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- January 1, 2021 at 11:25 am #425920
we’re all glad there’s an end in sight of our current global issue, and hopeful for the freedom to go out again.
what would you like to do in the new year, either something new, or something you’ve done before, in this new and hopeful year?
- January 1, 2021 at 11:38 am #425926Anonymous
Hi BillieJay,
Happy New Year!
The one standout option for me would be to go for a makeover. I’d like to see what a skilled practitioner could do with me.
- January 6, 2021 at 8:49 am #428247
I have been cross dressing at home and in private for about six years. However, for 2021, I plan to go out dressed and meet other crossdressers. Since I live outside of NYC, I know that there are groups that meet regularly. As a starter, I would like to attend one of their functions and become part of that group.
I am 71 yo and I am fairly healthy for my age. I get moderate exercise (walking for an hour four or five days a week). I do cam to cam chats on sites such as “chaturbate” or “SKYPE” while dressed. I like going to the beach. I have both bikinis and one piece suits and I look forward to developing a bikini tan this summer.
- January 1, 2021 at 12:04 pm #425937Anonymous
With my wife’s full acceptance of Bettylou, most of my goals have been, or are being met. But my greatest desire remains: To attend the Keystone or Southern Comfort conference.
- January 1, 2021 at 12:42 pm #425950
I’m fortunate to have done at least half of the items on the list. 2021 will have me exploring transitional options; first of which is hormone therapy. I expect to fully live as a woman.
- January 1, 2021 at 12:52 pm #425951
I voted for going to church. I have bro-in-law who is a minister – super conservative. He claims anyone is welcome in his church. I know the truth – anyone so long as they are of his race and believe the same as he does. I would love to attend his service en femme just test his faith.
- January 1, 2021 at 1:28 pm #425964Anonymous
Hi.. Happy new year all
I had such plans for 2020, had a makeover in February before COVID really took hold. It was such an amazing experience I was 100% sure that I was going to venture out in public, and be the girl that I carry inside.
I still ache to go out in public, so my aim this year is to achieve this.
Hope all yours plans come true this year… xx
- January 1, 2021 at 2:11 pm #425990
Ummm all of the above!……
but I’ll settle for just going out and about in some average day to day manner (for now) - January 1, 2021 at 2:24 pm #425997
I, too would like all of the above, but I will settle for life opening up again, and just being able to go out, as normal. well, as Regi, normal, lol
Hugs, Regi. - January 1, 2021 at 3:01 pm #426031Anonymous
I checked of a few things that would be fun but I would truly just love to live as me, 24\7 365.
- January 1, 2021 at 3:21 pm #426043
I would like to see a conference anywhere in washington state. Especially in the Seattle area.
- January 1, 2021 at 3:29 pm #426048
I’d just like to go out to eat. Haven’t been to a restaurant since February. Or, simply having friends over for dinner and cocktails would be nice. And yes, I’d attend a Midwest conference in a heartbeat.
Clara - January 1, 2021 at 4:10 pm #426074
Girls night out, some food, drink, chat, and dance the night away💄💅💃
- January 1, 2021 at 4:17 pm #426075Anonymous
My biggest wish is to have a complete makeover with a professional photographer taking pictures of me as Roz x it’s something I’ve yet to do,
I’ve always wanted to attend a venue too and have a girl’s night out with a few other girls maybe go to keystone it seems to be the place for girls like us to go x
Hugs Rozalyne x
- January 1, 2021 at 8:17 pm #426124
One thing that I didn’t see here was, going on vacation. Its something that I’ve done and would like to be able to do it again. This damm pandemic has everything turned upside down and its not very much fun just to go somewhere and stay in a hotel and not be able to go out. So until its safe to travel and not have to worry about this covid 19.anymore I’ll just have to be satisfied with occasional going to the mall or shopping center around where I live. Hopefully by the summer things will be somewhat back to normal and I can go on vacation
- January 1, 2021 at 8:49 pm #426129
I’d take most of the options on offer, but realistically, I’d call it progress if I actually just went out dressed. My wife has mentioned maybe taking a few days away to a quiet part of the UK and maybe for us to go for a walk in the park or to a small cafe with me dressed. I’d feel pretty nervous, but would be tempted if the possibility presented itself this year 🙂
- January 1, 2021 at 9:33 pm #426145
Fulfil the cancelled CD events I had planned for 2020
1/. Have a bra fitting whilst in Caty mode.
2/. have a “girls weekend” away with a “girlfriend” I met through this site. Daylesford is a very liberal town about 2hrs NW of Melbourne
3/. Travel to Perth Western Australia to a/. Stay out at “Scar Beach”, have a professional makeover and go shopping at Karrinyup Mall. (The locations are for the WA locals who read this) Then up the Swan Valley outside Perth for some “serious” wine tasting. Tho I adore the wines and the area, Margaret River is too far for this old chook/chicken these days
4/. have at least one professional makeover back home here in Melbourne and either go out to dinner again or if that fails have a shopping day out.
