Would you like to meet another Crossdresser?

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Hi Girls, yes its that time of the week again! poll time!!

Now this subject is quite close to home for me and i think it’s a natural progression in many of our journeys. To sum it up in a nutshell, yes, i would like to meet someone else who is a crossdresser, mainly because, they also know what it’s like, unlike a non-crossdresser who might not have a clue. It would be nice to share stories, life experiences etc, with no sexual strings attached, just purely friendship. Now this i suppose, could be a dodgy subject, let’s keep it clean!!! i dont want anyone to discuss any sexual motivations, just purely friendship and the fact that you would like to meet up with someone else and just talk, have a bit of fun or socialising. There, that wasn’t so bad!!

Love and kisses. Fiona xxxx

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Sandra Lasco, Kerri Smith, Debbie Burns, Trish White, Aurora Borealis, Natalie Dane, Sofía Alejandra Hurtado Espinoza, Becky Davis, Katie Plowright, Flora May, Jenny JT, Charlotte Walker, Denise, Quinetta Harris, Ger Hayden, Bobbi Watt, Jill Harris, Brittney Andrews

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[skippy1965 Cynthia]

I’ve met about 100 CDH MEMBERS (INCLUDING ABOUT 25+ STAFF) in person (at conventions. on trips. in my home or theirs). At the ten or so conventions I’ve attended , all told I have probably met thousands of CD/’TG community.
Cyn

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Brittney Andrews

[Sandra Lasco]

I live in continental Europe and would love meeting other CDs and trans women as I enjoy very much venturing out fully dressed. I often use my car to discover other cities and go sightseeing. I feel very relieved, proud and liberated each time I do it. Company of another lady would be great in feeling less lonely, sharing our experiences and learning from each other. It’s such great fun to express my true self with the opportunity to share my desire in presenting myself as the woman I feel I should be. I have been out quite a number of times and also know the not-so-nice sensation of males wanting to approach and start a conversation with me, or simply start following me while I walk. Being with another CD sister would make me feel more comfortable in these types of situations. Thank you so much for this lovely post, and with my warmest hugs and kisses to all of you. Let’s be proud and confident to show the world who we are my dear ladies 🙂

[Stephanie MacNeil]

What I would like is to one day have a CD friend who would come to my house in the afternoon for tea, home-baked cookies and conversation.  I could then return the visit to her house and bring a small cake or muffins I baked.  We could exchange beauty and fashion tips, cleaning strategies, recipes and complain about our wives not appreciating us!  That would be absolutely lovely.

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Marlene Roberts, Bobbie1951

[Kerri Smith]

I would love to get dressed up and walk into a Starbucks, sit down with another crossdresser for a coffee and a nice chat.  I went into a Starbucks while dressed once before but I was alone.  I felt very self concious and didn’t stay long.

Kerri

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Bobbie1951, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker

[April Flowers]

Would luv to meet another CD in Northern Illinois.
-April

[Rachel Beaumont]

Oh Kerri, how brave of you… i would certainly be up for going out en femme with another gurl. i live near the villages in florida.
rachel

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Bobbie1951, Lara Tucker

[Kerri Smith]

Lara,

I would love to me you for coffee but I live in northern Illinois.  I looked up a crossdresser website in the local area but some of the people on the site were looking for a sexual hookup which I do not want.

Kerri

[Rachel Beaumont]

Milwaukee has a very open scene
rachel

[Jenny Liu]

I am totally YES for meeting another crossdresser, but based on some of your experiences, I’d be careful meeting in-person though.  So, I would suggest meeting virtually first, have a few exchanges/talks.  Once you have become more comfortable about each other, then arrange for in-person meet-up.  That way, everyone gets to be private, in their safe zone, and most importantly, safety.  Just my two cents.

 

Jenny

PS: If anyone of you are interested, please send me a PM.

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Aurora Borealis, Fiona Black, Natalie Dane, Lara Tucker

[Kelly Terry]

I feel virtual meetings could be good to meet when not close but you will have to exchange some personal info just to setup the meeting.
For in person I think going to a (remote) public place in drab and have a talk over a coffee or so is a pretty safe way to do it.

