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    Tina Que
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    Registered On: April 14, 2021
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    I apologize if this topic has been posted before.

    Related but unrelated, I went to a church this morning that was an affirming church. It was my first visit so I only underdressed. They have a gender neutral washroom, which I didn’t use so it wasn’t an issue.

    In a week and a half, I am going all in with dressing and makeup to go out for supper with the girls from the CD social club. I would be totally surprised if I passed 100% as a female even going all out with dressing and makeup. If I need to use the washroom, which one do I use?

     

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      Anonymous
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      If you are presenting as female, use the womens restroom, even if you are not 100% passable.

      If presenting as a man in womens clothes use the mens restroom. (No wig, forms, makeup etc.)

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        Tina Que
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        There will be forms, wig and makeup that night.

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      Stephanie Bass
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      Registered On: November 30, 2019
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      Hi Tina as these other ladies have said as presenting as a lady use correct restroom as a lady would and make sure your toes are pointed the right direction away from potty ha ha ..

      Stephanie Bass

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        Tina Que
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        LOL

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      Sandy Honey
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      If I’m dressed as Sandy then I use the ladies restroom. I do the same when driving and have to stop at a rest stop. Some do have family restrooms but I usually just go in the ladies, do my business, wash my hands and leave. I would never use the men’s if I’m dressed in my girly clothes. I believe that would be just asking for trouble.

      Sandy

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      Cassie Jayson
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      Registered On: September 29, 2019
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      The answer is very simple. You use the facilities as you are presenting yourself as. Just go in take care of business, wash youyr hands and don’t linger unnessasarily. If someone want to talk be pleasent and smile.
      . .Cassie

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      Michelle McQueen
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      Registered On: June 14, 2021
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      Presenting as a woman then use the womens restroom whether you think you pass or not. A CD in a dress or skirt going into the mens restroom is asking for trouble.

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      Eileen Bach
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      If you are presenting as a woman, passable or not, use the Ladies. Please sit down to do your business, like a lady. Seems an obvious point to make, but I’ve seen otherwise.

      That’s nice you have a support group to out with. However, when more than 3-4 of you gals get together, it becomes obvious that you’re not genetic women. At most venues, people don’t care anyway. Why confirm any doubts by using any but the Ladies?

      If you are nervous using the facilities, even the walk to and from, do like most women do, grab a friend to go along. Safety in numbers, both at the table, or in the washroom.

      Hugs, Eileen

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      Angela Booth
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      I would ask the girls from the group as to which one they use. The venue may be one they have been to before and not have an issue with using the washroom that befits your appearance. 

       

       

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      • #633287
        Tina Que
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        The restaurant is one that they frequent prior to our social club gathering. You are absolutely right. They would know the right one to use.

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