Would you like to meet another crossdresser?

How badly would you like to meet someone, just for friendship who crossdresses?

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  • Yes, most certainly!
  • No, i want to keep it to myself.
  • It is something i would like to do but i am undecided.
  • Who knows? if the opportunity arose i might or might not.
  • I have already met one or many other CDs in person but only as guys
  • I have already met one or many other CDs in person while presenting as a woman
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  • #237217
    Fiona-Ann Moss
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    Hi Girls, yes its that time of the week again! poll time!!

    Now this subject is quite close to home for me and i think it’s a natural progression in many of our journeys. To sum it up in a nutshell, yes, i would like to meet someone else who is a crossdresser, mainly because, they also know what it’s like, unlike a non-crossdresser who might not have a clue. It would be nice to share stories, life experiences etc, with no sexual strings attached, just purely friendship. Now this i suppose, could be a dodgy subject, let’s keep it clean!!! i dont want anyone to discuss any sexual motivations, just purely friendship and the fact that you would like to meet up with someone else and just talk, have a bit of fun or socialising. There, that wasn’t so bad!!

    Love and kisses. Fiona xxxx

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    • #454178
      Kay Lambert
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      I voted yes. In these difficult and stressful times, it just makes a lot of sense to be able to talk out life experiences, current challenges a lot of us face and step back and share a laugh or two. I’m all for it.

      Kay👩🏻‍🦳💋

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      Vecca Senn
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      I think it would be exhilarating to meet and just rock out with my Vecca out! That being said, public places would be a HUGE hurdle.

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      Katey Doe
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      Hi Fiona,

      Great post, Yes I would want to meet another CD, love making friends. I’m sure I pass by CD’s all the time. I think that would be a great day. Hugs – Katey

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      Effie Fulk
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      Yes yes! I so wish I could have a friend to have a girls day or evening out together! It would be so fun and supportive! NC here

      💖❤️

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    • #454127
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      I would love to meet another CD to be able to hang out with and go shopping or anything else for that matter. It would be nice to have a friend that understands how I think.

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    • #436955
      Hippie
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      Hell yeah I would, All I see is farm people and rarely see anyone else. I would love to meet another CD or trans. No matter how far or little journey they been on. I want to meet everyone.

      I even wrote a little article about just that. Its titled Feeling Like You don’t Fit in? After I wrote that I am 100% sure I want to meet people.

      So let’s do this Northern Wisconsin here, and I have a coffee can full of coins for coffee. Heck I will invite you to my dumpy farm house and meet the animals.

      I’m ready

      Hippie

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      Blink To Pink Enchanted
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      Fiona. That is a very interesting question. Carries a lot of self characterization and probably a bit of courage. I still have such insecurities and could well be jealous! Overall there are so many differences we may have but in one important immovable way, we are linked.
      Very good question.
      You’re the best!

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    • #436754
      Ginny Virginia
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      Yes, absolutely, but only dressed. I want to look my best!

      Hugs,

      Ginny

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      rebekka moore
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      I would love to!!!!!

      In fact for a while (it’s been sometime now), I would see this beautiful an statuesque gurl at the grocery store. Everytime I went to approach her however something or someone got in the way and I lost my opportunity. I did not want her to think I was someone stalking her, so I would not follow her around!

      She was beautiful, tall long legs, great red hair, and I so dearly wanted to meet her in hopes we could be gurl friends.
      I have not seen her in sometime. I would love to meet someone, but don’t know how or where, and my SO would probably not be thrilled by this.
      🙁

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    • #436421
      Amanda Woods
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      Absolutely, without question!!!  Would like to hook up and go places, ie shopping, clubs, etc. I would love to go to some CD/TG events, find hookups to help with my look/makeup. Wish I could be girly 24/7, maybe someday. Love to you all my sisters, stay safe.