/kt

[Jenny Liu]

Nothing personal really except your email address.  You can easily create a Gmail account strictly for this purpose, with no personal identifier.  We can start Google Chat/Video to try out.

 

Jenny

[Dawn Wyvern]

Ladies

This is an old post from 2019 which has been revved and is still popular, however please remember that this site is not a pick up point and is for support of TG/CD.

If you wish to contact members then please use the PM facility and please take reasonable precautions to ensure that you are meeting someone genuine, protect your privacy and dont divuge too much personal information until you are comfortable – remember the site rules.

Take care

Hugs

Dawn  (Admin)

 

 

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Aurora Borealis, Raquel Smith, Foxy Femme, Natalie Dane

[Natalie Dane]

Yes, I would love to meet and chat another local CD.  It would be wonderful to talk to someone in person about our respective journeys.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker

[Sofía Alejandra Hurtado Espinoza]

Hi girls, my answer is definitely yes, I think it would be very good and fun to meet someone who shares this lifestyle, to have a partner to get ready, go shopping or walk around, as well as being able to share life stories and face difficulties that this lifestyle entails together as friends would undoubtedly be fascinating,
greetings to all

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Raquel Smith, Aurora Borealis, April Flowers, 1968 Sonia, Roberta Lane, Brittney Andrews

[Kelly Terry]

I made a comment here just over a year ago and then I was a bit shy so any meetup had to be well planned,

Now I’m out all over the place and if anyone around Ottawa, Ontario, Canada want to meet me I’m available for anything from a CD chat over a coffee in drab to public party while dressed.

/kt

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Natalie Dane, Brittney Andrews

[Stephaniewy]

Would love to meet or talk with others in Wyoming

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Brittney Andrews

[Bekkie-Renee Avenddare]

Would love to make friends with another crossdresser.  Someone I can talk to, and have something in common, that I can’t talk to others about.  And be their confidant.

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Natalie Dane, Stephenie Derick, Brittney Andrews, Becky Davis, Stephaniewy, Raquel Smith

[Wendy Swift]

On the fence with this one.

Part of me prefers to keep Wendy private, so dressing at home with my wife type of deal.  However, by doing so I can only keep my femme self at home.

The other part of me would like to go shopping/eating, as a woman, and experience these everyday events as a woman.  By doing with someone or a small group, the experience I feel would be much better and make me feel more comfortable dressed as Wendy vs. going solo.

I would be interested in the friendship and engaging in “girl” talk, like clothing, makeup, styles, and ways to improve the feminine look.  I would not be interested whatsoever in anything that even comes close to any sexual involvement.

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Debbie Burns, April Flowers, Natalie Dane, Kelli Marlowe, Raquel Smith, Brittney Andrews, Annie Green, Ger Hayden

[Yvonne Paulina]

Yes I would love to meet another CD locally

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Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Raquel Smith, Brittney Andrews, Ger Hayden

[Cece X]

I am blessed to work in an LGBT workplace so I work alongside many trans folks. The trans experience is very different from my personal journey. I am a male-presenting underdresser who has no interest in being fully en femme in public or adopting feminine mannerisms. Despite working in an LGBT environment, I have never yet known anyone of my similar experience. I already know many lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, but I would love to meet a guy like me who just enjoys wearing feminine clothing in private non-sexual settings.

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Marlene Roberts, Debbie Burns, April Flowers, Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Raquel Smith, Jenny JT, Paula F

[April Flowers]

At local meetups, I have met other crossdressers and had a very nice time. It would be great to meet other Chicago area CDs for one on one for shopping or dining out.

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Kerri Smith, Natalie Dane, Raquel Smith, Jenny JT, Cece X, Brittney Andrews, Ger Hayden, Paula F, Sylvia

[Kerri Smith]

There is a store called Transformations byRori in Arlington Heights. It is planning a reopening day in June. Maybe we Chicago area cds could meet there and get acquainted?
Kerri

[Melissa McCoy]

April,

PM me. I went to a meet up in that area before. Very nice place and people. It was great but an hour drive for me and I was so nervous. I could only underdress and yet they were very accepting and it was wonderful to share stories.

