What age range of women do you admire most?

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    Kristin H
    Registered On: November 2, 2020
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    When you are en femme, how do you see yourself, what kind of woman do you strive to be?

    Personally, I admire and try to emulate women that are in their mid 50’s like myself. I am always in awe at how they can juggle careers, household things, exercise classes and college age kids all while showing a strength and grace that is inspirational.

    I don’t really identify with women that are younger nor women that are older though they both have their own kind of awesome that is admirable.

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      Amanda Burton
      Registered On: January 15, 2020
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      Well I do try and dress conservatively, mainly within a 10 year frame of my age, but I do tend to try most ranges of clothes except teenagers gear. The person I emulated most and still tend to emulate is my late wife, not only in style but her outlook on life.

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      Sandra Saunders
      Registered On: November 10, 2020
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      Hi when dressed I try and look chic and probably dress too young but hey! What the hell I love shorter skirts and sexy clothes. Have a look at my pics, do I pass muster lol?.

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        Kristin H
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        I think you look absolutely lovely, Sandra 💗

        Your confidence and poise really seal the deal!

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      Heather Jameson
      Registered On: April 1, 2019
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      Definitely try to act my age, I’m heading for 57 at high speed so definitely can’t do the short skirt and heels gig anymore, I just look silly. So I go for the classy with a healthy dose of sexy thrown in. I like to think I can still turn a few heads but I like to think people will enjoy talking to me more than just looking at me.

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      Wendy Swift
      Registered On: May 11, 2020
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      Good question; this is one I never really thought about.

      I’ve always envisioned my style to my a high 20, 30 something professional career woman.  It shows as all my wigs are a solid colour with no greys.  I try to dress a little on the conservative side, with skirts just above the knee and sleeveless blouses.


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      Sarah Du Hessisse
      Registered On: September 16, 2020
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      I try to look my age 61 I would love to look like Maria Callas, the woman I most aspire too.

      Sarah xx

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      Kelli Marlowe
      Registered On: August 4, 2020
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      Answering is a little tricky. I emulate the women who were in their late teens/twenties when I was of that same age or younger.

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      Registered On: April 8, 2020
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      I picked the same age. I am 60 and I have made peace with my age.

      Same here Kay!

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      Kay Anderson
      Registered On: June 1, 2020
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      I picked the same age. I am 60 and I have made peace with my age.

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      Lucia Cicoletta
      Registered On: November 23, 2020
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      Hola! I see myself as a young Latina Tgirl who just wants to be with mature women and please them 🙂


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      stephanie plumb
      Registered On: November 17, 2018
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      I voted younger.

      Because the women I admire most, for their humour, their wisdom, their zest for life, their knowledge, their advice, their friendship, their support, and their enthusiasm –  are my dear friends on CDH.

      And they are  nearly all younger than me.

      I also follow the 1661 code of dress, and present as a much younger version of myself. Because inside I don’t feel anywhere nearly as old as I look.  And its wonderful what a wig , a smile and a bit of lippy can do.

      Stephanie P  😀

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      Rachel Cross
      Registered On: October 13, 2020
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      age is only a number. and that number is younger than i am now. i was in my 20’s and 30’s back in the 80’s. that was the best time of my life as far as having fun. so i like to dress young and sexy. i dont mind sticking out. the body maybe old but slap a mini skirt and some heel, plus a little bling and it looks and feels young again. its more about the feeling. make the body look young because the mind still thinks it can do everything a young body can do. im all about having fun and feeling young. i cant compete with the younger women but they accept me and like me for it. who doesnt want to be younger anyways?

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        Sarah Du Hessisse
        Registered On: September 16, 2020
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        Rachel your so right age is just a number,  For me getting dolled up makes me feel a whole lot younger and rejuvinated. I feel like a young woman just getting started on life. Love your positivity Rachel.

        Best Wishes

        Sarah xx

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    • #409297
      Grace Scarlett
      Registered On: July 26, 2020
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      Hi Kristin

      Sorry , I couldn’t vote as I really just wear and dress in whatever takes my fancy at the time. I am so NOT into this ” celebrity” culture, and I would never rush out to buy anything a celeb is posing in…..yes, even harry styles!!

      I am my own person, and the only thing I try to emulate is the last outfit I wore…..but what fun !!!

      Living the dream, grace 💋💋


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      Rei Durden
      Registered On: October 11, 2020
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      I’m in love with clothes that aren’t age appropriate, I just can’t help myself.

      I doubt I’d ever go out entirely enfemme the way I’d like, but I’ll probably sneak something wild into the outfit.

      I don’t know quite yet just how I’m going to present Rei, so right now I’m just an infant, stumbling and off balance.

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      Robyn Devine
      Registered On: October 24, 2020
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      I can find something in all 3 groups.

      For my age, which hovers close to 50, women my age and older have a level of grace, style, taste, professionalism, and wisdom that I respect and appreciate.

      Being I consider myself younger in spirit, I like how some younger women can be more bold.  Not too young but in about their mid/late 30’s.  They also have a way of creating their look or brand.  I’m trying to define that myself as I shop online.  Classy and sexy with a couple dashes of unique and feisty spirit!

      Robyn 🔥💃👠

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      Bettylou Cox
      Registered On: May 26, 2019
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      I chose “younger than me”, but what I really meant was women in the age group I appear to be…a difference of about 15 years.

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      Patty Phose
      Registered On: May 7, 2016
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      I try to look younger than I actually am when I dress. That lets me wear clothes that may not be appropriate for my actual age or even for  my looking younger age. Still, I enjoy wearing them and not acting or dressing my age. It’s fun.

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      Peggy Sue Williams
      Registered On: June 26, 2019
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      I find something of interest in women of all ages.

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      Regine Rich
      Registered On: October 9, 2020
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      I picked younger, but only because of my age, I love the look, style, and vitality of ladies in the 40-60 year range, Oh too be a little younger again,lol

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