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      Mary Priscilla
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      Absolutely yes! When I decided to seriously pursue this life-long dream, I met a few CD’s before the damnable pandemic set-in. Since then, I have met many possible local area CD girls who, like me, are anxious to socialize. There is another group in our Portland, OR area (Rose City T-Girls) that offers similar friendship opportunities and they host social events periodically.

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      Penelope Lauren
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      Yes I would love to meet up other like minded people this is something I’ve wanted for years, so if anyone ever manages to arrange a meet up after all this covid madness, then please send me an invite x

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      Hilda Beaumont
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      I have been lucky enough to meet Laura Lovett in Brighton during the summer and we had a delightful chat over coffee; both of us en femme. Recently in the lock down I’ve made contact with several cross dressers and we have had email conversations, shared photos and kept each other company in these difficult times.
      HRxx

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    • #436357
      MelanieElizabeth
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      Absolutely. Especially for people that are new to this. It would be great to meet a kindred spirit. Years ago I remember one individual that would come into a pub I used to frequent. This was a dive bar mostly working guys for happy hour. She would show up in a dress and wig and just have a drink or two and go. She didn’t engage with the patrons much only the barmaids.  She always seemed depressed though. People would snicker or say things under there breath about her but nothing to her face. At the time I didn’t know about myself or wasn’t honest about it so I never spoke to her. I did want to though out of curiosity but I knew if I did the guys I hung with would have ridiculed me. So I never did now I wish had her experience I’m sure would have been interesting or at the least I should have just said hello kindly to her. No wonder why she always seemed unhappy even like minded people weren’t always kind to her. I heard she died a few years ago and was saddened. She had guts to walk into a dump like that I didn’t have the balls to extend a common courtesy. Unfortunately when we judge others or succumb to peer pressure we end up missing out on opportunities and mistreating others.

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    • #436030
      Alisha Alex
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      I haven’t met a crossdresser in real life and I would like to be confident and willing to step out of the comfort zone of my own home and venture forth into the real world. Meet some sisters. Form some sort of club to hang out or so.

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    • #436025
      Kelly Terry
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      Given that I’m trying to arrange a meetup in Ontario, Canada I have to go with “Yes” but it does depend on the setting. I’m still a bit shy so not a public place and absolutely not for dating of any kind. Some secluded place where we all are from CDH is what I’m aiming for.

      /kt

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    • #436015
      Trisha Smith
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      I absolutely want to meet other like minded people. Unfortunately the Rona has so many scared to socialize and the fact that no one sees an end to this curse China has bestowed upon us that we may not have the opportunity for a very very long time.

       

      Trisha

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    • #435978
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      I would love to meet other girls like me, the only problem is whenever I would meet one or someone I wanted to get to know more, go out with or go shopping about 80% of them would try to hook up with me. Now I know there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone or develop an attraction to someone else after all we are not biologically female and most of us are attracted to women because that’s what we love, we love to be female therefore it happens. I have tried to have that friend who you can go shopping, talk about girl stuff and go out in public with. Unfortunately I haven’t found one yet lol, I keep getting hit on so I just tell all my stories to the next one that comes along my way. I am only into bio females, I do think other CD or TG women are beautiful but it’s just not what I’m looking for. I’m sure it’s a blast but someday I would like to find that sister who knows and feels what it’s like to be this way, maybe someday!!

      Katie B 😊

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      • #436028
        Alisha Alex
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        Before I join this site I was a member of fb CD  groups. And there was a couple of them that I met online in the past and I trusted them at first but later on they asked to hook up and exchange some inappropriate pics. I felt kinda disappointed tbh. I felt like those are not real sisters.

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          I’m with you on that one

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    • #435946
      Tammy Johnson
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      I think it could be fun, especially when I go in for my full makeover and go out afterwards.  I think it could be great to get feedback on clothing, stores and makeup and also just hang out too.

      Is there anyone else on here in Denver Colorado?