[Lynda Jones]

I would love to meet other CD’s here in Northeast Tn, would be great to go out together.
Lynda

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Raquel Smith, Gillian, Jenny JT, Cece X, Sylvia, Ger Hayden, Brittney Andrews, Paula F

[Ger Hayden]

What I really want to know is there even one other CD in the whole of Ireland?  I’d love to befriend another like minded CD before I die.

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Kelli Marlowe, Melinda Jones, Jenny JT, Cece X, Sylvia, Brittney Andrews, Paula F

[Roberta Broussard]

You  might try doing a search of the member directory.

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Kelli Marlowe, Cece X, Hippie, Sylvia, Ger Hayden, Paula F

[Quinetta Harris]

Without a question I would like to meet other CDs and bi-genders that are local or at least semi-local to me. I have been communicating with a beautiful lady from CDH that is semi-local to me and it has been great. I am ok though with communicating with ladies from all over the country and even world. I want to network with as many people as I can.

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Natalie Dane, Jenny JT, Carmen Cruz, Cece X, Hippie, Sylvia, Donna Cooper, Ger Hayden, Denise, Paula F

[Margeaux R]

Yes I would! I live in Austin, Texas for any fellow crossdressers in the area! <3

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Jenny JT, Cece X, Hippie, Sylvia, Quinetta Harris, Paula F

[Krissy]

Great question and poll again! 🤔 i love meeting people like us! I also like hanging with bio females too. Its only recently ive been able to do this, mainly due to a little tip my female friends told me! Blend in they said, dont be too outrageous, you will have all the time in the world to do that once the journey is over. So i blend in and it works as always being bought drinks and chatted to when i go out with friends. Its the best thing ive ever learnt reAlly xx

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Sandra Lasco, Raquel Smith, Jenny JT, Sylvia, Lynda Jones, Paula F, Ger Hayden

[Krissy]

Think for some people the question should be ” do you meet other trans and crossdressers”

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Raquel Smith, Jenny JT, Sylvia, Ger Hayden, Lucia Brown, Paula F

[Ger Hayden]

Right now the answer to that for me would be no. But I would love to someday have an understanding like-minded fried to meet and chat to.

I’m not interested in the sexual side of things. Purely platonic with a mutual interest in clothes, fashion, makeup and shoes.

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Sandra Lasco, Krissy, Jenny JT, Sylvia, Lucia Brown, Danica Daroy, Donna Cooper, Paula F

[Krissy]

For myself Id love to meet others like myself and bio females who are sympathic too. Xxx

[Krissy]

Ger hunni im sure the question meant just a purely platonic meeting, as many of us just want to be with people like us and meet to form connections and offer advice and tips. Certainly no hanky panky as that wouldn’t be ladylike. So many of us long to be people that are going thru the same thing and I know personally it helps to be around others that are the same and are going thru the same hugs ger xx

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Sandra Lasco, Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Jenny JT, Sylvia, Quinetta Harris, Paula F, Lucia Brown, Ger Hayden

[Coral Wentworth]

