I am now. I would love to be about 6 inches shorter with slim shoulders and much lighter. I think I would go on a shopping spree of a lifetime if that ever could happen. 😀

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    • #411426
      Beth
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      Two things, one I can do easily and am working on- losing weight. The other is to get my teeth worked on. I have a crowded mouth and would be able to smile if I got my mouth straightened out. That would take a lot of money and time off, things I do not have.

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    • #411417
      Cindy Lou
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      Registered On: November 18, 2020
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      Since I was about 14, my nose.

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    • #411403
      Amanda Burton
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      Registered On: January 15, 2020
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      Suki Good Luck and Best Wishes for the future I hope you achieve your goals.

      Love Sarah xx

      Oh absolutely second that Sarah , and hope your wish comes true suki.

      Love Amanda xx

    • #411390
      Caroline OBrien
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      Registered On: April 18, 2020
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      I have a pathological fear of what people think of me. This is a major hang up of mine and It always has been.
      If I could I’d drop this hangup and live free!!!

      -Caroline

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      • #412722
        Rhonda Jones
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        Registered On: March 17, 2019
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        When some one makes a cruel or insulting remark , it is often then expressing how they feel about them selves . Let those comments go past you , as you smile back to them .

        P S  to dress as woman in public is to be braver than those people .

        P P S i have been in public as Rhonda around 20 times to date .

        Rhonda .

      • #411423
        Amanda Burton
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        Registered On: January 15, 2020
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        Caroline, what people think of you is not worth worrying about sweetie. We are all in control of our own identity and behaviour. There are just as many positive thoughts as there is negative ones from people. Confidence is all you need sweetie, a belief in yourself and not what others may or may not say,because at the end of the day if your happy to in your life, then that’s all that really matters.

        Love Amanda xx

    • #411371
      Kelly Terry
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      Registered On: February 26, 2018
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      I think I would like to be hit by the human version of photoshop and then reduce my size by 25% or so. It’s hard to find good looking things in larger sizes.

      The contender to that wish would be that I look more androgynous, clothes aside people should have to look at me 2-3 times and still not know if that’s a man or woman.

      /kt

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    • #411368
      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      Registered On: September 16, 2020
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      Hi Amanda that’s a real great question, I would reduce my height by 12 inches and I would definitely have smaller ears. I would like smaller hands so I can wear Bangles. I would love to have been one of the Bangles but that’s another story.

      Love Sarah xx

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        Grace Scarlett
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        I would have loved to be a bangle too Sarah….buy can you walk like an Egyptian??

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    • #411367
      Kitty Van Curen
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      I have this character flaw, that when things ‘get’ to me I have the inability to ‘let it go’ …it sticks with me. Drastically hard to move on from bad experiences, I re-run them, I wish I could have changed them, done more, etc. etc. It haunts me, upsets my sleep, constantly reflects in my mind, I mean it re-occurs every few hours…to the point that I’m my own worst enemy about it and I let these things upset me! It’s just part of my nature, I know this now but it IS a curse. ..I’d gladly shed that!

      Thanks!

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    • #411366
      Suki Rivers
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      Registered On: November 20, 2020
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      A lot of blessings in my life. A big turn around in 2018 in my depression and anxiety. Mostly I want to get out of ongoing patterns and develop good habits for my mental. spiritual, and physical health.

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      • #411370
        Sarah Du Hessisse
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        Registered On: September 16, 2020
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        Suki Good Luck and Best Wishes for the future I hope you achieve your goals.

        Love Sarah xx

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