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    • #434718
      Neha M
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      Thanks for this great question! I answered’yes’ most certainly. Thats the person i would prefer meeting after i transform to Neha.. i have so many stories to share, talk, fix her hair, check and touch her earrings, hugs, kisses on cheeks… if friendship can be taken further, i would be more than happy… Neha needs friends.. 😍

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      Prudence
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      Hi Fiona!!  Good question. I have met 5 Ladies from CDH! And 3 others at a bar I go to. It’s nice to know we are not alone!!   Hugs  Pru

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      Peggy Sue Williams
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      Prior to COVID, my wife and I were active in CD affairs.  She with wives and GFs of CDs and I with other CDs.  When things return to normal, we want to resume social activities.  For now, considering our age group, we are conducting only essential activities.

      It appears from reading CDH profiles that there are a great number of girls here in the greater Atlanta and Southeast area, which indicates potential for a local CDH chapter?

      Anyone interested in a local CDH chapter?

       

       

       

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    • #434651
      Mindy Mills
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      Same here, I would like to meet another cross dresser to hang out with, go places with and chat with. Have talked to a couple cross dressers on Facebook but it was a no go because one wanted a friends with benefits kinda thing and another kept asking me to take her out to buy her things. Both creeped me out so much I blocked them. So if I where to meet another CD it would be in drab mode first just to make sure she isn’t creepy.

    • #434603
      Mary Francis
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      I attended a support group meeting of CD’ers several years ago.  There were about 15 CD’ers there, some with their SO’s.  It was a great meeting and everyone there was friendly and fun.  The group has since disbanded.  I also have attended CD conferences in Atlanta and Erie, PA.  I had a great time at both of those events.

      I have not had the opportunity to meet anyone outside of those group events.  I have some concerns about security and safety.  I would definitely want to have the first meeting as Mr. Drab.

       

      Mary

    • #434600
      Elizabeth Jenkins
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      If 5 percent of men cross-dress then  most likely I’ve already met a couple of hundred crossdressers and didn’t know.

      Elizabeth

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      Cynthia Hughes
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      In September of 2019, I was able to meet up with another local CD, in guy mode of course.

      It was great being able to meet up with someone in real life and be able to talk about having the same issues from growing up.

      We would love to be able to get out again for coffee but we all know how that is working out right now, maybe when this quiets down again.

      Cynthia

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    • #434530
      Stevie Steiner
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      Of course I would want to meet any of my crossdressing friends.  Hence the term friend, tho I know that word doesn’t mean as much on the internet.  Way too much of me cannot be properly conveyed over a computer.  I’m more fun ” live”. 😁

       

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      • #436493
        Krista
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        Hi Stevie, so the next time I’m in Ontario (post-covid of course) we’ll have to go out for coffee/tea.  My brother lives in the Toronto area and I’m supposed to help him go through our mother’s stuff (she died over five years ago and it is still all in storage).  Take care my internet friend.  Hugs, Krista.

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    • #434528
      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      When we are able to meet socially it would Fantastic, I am looking forward to the opportunity.

       

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    • #434513
      Genevïéve
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      Sorry… this is not the answer you were looking for… but I would L❤VE to befriend a GG who is non judgmental to help with my makeup and talk everything girly. My wife has limited acceptance. I envy those girls whose wives/girlfriends are fully accepting…

      L❤VE

      Gen… ❤

      • #434679
        Caly James
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        I totally agree. This would be the perfect and ideal situation!!

         

        Caly

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          Genevïéve
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          Yes… I’m sure there are some willing GG’s out there Caly. We just have to find one. I posted an Ad online a couple of months ago for a GG g/f but just got trolls responding. Not surprising actually… I am at a loss…

          Gen… ❤

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          • #434828
            Caly James
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            This would have to be a very careful search. You don’t know what or who you may attract. I would like to see there are loyal GGs out there to befriend, learn from and build a great friendship. It will happen when we least expect it I suppose!

             

            💋😘Caly

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    • #434493
      Leslie
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      I would love to meet another CD, I suspect that they are all around me. But right now it is hard to just meet someone by chance in the wild (as it were). And no one here admits to being local, I did locate someone about 15 miles away. But again until I can get vaccinated that is not a real option. So for now I guess it is limited to walks around the neighborhood weather permitting (I find 30F or so in a skirt a bit put offing). Will it does give me a chance to work on my makeup skills for when I can get out.