Hi Fiona, Great question . I have met several CD’s and Trans girls over the last few years. I am so sorry that some of you ladies have had bad experiences. I find that kind of behavior unacceptable and I believe that is not the norm in our lifestyle. I have not had any such thing happen to me. I have had some great times meeting others. When I first came out to a group in Sacramento I was met with such positive encouragement that I agreed to meet with a small group of them in drab at a popular dinner. Well there were a half dozen of very nice looking gentlemen  and several had their wives with them. All were very kind and supportive, knowing this was the first time I was meeting complete strangers for something so personal they all made me feel welcome to their group. One gentleman and his wife were very helpful in my going out in public for the first time . We wrote and talked on the phone for a month or so and I was invited to go to Reno,  He came to my town which was on the way and I met him at the local McDonalds and he followed me home. We talked about clothes and everything girly, she helped me chose the outfits that I would be wearing in Reno. She had already booked a room for us and we had dinner that night and there was nothing sexual even mentioned . We went to Reno the next morning, got our room and another girl met us there and the three of us went for dinner and drinks  and had a wonderful time. About a month later I accompanied my new friend to Sacramento where they have a monthly meeting at one of the larger hotels lounge where we met up with over 40 other ladies all dress very nicely and as I was introduced to them all I felt like I have never felt before. I was amongst my peers, I didn’t want it to end. But as the night ended and we went back to the air B&B  which was so accepting of us, I knew that I had been wrong to ever doubt myself about who I was and there were so many others like me. So if any of you girls find yourself in northern California give me a shout and I would be more than happy to be your friend and talk all the girl talk you want . Love Coral

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Sandra Lasco, Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Sylvia, Lucia Brown, Brittney Andrews, Stephenie Derick, Raquel Smith, Paula F, Ger Hayden

[Terri Johnson]

Our “Group” has met a number of times — though we usually try to meet dressed, there have been times when it was not feasible. As of 2 weeks ago, the circle closed and we have met all met in mixed formats at different times, so the drab selves and feminine selves have been out with at least 1 of us dressed on each occasion.

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Raquel Smith, Sylvia, Krissy, Ger Hayden, Yael Lyons, Brittney Andrews, April Flowers, Stephenie Derick, Coleen Edinburgh, Paula F

[Charlene Victoria]

Hi Fiona. Thought provoking question. It rekindled a memory that moved me to vote that this is something I would need to think about so I am currently undecided.

The memory?

When I was between marriages I was dressing and pushing limits much more than I can or care to now. So I found a person who shared CD / trans interest. (I do not recall how we connected)

We decided to meet and did so in a food court at a large mall. We agreed to meet en drab. I would not have went if he would have insisted an femme. I was not ready for being out in public as a woman.

However I did underdress, panties and small forms in my bra. I wore a loose pink polo which somewhat hid my bust and bra straps, but not totally. I was convinced that most people aren’t observant enough to notice subtle things and those that did notice, well I was OK with that. After all I am a woman so what is so strange about a bustline and bra straps right? (. . . even though I was en drab. Oh the mind clouding power of the pink fog, yes?)

I always wanted to go out dressed publicly, had been out on walks after dark underdressed with a full 38B bustline, so decided this was about as close to being out publicly as I was going to get in the near future so I pushed the limits.

As I walked to our meeting place and as I sat and talked I postured myself in a way that made it evident (at least to me 🙂) that I had a bustline and not just developed male pecs. It was an exhilarating feeling. I can only imagine what a rush it is to go out fully dressed and pass. It was also evident to my “friend”. He commented and I felt the “thrill” of being noticed and accepted by another person.

Afterwards I wondered if the thrill I felt was what a girl blossoming into womanhood feels when she is finally being noticed as a young woman. Obviously I don’t know nor will I ever have the privilege of that feeling.

The meeting frankly made me feel uncomfortable. The vibe I got was my “friend” wanted more. More, as in physical. I am not that kind of woman . . . or man.

Enough for me. I was relieved when I could politely excuse myself and leave. Fortunately no personal information was exchanged. I think it was clear to him I wasn’t what he was actually looking for in a “friendship,” so he never contacted me again. Thankfully.

I am married now, sort of my wife’s caregiver as her health is declining, don’t dress as she is accepting but uncomfortable that I do. Therefore such meet up opportunities are not on the table any longer. But after that experience should such opportunity arise again it would be with a well vetted person – probably only with a friend from CDH.

I think we have all heard “be careful”. I agree 100%. Don’t be so stupified by the pink fog that you doing something stupid which yields longterm regrets.

Kindly,

Charlene

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Natalie Dane, Melissa McCoy, Kelli Marlowe, Samantha Jo, Ger Hayden, Marlene Roberts, Coleen Edinburgh, Fiona Girl, Paula F, Lucia Brown

[Roberta Broussard]

Seems like a great many of us are for the idea.  Perhaps this could be added as a searchable question on the Profile Page ?

