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Registered On: September 4, 2023Topics: 14Replies: 41Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 413 timesWife says she has a better husband since I started dressing as Adrianna 10 years ago.Has been supportive and our marriage is a lot better.I am much more open to her,knows I am staying dressing as Adrianna.No plans to transition for me.We are both known at the salon we both go to at.Plus I made her happy,wanted to see me dressed as female and her exes were never into this thinking she was weird.She has been accused of brainwashing me and it is not true,she told them this.Been a win/win situtation for us since I came out to her about this 10 years ago
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Registered On: December 20, 2022Topics: 1Replies: 173Has thanked: 162 timesBeen thanked: 731 timesYou are a lucky girl Adrianna. My wife wants to leave me because of my wanting to express my feminine side. She does see this behavior as normal, and she does not understand why I love expressing my feminine side. I would hope she comes to see this and accepts this is who I am. I am not hopeful this will happen.
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Congratulations Adrianna, what a great partnership you guys have. Keep being Adrianna!
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Such a lovely thing to say to a young girl just developing as many of us are.
I know for myself I think that Stephanie is no older than maybe 14 or 15 and learning and changing fast; and one of the changes is sensitivity and warmth that is new for the male side of me it’s part of the inner development that is expressed in the outer wearing the clothes of women. I love all of it that’s happening3 users thanked author for this post.
- Registered On: October 6, 2019Topics: 8Replies: 112Has thanked: 858 timesBeen thanked: 541 times
It has always been my desire to be a full-time housewife and I am pleased to hear you had a nice, long tenure as one.
My late wife and I both wished for this arrangement but due to economic exigencies, I was never able to relinquish paid work outside of the house.
Nevertheless, during my years in a “regular” job as a teacher/lecturer, I would be able at weekends and during the school holidays to present fully as a woman at home and take responsibility for all the domestic work.
Monday mornings and the beginnings of new school terms were always a harsh disappointment as I’d again have to don drab and present at work as a man.Love,
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- Registered On: September 4, 2023Topics: 14Replies: 41Has thanked: 0 timesBeen thanked: 413 times
Thays really nice x
My situation is similar. I think it’s because once we’re out, as long as things work OK, it’s so relaxing with no secrets.
We talk so much more openly and shopping is better lol
Same here,Shopping is more
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- Registered On: April 20, 2022Topics: 8Replies: 407Has thanked: 1395 timesBeen thanked: 2052 times
I just revealed myself to my wife 7 days ago and since has been a dream come true! I thought it would be the hardest thing I would ever have to do but it was the easiest. She listened asked the questions and all went well. I hope so many others are as lucky as us.
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Omg. You so lucky!
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Thays really nice x
My situation is similar. I think it’s because once we’re out, as long as things work OK, it’s so relaxing with no secrets.
We talk so much more openly and shopping is better lol
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My situation with my wife is so much better now that I am out as Stephanie. She has a new girlfriend to go shopping with and to lunch and dinner and the theater. And I am so much happier not worrying about being discovered in my female clothes because I am everyday openly out and about as normal as well, it should be. And when I’m dressed I feel different on the inside as well more aware more sensitive more gentle more caring what a wonderful thing Stephanie brought to me later in life. Mr Steve.
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- Registered On: April 20, 2022Topics: 8Replies: 407Has thanked: 1395 timesBeen thanked: 2052 times
I just recently came out to my wife. Once things got back to our new normal we planned a shopping spree at the mall for both of us and a girls night-in. She told me she now has a best friend, a husband and now a girlfriend that she can talk about anything with! Lots of our conversations are girl talk about nails, clothing and dressing.
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- Registered On: September 29, 2022Topics: 10Replies: 261Has thanked: 1627 timesBeen thanked: 1650 times
Interesting, I wonder what my wife would say. She’s totally supportive and encouraging, even enthusiastic. She likes spending time with Nikki, and I can dress however and whenever I want, and she doesn’t even mind that I came out as nonbinary. She’s bought me my first heels, my favorite dress, even breast forms, but… would she say it makes me a better husband, I wonder. I’m certainly more open, more emotionally available, more forthcoming about what’s going on with me in general, and more attentive to her needs. And she definitely likes that I can be a gal pal with her and her bff… but does it make me a better husband? I mean, I hope it does and we’re closer than ever, but… I guess I’ll have to ask her. I think I’m a better partner for not hiding the full and complete me, but when I think of my role as a husband, I realize that my growth areas there are still growth areas, my imperfections every bit as imperfect: I still get grumpy when I get sick, or if I get too hungry, and I’d rather futz around in the garage and tinker on motorcycles than clean the bathroom (even though I’m wearing lingerie under my coveralls). I don’t think it makes me a better husband, just a better person in general.
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- Registered On: September 29, 2022Topics: 10Replies: 261Has thanked: 1627 timesBeen thanked: 1650 times
She said I’m a better partner because I’m a whole person, and that the husband role is an antiquated gender role/stereotype! She’s pretty awesome!
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Well when I got laid offf from work my wife asked me if i would like to be the housewife. Of course i did. It was the most wonderrful 5 years of my life, living as Julie. One nite she came home from work and told me i was a much better housewife than she ever was,,,,,,,,,oh and you better not have a headache tonight. Husband? Who needs him!!!
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Would you accept better person rather than better husband as a definition of what the emergence of your female side is producing? In my case I think it makes me better human being and therefore a better mate.
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I still get grumpy, force of habit lol?
Like yourself I’m still happy out in the garage or garden but I actually enjoy housework and helping in the kitchen.
No idea why, perhaps all part of being able to let go? Who knows but life is better.
I’ll bet I’m not the only one around here wearing a mini skirt, tights and pink jumper under my overalls, just never spotted them lol
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That is just wonderful to hear!!
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- Registered On: January 8, 2020Topics: 9Replies: 806Has thanked: 7572 timesBeen thanked: 3411 times
Adrianna –
That is wonderful that your wife is so accepting and has those feelings. It took a long time for my wife to accept Suzanne. Part of her acceptance started when we went for mani-pedi’s together and she said it was okay if I got color on my toes. Since then we have shopped online together for clothes, bras and wigs. We’ve gone shopping in person in a shoe store, thrift stores and regular stores. I’ve only tried on shoes but she will have me hold things up to myself to get an idea if they will fit (I don’t think either of us is ready for me to try things on in the store). There are days that she says we should have a girl day and I dress and we hang out together. She will help style my wig and help with make up. Other than my therapist she is the only one that knows I dress. She says I’m more relaxed and caring but still a bit rough around the edges.
You’re lucky to have such an understanding and accepting SO.
XOXO
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Suzanne trying things on in the store it’s really fun for me especially the second hand shops that have nice changing rooms and mirrors and a supportive wife to give feedback about how it looks on me. I sure hope you soon developed to the point of trying that yourself. Hugs,
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Thank you Suzanne thank you Marlene hugs Stephanie
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I think my GG friends see me as a better friend than most men.
“You have an advantage. You understand women better, and you can see things from both points of view.”
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- Registered On: July 24, 2021Topics: 5Replies: 382Has thanked: 3447 timesBeen thanked: 1786 times
My wife has said that I’m more loving to her and calmer since I came out two years ago. I’m much happier these days now that I can dress at home anytime I want. So, it’s a win-win for us too! I’m very happy that you’re in the same boat, Adrianna!
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I love your reply thank you for sharing
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