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      Sandy Craig
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      It was critical!

      I have a respectable amount of CD/Trans friends I love.  Numbers…well not sure, I had a number recently and it must be 20 to 30 or 35 I guess. I cherish my friendship with these wonderful people. They are all awesome and we all go out which is what makes it so fun.

      Co-Hosting a lunch every other month has opened up a reliable group of quality friends and while those I see or chat with regularly might be around 7 or 8 the others I still feel close to.

      Sandy

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      Lee Ann Rakers
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      I would like to know her “story”. How did she get here.

      Lee Ann

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      Holly Tygressa
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      It would be nice to meet someone who was a friend who you could actually talk to face to face or text with. It gets lonely being a crossdresser. I think it would be fun to share and maybe even shop with someone else

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      Sidney Silver
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      I’ve been out many times to local-area (Seattle) activities for both trans women and cross dressers alike. I’ve discovered I’m part of a large, diverse, and durable community of beautiful ladies that are kind, caring, and like to have a good time. Weekly activities abound, inclusive of all. I’m very lucky to have such robust support!

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    • #241505
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      I would very much like to meet a fellow CD girlfriend/sister. There’s so much I’d like to learn, get tips, share ideas and hear stories or experiences. That’s why I like the Chat room because everyone is so supportive and open.

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    • #241495
      Stevie65
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      I would love to meet other CDR’s. I think it would strengthen the community and actually create more friendships. I am near Vegreville Alberta if any one is interested to meet even out to Edmonton.

       

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      Heather Jameson
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      I’ve met quite a few over the years, I have a few friends up around Toronto I go out with a few  times a year and I have a couple of girls close to home I met in a therapy group, we usually get together at least once a month for lunch and shopping kind of thing, always a good afternoon. It’s nice to have people who understand you and have gone through the same things as you to talk to.

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      Penelope Lauren
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      To be able to meet another girl just as friends would be amazing, anyone up for a day out?

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      Roni Calin
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      Hell ya I would not be  the shy wallflower that I am if I would met somebody when was in my 20s

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      Camryn Occasionnel
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      I responded “Yes, most certainly!” But after reading about Fiona-Ann’s three disappointing experiences, maybe I should qualify that response just a bit.

      I would like to meet up with a small group of CDs, say, two or three. Even better, CDs from CDH! (But never one-on-one.) I’m still undecided about whether I would want to meet up dressed or in drab. I’m leaning toward dressed, however, but that presents another set of problems: I have little in the way of presentable wardrobe, even age-appropriate wardrobe; no jewelry; poor makeup skills; and only just making my first fledgling attempts walking in heels. So, although I’d love to meet them, they may not want to meet me!

      Then, of course, there’s the logistics of such a meet-up. I would have to rent a room near the venue where I could dress and do my makeup to the best of my meager abilities — I’m far too closeted to leave home already en femme. And I’m not sure I can overcome my fear of “driving while dressed,” or worse, having to take a taxi from the hotel to the venue.

      I have an ongoing fantasy, and that is, one day to be able to attend a conference like the Keystone Conference, where I could meet and enjoy the company of so many like-minded CDs. It is just a fantasy, and I doubt that I’ll ever actually go. But a gurl can dream!

      Another great poll, Fiona-Ann, keep ‘em coming.

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        Leslie
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        I so understand your feelings. I’m new to this and don’t have many clothes or great skill at doing my makeup. But I think I that I would love to be able to go out with one or more CD friends. As I say a girl can dream! Good luck in finding one or more local friends!