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Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Krissy, Marlene Roberts, Coleen Edinburgh, Paula F, Kelli Marlowe

[Abby Winters]

It would be nice to meet someone in the milwaukee area

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Melissa McCoy, Becky Davis, Denise, Paula F

[Lacy Satin]

I have met other crossdressers in the past but it always turned out to be a disaster. Starts out fine but then they want to turn it into something sexual. These encounters can be quite scary.

I would still like to have a friend that I didn’t have to keep my feminine side hidden from and a friend who could relate to how I feel.

What I would like is to meet someone who has some of the same male interests as I do. I would like to be friends on our male interests first before sharing our girly interests.

I enjoy being feminine and getting all dressed up but there is a lot more to me than just enjoying my feminine side. What I have absolutely no interest in, is getting sexual with another crossdresser.

My life doesn’t fully revolve around crossdressing and I need a friend that shares other interests with me.

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Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Michaela Anthony, Ger Hayden, Marlene Roberts, Coleen Edinburgh, Falecia McGuire, Paula F, Kelli Marlowe, Barb Wire, Charlene Victoria

[Marti]

Yes,

I’d probably be quite skittish about it, but in theory, yes. I still keep my eye out for groups or events that I could maybe get to, easier said than done in rural Wales, but I live in hope there’s a secret cd scene in one of the other villages!

Marti xxx

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Ger Hayden, Paula F, Barb Wire, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker

[Barb Wire]

Sure! So long as they’re well established CDH members and we’ve become friends through our public and/or private conversations.

My preference would be to meet at a safe place dressed en femme with a gaggle of girls and get a bit wasted and giggly! That would be such fun!

💃 👗 Barb

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Becky Davis, Ger Hayden, Camryn Occasionnel, Falecia McGuire, Lara Tucker, Marti, Lucia Brown, Paula F

[Raquel Smith]

That’s why I am constantly searching for CDH members in my geographical regions (Birmingham, AL) and have even messaged a couple.  One of whom shortly thereafter cancelled her membership and another who stopped responding to my messages.

I’m not a creep or a stalker, I just want some friends who share my interest in crossdressing.

I love all my digital friends here on CDH, but would love to go shopping or meet for drinks, in drab or en femme, locally.

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Natalie Dane, Becky Davis, Coral Wentworth, Tina Que, Marlene Roberts, Charlene Victoria, Lara Tucker, Marti, Lucia Brown, Barb Wire, Paula F

[Lucia Brown]

Me too girlfriend! I’d love too have a special friend to do all the girlie things with! Maybe even something special would happen but just to have a special friend that I could do the girlie things with would be so nice!

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Paula F, Raquel Smith

[Lucia Brown]

Oh baby! I have longed for years to have a crossdresser to do girlie things together! I would love a chance to chat with you! I love Birmingham and would come visit you if we got into each other Please PM me if you would like to chat 😘, Lucia

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Raquel Smith, Paula F, Lara Tucker

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t mind meeting someone in public in normal guy clothes. I’m too shy to be dressed up in public lol. Maybe one day!

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Becky Davis, Ger Hayden, Tina Que, Marlene Roberts, Abby Winters, Lara Tucker, Lucia Brown, Paula F

[Tina Que]

I don’t CD in public but want to go for beer and wings with someone that also does not CD in public to talk about life. I thought I had found someone to do that with through CDH. We had a date and time picked. She had to work late. I never heard from her after that. I am not sure she was as she appeared to be.