5/. get to a CD group meeting either here in Melbourne or go up to Sydney for one with Seahorse NSW
We have “The Bug” mostly under control here, but its still f ares enough to make all of the above very unlikely.A girl can but dream..
Happy dressing and travelling
Caty
- January 2, 2021 at 5:46 am #426230
I do about 3/4 of the list already, like grocery shopping, go to a night club, etc. I think sometimes I take those daily/weekly errands for granted and they have actually lost the thrill of doing them. I do understand how these tasks can be quite exciting for the girls who are just getting their legs under them, and I do remember the excitement of “The Walk” from my car to the front door of the local mall or post office or even just into a convenience store.
I would dearly love to drive coast to coast in my little car and stop off in some of the wilderness areas to take a day hike or even spend a night out in the wilderness and then end up out in Vegas or someplace I have never been to before.
All of you newly out girls, go for the thrill of being out and have fun.
PaulaF
- January 2, 2021 at 5:56 am #426237
I would like to get dressed up and go out with other CD’s. A makeover, shopping trip, just a girl’s night out. I used to love them so much and haven’t done them in a long time.
- January 2, 2021 at 6:14 am #426244
I would like to buy a new bikini and go for a long swim in the sea, feeling the waves wash over me, the sand on my skin. After shaving and such, of course!
hugs, Ginny
- January 2, 2021 at 9:18 am #426325
I want to be able to do my own makeup without it looking too crappy. I wish I could go to a beauty parlor and get help with makeup and what colours i should choose. But my biggest concern is how to sneak past my elderly very curios neighbours, I’ve known them for 50 years now and I don’t think they’d like what they see if they saw me en femme. Or perhaps they already know, sometimes I think I was the last person to see myself as transgender.
Hugs
Lily-Rose - January 2, 2021 at 4:54 pm #426505
Let me address them one at a time.
- Makeover – probably not. My source for makeovers has moved, and I don’t foresee any events special enough that I would need a makeover.
- Cruise – possibly. It depends on my revised vacation days and on the state of the pandemic. I’m more likely to put this off until 2022, though.
- Grocery Shopping – definitely. I have been doing it every week since March, and will continue to do so during the pandemic.
- National park – probably not, but there is a state park near my home I may visit.
- Shop at a mall – probably not, but will likely shop at stores en femme that could be in a mall.
- Drive across the country – probably not. I did that to take my daughter to college. With sciatica and tight hamstrings, it is uncomfortable to drive for long periods.
- International travel – no. I’d have to know how accepting they were. Additional factors are my vacation days and the state of the pandemic.
- Bar/nightclub – probably not. Right now bars are closed, and the people I might go with are an hour away. They used to go out after our group meeting, but I usually have to be up early the next day so I haven’t gone with them.
- Casino – no. I’m not a gambler, and I’m sensitive to the overload of cigarette smoke.
- Los Vegas – no. Similar to above. I just have no interest in going to “Lost Wages.” And Atlantic City is so much closer.
- Do something in my hometown – yes. I walk almost every day around my home town, I shop (other than grocery stores), and other errands.
- Hiking in the wilderness – no; but maybe in the State Park.
- Pool/Beach in swimsuit – probably. I did that twice last year, and will likely do it again.
- Conference – Probably not. My vacation schedule, and I don’t think they will hold Keystone this year either. I attended a conference a number of years ago and might like to go back.
- Place of worship – no. I’m too well known where I go, and will not go there en femme. Last year they live streamed the holiday services and I “attended” virtually while dressed; I was being overly cautious. I don’t anticipate that to happen again.
- January 2, 2021 at 6:20 pm #426546
This poll was interesting…
I would love to book in a session with a makeup expert for a full rundown on coping with my face. We know a film makeup artist personally so being dressed for that certainly add a touch of piquancy!
I think I shall be changing my male name to legalise my enfemme status. Its a bit of a complex situation though as my wife and I shall more than likely be travelling to Europe as soon as we can get our vaccinations and Europe opens up again.
Certainly go to a bar in town… there is one that discriminates against young gay men on the pretext that they have had too much to drink thereby throwing them out. It would be wonderful to write to the media if I am successful.
- This reply was modified 3 years ago by Polly Stewart. Reason: spelling mistake
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- January 2, 2021 at 6:41 pm #426553Anonymous
I would love a makeover that includes some teaching time so I can at least try and replicate it…as I really suck at make-up! Then, I’d love to go for drinks and dancing with my manfriend Steve. I think it would be so nice to be held tight and enjoy being in his arms as his girlfriend.
- January 2, 2021 at 7:53 pm #426583
I hope to do a few things, and I answered to have a makeover, go to a bar/nightclub, and go to a conference of some kind.