        Hugs Leslie

         

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        Fiona-Ann Moss
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        Hi Camryn, dont! let my experiences put you off, i may have just been unlucky. I would like to note also that of all the experiences i had, i was in drab too. I think, at least, for myself, it’s the way to go because i am more confident drab, however, if i was to get to know a person better, then i more than likely would go femme. I find it a sad fact that for many of us, our lifestyle seems to attract some unwanted attention. The best way is to put it all down to experience and try again, maybe the next time might be more fruitful!!

        Love and kisses, Fiona xxx

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      I would like to be part of a group of like minded girls. To meet and enjoy discussions about dressing, makeup and other related things but not for any type of committed one on one relationship. Even here there have been a few that have made lewd comments that honestly I don’t enjoy or appreciate. Friendship is all I would want and all that I would give. I do love my life the way it is and have no desire to make it complicated beyond a simple gathering once in a while.

      Carla

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      Vicki Smythe
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      I would love to meet another CD. Just to be able to openly talk with someone else that understands where you are and what you’re experiencing. I just need to get over my fears of going out in public and how well I may or may not pass. But I definitely don’t want to embarrass the other person with how I look.

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        Olivia Livin
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        Its easier when you are meeting another CD for the first time. You don’t necessarily have to pass and if they know you’re ‘newer’, they keep their expectations in line. You can work up to a meeting too, by PM, email or phone first to get a feel for the person you are going to meet.

        When meeting my first CDH contact, we did it with our SO’s in drab after talking back and forth for a bit. It went very well. We continue to be in contact and visit on occassion. Its good for the soul.

    • #237936
      Patty Phose
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      I love meeting other CD’s and have met many over the years.

    • #237930
      Mae
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      Hi Doll; You were the first contact I had as a Dress. I started Dressing last October 2018 and joined CDH in mid January 2019. I visited the site multiple times before I actually joined … I was so anxious about being outed over something I was excited about but knew nothing about. Would there be a fee or paper trail. Would it appear on Facebook or one of the numerous “surprise remember this” that your phone or computer will do and make public. Somewhere between turbulent torture & feast of femininity … I suspect for this Crossdressing Closet Girl meeting another Dresser would be a similar roller coaster ride of emotions than to step out of my Closet, Dressed and appear in public … 😅 whew talk about an anticipated emotional overload

    • #237782
      Paula F
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      Over the years, I have met many other gurl’s like me.  I have met them when I and they were both dressed, when I was dressed and they were endrab, and when I was drab and they were dressed.

      I met the first CD, other than myself way, way back when I was 16 and she was a wonderful help to me and it’s been 44 years of meeting and losing track of other ladies, but I do enjoy making new friends of every type.

      It’s easy to know when a girl is out for her first or near first time, and I think it is our responsibility to get acquainted with them when we see them and let them know we are there to help if and when they need it.  Don’t be pushy, especially if you notice that ‘deer in the headlights’ look, but do introduce yourself and invite them sit at your table or shop along with or whatever you are doing.  But, please let them know they are not alone.

      PaulaF

    • #237762
      Danny Amone
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      Of course, people would like to meet others who have the same interests.

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    • #237748
      Paula1
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      I would love to just to be able to share and go out with as mates ( Friends only )

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      • #238628
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        Exactly this.

        Just hang out, shopping, coffee, get the nails done, more shopping, cheeky cocktail, talk about light things that are mostly irrelevant, – maybe dancing until 9.30pm, then home for cocoa, slippers and a good book.

        Lovely.

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    • #237609
      Gigi Mathews
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      100% yes, Fiona. I think it would be so nice to actually meet and perhaps build a friendship with someone who really gets it. Someone to dress with, exchange thoughts with, sharing makeup tips and anything girly. My wife is an amazing supporter but, can she truly understand. Also she wouldn’t mind.

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    • #237608
      Fiona-Ann Moss
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      Hi Girls. I must say that i am pleased with the answers so far, especially as it seems that most of us want to meet up with someone else who crossdresses. I mean, who wouldnt? as long as it was safe and just for friendship.

      I have had Three experiences so far, and all of them have been a total waste of time. One, well, i got friendly online and decided to meet up drab….. the person never turned up after me waiting there for over an hour at a pre-determined time, since then, no contact either way, still baffles me to this day.