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Becky Davis, Krissy, Marlene Roberts, Lara Tucker, Lucia Brown, Leonara, Paula F, Kathleen

[melissa la quinta]

Bummer! I have not had that happen to me…yet

 

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Paula F

[karley delaware]

Hi………..Yes……..I would…………….the first meeting would be in ……..stealth……….we could maybe go to a fast food place to eat and talk………………show pictures………………next time………..maybe dress  more girly…………then maybe time after that………….the best girl we can be and talk some more………….only totally girl!!!  Where?  Oh……….maybe in a very large park away from people……………..or maybe a ………cemetery  posing as visitors………………..so we could sit really close and have girly talk……………people will keep distance?  k

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Ger Hayden, Marlene Roberts, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Bobbie1951, melissa la quinta

[Ger Hayden]

I think meeting at the cemetery is a great idea. All that walking on pavements in hells and chatting. Sounds like fun. I’m off to the cemetery to pay my respects. 🙂 Who’s coming?

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Krissy, karley delaware, Paula F

[Krissy]

Daytime or nightime in a cementry? Nightime would be a bit scary for me! Im sure many other places would be so much better but i suppose it would be very quiet though. 🤫

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Becky Davis, Ger Hayden

[Rose Dunroaming]

yes i would like to meet someone for days out and the theatre as we would be pals rose

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Ger Hayden, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker, Bobbie1951, Paula F

[Liara Wolfe]

It would be so nice. Talk about makeup, doing our nails, fashion, etc.

Hugs, Liara

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Gillian, Ger Hayden, Brittney Andrews, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker, Barb Wire, Bobbie1951, melissa la quinta, Debbie Lynn, Paula F, Sylvia

[Abbie Normal]

I would love to meet another crossdresser, I’m almost desperate for it but COVID has really put a damper on things on that front for me. My niece is transgender (mtf) and I see her from time to time but she doesn’t know about me yet.

Someday soon I hope!

— Abbie 🥰

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April Flowers, Ger Hayden, Falecia McGuire, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker, Barb Wire, Valerie Kennedy, melissa la quinta, Paula F, Sylvia

[Cammi Dee]

I totally agree!! I would love to as well. I dated a girl who loves dressing me up and we wore gowns and panties together! What a great time…I miss it so much!

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Becky Davis, Ger Hayden, Lucia Brown, Lara Tucker, Elizabeth(Liz), Paula F, Abbie Normal

[Abbie Normal]

Well that would be a dream!

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Ger Hayden, Lara Tucker, Cammi Dee, Paula F

[Cammi Dee]

It was, but I think I need to find someone who loves it as much as I do!

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Ger Hayden, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Abbie Normal

[Elizabeth(Liz)]

Good topic Fiona, It’s something I would consider.
Liz

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Ger Hayden, Lara Tucker, Cammi Dee, Paula F, Sylvia

[Paula Worth]

Yes i have met a few other cd’s dressed as a women and also as a guy. I always had a wonderful time and enjoyed the experience.I hope to do it agin very soon.

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Coral Wentworth, Ger Hayden, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Cammi Dee, Paula F, Sylvia, Elizabeth(Liz)

[Gabriela Romani]

Met cd friends both as women and as guys. The later provides for some funny moments… imagine seeing a table with half a dozen “normal” looking guys, and hearing how they are talking about their latest high heels purchase or discussing eyeliner or shades of lipstick!
Even more interesting when you have known your girlfriends for a while, attended some week long event, and the next morning after the end of the event you meet “the guys” for the first time!
🙂 ah the memories!

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April Flowers, Coral Wentworth, Lara Tucker, Marti, Bobbie1951, Cammi Dee, Paula F, Sylvia, Barb Wire, Paula Worth

[Rosiebeth]

That would so much fun!  Shopping, dinner and all the girl talk.  That would be so fabulous.  To have a girlfriend who understands where you are coming from and sharing our experiences and how we progressed into womanhood.   I’m so game.
hugs

Rosiebeth

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Coral Wentworth, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Barb Wire, Cammi Dee, Sylvia, Paula F

[Stevie65]

I would love to meet anothe crossdresser and go out enfemme and shop eat and have fun as I am very close to Edmonton Alberta

 

Stevie

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Coral Wentworth, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Sylvia, Paula F

[Anonymous]

Funny story – I did have dinner last fall with a girl who’s on CDH – both in drab – before I was “born.” Had NO FREAKIN IDEA @ the time that my feminine side would take over as it has. Dinner was interesting, a little intense but nothing I couldn’t handle. If only I knew…and I’m pretty sure she knows now.