I had a makeover about a year ago, and it was a wonderful experience. Though I never had a chance to do it again! The young woman who did it was amazing, very good at it, and also taught me a lot as she did the makeover on me.
To elaborate, I use to out two or three times a month to meet with a group of CD friends for dinners, and I’d love to be able to get back to that routine.
Then I did have plans to attend Keystone, but unfortunately I was scheduled for an operation on my hand for which I’d been waiting some time for the proper specialist to do it. Turned out it was only a week before Keystone, so I had to postpone that. Now it seems unlikely I’ll make it this year as well. The operation worked out well, by the way.
Also I had an extended long weekend planned at a resort with the aforementioned friends which had to be cancelled, so hopefully that can happen.
Then it would be cool to go to a bar or nightclub en femme sometime, but with friends and in a safe manner. It has been decades I think since I’ve done anything like that!
Lets hope that this comes to pass for me, and everyone else!
Happy New Year.
Amy
- January 2, 2021 at 8:22 pm #426612
A makeover and makeup lesson is definitely tops on my list for 2021. Hoping some of the shops can re-open soon here in NJ / PA / NY area….. I am inching out of the closet and that would be step 1 for me. Although…. I have dressed for two video chats with a counselor. I liked it and was very comfortable being Laura. The counselor , a male, did not encourage or discourage me regarding the dressing.
- January 3, 2021 at 3:17 am #426697
I would desperately like to get out on the town with some of the girls. I do not know which girls, where, or when, but I would love meeting any of my sisters at Torontos Pride ( if there is any chance of that happening this year ). And a makeover and a night out in the Village would be simply mah-vo-lous darling….
Also, I would really, really like some international travel. I am becoming somewhat (expletive deleted) irked with these closed borders.
Stevie
- January 3, 2021 at 4:12 am #426708
Hi Billiejay,
I picked Mall, Beach/pool, Conference, and Makeover.
An event like Keystone would be number one. I would just love to be at one with friends from CDH.
Hugs
Autumn
- January 3, 2021 at 4:58 am #426725Anonymous
Makeover definitely but (find a girlfriend & go to a club as Serena is a close second). I’m anxious to see myself en femme, all ready being an extrovert in drab.
Dancing, chatting up other girls.
- January 3, 2021 at 8:32 am #426802
Get Married to the right man!
- January 3, 2021 at 8:39 am #426806
Hope to get to some conferences like Keystone and Desert roads this year and some more Vegas trips with my cd friends. My boyfriend has suggested going to Disneyland this summer which I never have done while en femme mode
- January 3, 2021 at 11:07 am #426861
My most favored choice was to take a long trip. just so I could stay dressed every day & night for a while. I would truly love it !
- January 3, 2021 at 7:39 pm #427060
Getting out and receive a makeover then get out once again to a gathering of wonderful ladies for a pub night with dinner, drinks and conversation. Getting out would be a welcoming relief I must say. Being free to do everything we were so accustomed to before life was turn upside down. But my first thoughts are looking forward to attending another keystone conference unfortunately not till 2022 but good things do take time. 🌷
- January 4, 2021 at 4:18 pm #427464Anonymous
Hi Billiejay
Planning a full feminine make over and a weekend away and just be the real me
Just to spend the whole weekend as Kelly Ann
And then straight onto CDH to post the pictures
Hugs and kisses
💞💋💞💋💞
L❤ve
Kelly💋Ann
- January 5, 2021 at 10:03 am #427792
I’ve been fortunate enough to have done many of the things listed here. I would love to get a makeover though. Thought about it often but never followed through on it. Someday soon!
- January 11, 2021 at 6:21 pm #431162
I once had a dream I was out bowling with friends while I was wearing nothing but lingerie. Panties, bra, stockings garter belt the whole 9 yards. At first I freaked out but once I realized either they didn’t notice or cared it was great. I’d like to do that for real.
- January 11, 2021 at 7:40 pm #431207
Billie Jay
I would say ANY or ALL of the above basically. Any kind of “normal” activity would do.
Interacting with “Girl” friends from for a day. Go shopping, makeovers, mani/pedi’s, lunch, dinner, drinks, dancing etc.
Just to get out of these 4 walls and not wear a mask would work!
Robyn 💃👠❤️
- January 19, 2021 at 2:17 am #435252
Doing something in my hometown would cover everything I want to do in 2021. I want to reconnect with my 2 CD/TG support groups and attend meetings; COVID canceled them since last March. Also go out with the first group for the Thursday night social and/or attend TDoR. I want to go for a make-up consultation and/or lessons. I want to go clothes shopping as a woman. COVID, COVID, go away; come back: never.
- January 7, 2021 at 2:46 pm #428984
I’m with you sweetie. While I havedone most of the list I have not done a mani/pedi. That is a goal I set for myself.
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