      Number Two, and this is what you all should watch for…… This person was the nicest person you could talk to, suffice to say, i met up in a pub, we talked, the convo was flowing well, then out of the blue, i was shown pictures of his male organs for which i politely refused and left, but not before him asking to go back to his flat and, well…… i’ll leave that one to you.

      Number Three, much the same as number two, but for one small difference, once again we chatted via messenger, we were going to meet, but he spoiled it by posting me very indecent images via messenger of himself, suppose i was lucky to be pre-warned.

      So this girls, is why i am so cagey about meeting anyone, in my limited experience, there does seem to be an ulterior motive for many, agreed, not everyone is like that, thank goodness, but do i really deserve that? am i such a bad person? All i want is a simple friendship!!!!! is that really too much to ask for?? 🙁

      Love and kisses, Fiona-Ann xxx

      • #238786
        Jessica James
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        Hi Fiona

        I would agree with all you have said, I would love to meet other crossdressers for friendship but have been wary for the same reason as you have expressed in your experiences.

        This can be a lonely experience and sometimes I feel there are not any ‘people like me’ who are nearby.  Maybe I live in a dressing free zone or the north of England is where CDs tend to keep themselves to themselves.

        it would be great to have friendship with someone with the same interests and who understands.

        Jessica x

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      • #237934
        Mae
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        Hi Doll; You were the first person I had communicated with after I started Dressing last October. Now after a year of Dressing I’ve may have become to open. When I first started Dressing I had no idea why I had been bitten by the Femme Bug so I went on line and found CDH. I visited the site multiple times before I actually signed up. I was an anxious mess. The thought of being Outed over something I absolutely knew nothing about and yet … I signed up. I must admit it was the sexual charge that drove me. I still can’t explain my fascination with my new found femininity. But at this point I think I’m at a point of maturing with my balance between David & Davida. To be able to Dress and have some Girl Talk at a Café or Coffee shop would be so exciting but the reality is I’m a Crossdressing Closet Girl and chatting others up on my keyboard, perhaps sharing photos of lasted hairstyles and outfits is probably as close as I’ll ever get. But like you said in one of your comments, “ Never say Never”

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      • #237902
        Paula F
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        Fiona, it def isn’t you hon.  Since the internet made it so ‘convenient’ to make friends with total anonymity, most of the people who like to go to chat or IM have had plenty of people ‘ghosting’ them and the dishonest people seem to be as thick as thieves.

        I do miss the 70’s and 80’s, when you would actually meet real people, and usually you were both already someplace public when you did.  It was very much easier back then than it is today, regardless of what the techie folks say about the internet.

         

        PaulaF

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      • #237853
        patty williams
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        Hi Fiona ,

        No it is not too much to ask for a simple friendship.

        As you said it seems people categorize us as having a sexual motive to what we do.

        And they have a ulterior motive.

        I hope you find that friend and you will, you are great person.

        You know real friends are hard to come by and I am finding out one of the most valuable things you can find.

        when you find that friendship cherish it.

        Patty

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      • #237733
        Alice Underwire
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        Hi Fiona,

        So sorry that your three experiences did not turn out as you had hoped they would.

        Alice

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      • #237665
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        Fiona, darling, let’s make it a new year’s resolution to meet up.

        If you don’t want to see pictures of my dangle bits, we’ll get along famously!

        Love Laura

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        • #238333
          Fiona-Ann Moss
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          Lol Laura, no!! i dont like dangly bits!! i dont even like my own!! It would be nice to meet up, trouble is, on first encounter with anyone, i’d rather be drab and see how it goes. I guess, it’s a bit of a negative answer, but i’d feel more confident that way at first. I do know however, that one day, i am going to have to just go for it and go femme outside!!

          Fiona xxx

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            As long as you don’t mind if I dress for the occasion, I won’t mind how you dress!