I’m a PA girl in the midst of a very enjoyable online relationship with a beautiful girl – hey babe 💋 – and willing to say “yes to the dress,” although it’s my understanding we already have in place a pretty solid group of girls that gets together once a month called TransCentralPA for dinner & a meeting.

Planning to attend the April get together, which will be my “coming out party.” The water’s fine & the atmosphere is safe, and I believe it’s the best way to cross line and publicly embrace the pink fog! Oh what to wear?  💋

 

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Lara Tucker, Cammi Dee, Sylvia, Paula F

[Cammi Dee]

Sounds like the best time!!

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Lara Tucker, Paula F

[Vanessa ?]

I’ve met one other crossdresser so far after getting in touch via another site.  Definitely had a lot of fun — and got to try on a bunch of new clothes (and got to keep two dresses, a ton of panties, several bras, and a pair of high heels; all things that didn’t quite fit her and were just taking up excess space.)

Next time I will definitely aim for already being in girl-mode before meeting, though.  I showed up in guy-mode and dressed up in the hotel room’s bathroom, which led directly into a bit of an anxiety attack where I tore off all the clothes and scrubbed off the makeup and went right back to guy-mode.  Almost ended up just taking off right then, but managed to talk for a while and calm down and things got better after that.

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Coral Wentworth, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Sylvia, Donna Cooper, melissa la quinta, Paula F

[Stephaniewy]

would be dream come true

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Cece X, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Sylvia

[Jade Danvers]

Thats understandable but a learning experience and you got to improve your wardrobe.  Always a plus.

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Lara Tucker, Sylvia, Paula F

[Cynthia Dubois]

Definitely. I have only met another CD once in person. It was nice to talk to someone who you knew wasn’t judging you and knew exactly what you were going through. Unfortunately I got transferred for my job shortly after, so I wasn’t able to meet her again. I still occasionally talk to her on the phone though.

Would love to have someone to hang out with. Anyone in southern Illinois?

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Brittney Andrews, Abby Winters, Lara Tucker, Sylvia, Paula F, Vecca Senn

[Jeannie Jones]

Cynthia I am in Southern Indiana but outside the house I only undress and do not ever go full en fem. if you would be interested we can at least pm

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Sylvia

[Cynthia Dubois]

That sounds great.  I don’t mind if you are dressed or not.  Whatever makes you feel more comfortable.  It would just be nice to have someone who is “in the know” about the lifestyle as it were to talk to.

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Sylvia

[Jeannie Jones]

If you like PM me and we can take it from there

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Sylvia

[Jeannie Jones]

I am in Southern Indiana. I do not fully dress en fem but would still like to meet another cd to chat with if me just being undressed did not put them off

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Sylvia

[Mindy Williams]

Yes..very much so. I just transferred to Austin, thought there would be at least a group for meetings, nothing,  I think I’m the only one here.

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F

[Jade Danvers]

Yes!  Would love to find friends in the Boston area to dress with and show off too.

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Paula F

[Huggs6 Luv]

Jade, I’m in Boston the entire week. I have a business here but married a Texas girl. I’d love to meet for girl talk dressed. Coffee or drinks. This would be my coming out party. Let me know

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Paula F

[Kay Lambert]

I voted yes. In these difficult and stressful times, it just makes a lot of sense to be able to talk out life experiences, current challenges a lot of us face and step back and share a laugh or two. I’m all for it.

Kay👩🏻‍🦳💋

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Kathy Jackson

[Vecca Senn]

I think it would be exhilarating to meet and just rock out with my Vecca out! That being said, public places would be a HUGE hurdle.

