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Registered On: September 30, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 129Has thanked: 252 timesBeen thanked: 703 timesMy wife and I attended a wedding on the weekend where she was a bridesmaid. And she looked gorgeous. (I didn’t mind being in drab at all. I was glad to be her man, and celebrate her friendship with her friend. )
We stayed in a hotel with a spa afterwards.
We had a great talk. She confessed that she had found my clothes a few times. And that she knew I had more makeup then she did.
She emphasized that she loved me no matter what. I told her I wasn’t interested in men, I wasn’t gay, or bi. ( She said yes she knew that.) I also told her I wasn’t transgender, wanting to become a full time woman. But there was something there that ‘compelled” me to need to cross dress.
She knows I wear stockings and tights in the cooler months. They literally help support my lower back, and legs. She knows I wear nail polish. We often go for pedicures together. And she time to time puts a hair color in my hair.
But this was the first time we discussed “the dress.” So to speak.
As a result I’ll be moving some of my stash into the wardrobe.
It was a bit of a painful, and tearful conversation. But a deeply honest one.
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Those are very difficult conversations to have…. I think all of us who have been painfully closeted for any period of time would agree. I commend you Mary Jane for “facing the music” and your wife for leading off with words of love and not judgment.
Hoping your journey as Mary Jane continues on a positive path…. hah…. we have so much in common…. Mary Jane…. Laura Jane….. lol
All the best
Laura
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- Registered On: November 11, 2020Topics: 30Replies: 592Has thanked: 1739 timesBeen thanked: 2282 times
It’s great that it’s out in the open now. My knows and is accepting too. Baby steps are good. I have been wearing heels every day since we had the talk. I wore a skirt once. And I have practiced makeup four times around her. She’s only seen me fully dressed twice. Once was when she walked in on me when I was taking pictures with my public wig. The only other time was when she was letting me out through our garage as I sneaked to the car to go out dressed in public. So, most of the time, I’ve still been her man (with heels). I’ve been making extra efforts to give her more attention and affection and telling her often how much I love her. Keep taking things slow and have fun!
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Registered On:Topics: 0Replies: 907Has thanked: 2885 timesBeen thanked: 2381 timesWonderful to hear 👗👗🌹
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- Registered On: October 22, 2015Topics: 8Replies: 521Has thanked: 574 timesBeen thanked: 1158 times
Hi Marry
I’m so happy that it went well, now you won’t have to try and hide
Paula XXX
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- Registered On: September 30, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 129Has thanked: 252 timesBeen thanked: 703 times
Hi Paula. Small baby steps. I’ll probably go slowly on dressing in front of her. Small steps.
I have been a “closested / private” cross dresser, who enjoys my craft on my own time, for a while now.
I’m not sure how far I want to explore and share this with my wife. For now its good that, “She knows, I know, she knows.”
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- Registered On: November 30, 2019Topics: 11Replies: 1303Has thanked: 12891 timesBeen thanked: 4229 times
Hi Mary nice to meet you and what a wonderful story and a gem of a woman you have there . as we say here baby steps girlfriend you have a nice start to your girly life as she new and waited for you to feel comfortable to answer the questions about Mary so happy for you and good luck slow and steady wins the race ha ha .
Stephanie Bass
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- Registered On: November 18, 2020Topics: 10Replies: 431Has thanked: 1852 timesBeen thanked: 2000 times
Where were most of the tears coming from?
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- Registered On: September 30, 2020Topics: 13Replies: 129Has thanked: 252 timesBeen thanked: 703 times
Cindy Lou. I wouldn’t say one of us was crying more than the other.
It’s a hard thing for a wife to know she isn’t the ‘only’ woman in the marriage. It’s a hard thing for the husband to reconcile his manhood with being feminine.
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- Registered On: October 9, 2020Topics: 21Replies: 600Has thanked: 6265 timesBeen thanked: 2588 times
Hi Mary Jane.
First off, congrats on that first step, it really is the hardest.
Second, the whole journey is not easy, for either party. Keep the conversation channels open, and as you have said, slow, small steps.
You will do great:-)
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