            Love Laura

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      • #237616
        Gigi Mathews
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        That is really unfortunate Fiona. I hope that is not what I can expect. I want to meet a sister who is like me. They must be out there somewhere. I am. I hope your experiences do not stifle your desire to connect with other CDs Fiona……your sister Gigi

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      • #237614
        Molly
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        Dear Fiona;

        Your expectations are not unreasonable!… There are people out there who are as good as any of the girls on this site.  Don’t give up!.

        It may be that your contacts are coming from the wrong place, and their expectations are all wrong. Find a CD group, or a Trans resource group and ask these people where and how they’re meeting people… It’s really very interesting to listen what they say and where they’ve had disasters and successes.  I’ve heard a few stories just being around some of these groups, and some of the statements have really made my jaw drop … Who would have thought that there’s a (very small) group in a vintage car restoration community?

        Hugs and warmest wishes for your success

        -Molly

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    • #237440
      Olivia Livin
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      I have met and plan to meet even more, relating and sharing in person is such a great experience. Doing so with a few of the girls from this site who have made a big intellectual impression on me would be even more awesome.

      I also been lucky enough to have met and become friends with a couple gg’s. The conversations seem quite different from those with other CD’s or even with my very supportive SO.

      Olivia

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    • #237391
      Bettylou Cox
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      Yes, yes, yes! I have a few online friendships, but only know of a couple of other local folks, who, unlike me, aren’t retired and so have limited opportunity for meetings.

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    • #237387
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      Most definitely!!!

      Why keep it to yourself when sharing is so much more fun!

      I’ve met and am friends with some trans girls, and drag queens (well, one drag queen!), but it’s not the same – lovely though they are.

      Any girls who fancy a day trip or a night out in Brighton, 2nd November is the date!

      I’m planning a December one too.

      I love going out in Brighton.

      Love Laura

       

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    • #237386
      Alice Underwire
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      Hi Fiona,

      Another great question.  I have met with several CD’s in person.  It is fun to go shopping with another CD or just visit together.

      If one is planning to meet another CD be safe and get to know them prior to your meeting.

      Alice

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      • #237596
        Fiona-Ann Moss
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        That is very sound advice Alice 🙂 xx

        Love and kisses, Fiona xx

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    • #237356
      patty williams
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      I would love to meet one that we had enough in common to be friends.

      I had a close internet friendship with a transgender person but I seemed to have really messed it up .

      My heart is still aching over that loss.

      It would be nice to have some  c/d trans friends to talk to and go out with .

      I think I may just be too boring.

       

      Patty

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      • #238184
        Camryn Occasionnel
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        Patty!?!? You’re a crossdresser! And a CDH member! How could you be boring???

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      • #237599
        Fiona-Ann Moss
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        Awww Patty, please dont call yourself boring! in fact, you are far from it. You have shown here at CDH that you like getting involved in the forums, adding your bit of useful advice. No hun, it’s the other person’s loss, you are worth far more than that 🙂 . Oh! and remember, you still have friends here!

        Love and kisses, Fiona-Ann xxx

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      • #237382
        Bobbie1951
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        Oh, Patty, i am sure your not boring.  Everyone has a story to tell.  Just let yourself out and there are those out there who would be fascinated by you.

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    • #237346
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      I marked the other box, please try to understand. If the opportunity was presented and I felt safe then sure it would be ok to meet a girl like me. However my top priority would me to become close friends with GG, I feel to futher my journey as a woman I need to associate with GG, so as to become more femine in my ways and manors.Just think how cool it would be to have GG friends who you share life with.

      Robin

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    • #237327
      Bobbie1951
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      Thanks for the question and starting this discussion.  i would love to meet one or more other crossdressers just for understanding, companionship and mentoring.  i am trying to come out of the closet at least part time by You Tube Videos and articles and hopefully a makeover or two, but i am not at all certain i am doing anything right.  my few makeup attempts beyond nails and lipstick have been DISASTERS.  Clownish is too gentle!  Even nails and lipstick are not even at the level of the average 13 year old.  i would just like to be able to go out for lunch or supper with one or more kindred spirits, dressed up and let Bobbie have some fun.

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    • #237324
      Michelle Liefde
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      Thanks for another great poll!  I am looking forward to this Spring when Gwenn and I attend a conference, this will also be my first time out unless something happens between now and then.  So yup gonna get a chance to meet a few folks.

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    • #237321
      IsabelB
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      Yet another great question, Fiona

      My answer – ‘I have already met one or many other CDs in person while presenting as a woman’

      However, had you asked that same question just a few months ago, it would have been the ‘Yes, most certainly’ option.

      I took the opportunity this year to finally get myself to a couple of events where I could dress for the whole weekend in the company of many like minded people.  It was wonderful – it all felt so very natural and comfortable and certainly reinforced my feelings about dressing.  So the plan now is to attend as many of these type of events as I can, which, for me, means travelling to the UK as unfortunately I have yet to find anything similar in Ireland.

      Isabel xx

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    • #237311
      Bettie Houston
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      Yes; I definitely would. Not necessarily for any sexual encounters but for friendship and mentoring. I would love to have a friend to share experiences and frustrations with, someone who could be a sounding board re; makeup, fashion, etc

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    • #237300
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      Definitely. Anyone who I could talk to freely in person with about this would be wonderful. Granted I wouldn’t want to go in with any preconceptions for what I’d get out of it but even if it was just that I’d have another friend then it would be worth it.

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    • #237283
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      Sorry Fee! I added the last two options… as “Other” was just too generic. 🙂 Gladly, I have met lots of our sisters in person. Both presenting as Gaby as just going out for lunch with “the guys”.

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    • #237264
      Aoife
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      Big yes. It can be hard to keep myself contained when I meet one in person, not wanting to break whatever they’re feeling, ntm how much I would prefer to befriend one closer to my age. It would be such a relief to have that connection!

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    • #237262
      Rozalyne Richards
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      I said yes definitely, because it would give me someone who knows exactly how I feel, we could discuss the latest fashion’s and other issues, and maybe we could go out en femme to a venue or just for a meal, I’m sure it would give me more courage to step out of that closet door and face the world x maybe sometime in the future you never know what will happen xxxxx

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    • #237237
      Kathryn Lynn Peters
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      A qualified yes… but ONLY for friendship and support. Anything more scares me!

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    • #237236
      Sally Drinkwater
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      I would rather meet women who are sympathetic to the cause and would feel more comfortable meeting their other CD friends.  (does  that make sense?)

      Anyhow, I will be 70 in a couple of years and never met one yet so what’s the chance of that happening?

      Sally xx

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      • #237241
        Fiona-Ann Moss
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        Never say never Sally!!!

        Fiona xxxx

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          Sally Drinkwater
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          I think it’s the pipe and slippers that put people off Fi  🙂

          Sally xx

    • #237232
      Ruby Smith
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      Definitely. Would be awesome to be around someone who feels the same and to have a friendship with. Would help me to get mentally prepared to go out all dolled up.

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    • #237229
      Molly
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      Fi!;

      Sorry, had to answer Other, because the option I wanted wasn’t there.

      I HAVE joined a local group and it’s been so much better than I could have even imagined.    There are girls at all stages and it really really made a big difference to my mental state.    I love the forums and the occasional times I get a chance to talk on the Chat, but having an evening a month to dress and be with other girls has been such a sanity saver for me.

      I would answer ‘Yes most certainly’; But I have noticed that some of the girls crave a little more than friendship.   Still love the group, but a little wary of one-on-one type get together type invitations, so it’s a guarded answer

      Still, I must say it was one of the most important things I’ve done for myself, and it really cemented the “This is not uncommon” understanding in a way that this site couldn’t do as well, or at least as quickly, with words

      Thanks for your wonderful polls.

      -Molly

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    • #237228
      Kristy Violet
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      I certainly would, for some camaradarie and to not be alone…

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