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Lara Tucker, Paula F, Kathy Jackson

[Katey Doe]

Hi Fiona,

Great post, Yes I would want to meet another CD, love making friends. I’m sure I pass by CD’s all the time. I think that would be a great day. Hugs – Katey

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Kathy Jackson, Vecca Senn

[Effie Jayne]

Yes yes! I so wish I could have a friend to have a girls day or evening out together! It would be so fun and supportive! NC here

💖❤️

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Kathy Jackson

[Anonymous]

I would love to meet another CD to be able to hang out with and go shopping or anything else for that matter. It would be nice to have a friend that understands how I think.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Paula F, Kathy Jackson

[Hippie]

Hell yeah I would, All I see is farm people and rarely see anyone else. I would love to meet another CD or trans. No matter how far or little journey they been on. I want to meet everyone.

I even wrote a little article about just that. Its titled Feeling Like You don’t Fit in? After I wrote that I am 100% sure I want to meet people.

So let’s do this Northern Wisconsin here, and I have a coffee can full of coins for coffee. Heck I will invite you to my dumpy farm house and meet the animals.

I’m ready

Hippie

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Jade Danvers, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Hippie]

Wow I forgot I posted this

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Paula F

[Anonymous]

Fiona. That is a very interesting question. Carries a lot of self characterization and probably a bit of courage. I still have such insecurities and could well be jealous! Overall there are so many differences we may have but in one important immovable way, we are linked.
Very good question.
You’re the best!

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Charlene Victoria, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Ginny Virginia]

Yes, absolutely, but only dressed. I want to look my best!

Hugs,

Ginny

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Cece X, Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F, Caly James

[rebekka moore]

I would love to!!!!!

In fact for a while (it’s been sometime now), I would see this beautiful an statuesque gurl at the grocery store. Everytime I went to approach her however something or someone got in the way and I lost my opportunity. I did not want her to think I was someone stalking her, so I would not follow her around!

She was beautiful, tall long legs, great red hair, and I so dearly wanted to meet her in hopes we could be gurl friends.
I have not seen her in sometime. I would love to meet someone, but don’t know how or where, and my SO would probably not be thrilled by this.
🙁

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F, Bobbie1951, Samantha Peders

[Amanda Woods]

Absolutely, without question!!!  Would like to hook up and go places, ie shopping, clubs, etc. I would love to go to some CD/TG events, find hookups to help with my look/makeup. Wish I could be girly 24/7, maybe someday. Love to you all my sisters, stay safe.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Bobbie1951, Paula F

[Mary Priscilla]

Absolutely yes! When I decided to seriously pursue this life-long dream, I met a few CD’s before the damnable pandemic set-in. Since then, I have met many possible local area CD girls who, like me, are anxious to socialize. There is another group in our Portland, OR area (Rose City T-Girls) that offers similar friendship opportunities and they host social events periodically.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Penelope Lauren]

Yes I would love to meet up other like minded people this is something I’ve wanted for years, so if anyone ever manages to arrange a meet up after all this covid madness, then please send me an invite x

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Hilda Beaumont]

I have been lucky enough to meet Laura Lovett in Brighton during the summer and we had a delightful chat over coffee; both of us en femme. Recently in the lock down I’ve made contact with several cross dressers and we have had email conversations, shared photos and kept each other company in these difficult times.
HRxx

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Clara Cross]

Hilda, I am absolutely green with envy. Laura Lovett? In person? Only in my dreams.

Swooning Clara.

[MelanieElizabeth]

Absolutely. Especially for people that are new to this. It would be great to meet a kindred spirit. Years ago I remember one individual that would come into a pub I used to frequent. This was a dive bar mostly working guys for happy hour. She would show up in a dress and wig and just have a drink or two and go. She didn’t engage with the patrons much only the barmaids.  She always seemed depressed though. People would snicker or say things under there breath about her but nothing to her face. At the time I didn’t know about myself or wasn’t honest about it so I never spoke to her. I did want to though out of curiosity but I knew if I did the guys I hung with would have ridiculed me. So I never did now I wish had her experience I’m sure would have been interesting or at the least I should have just said hello kindly to her. No wonder why she always seemed unhappy even like minded people weren’t always kind to her. I heard she died a few years ago and was saddened. She had guts to walk into a dump like that I didn’t have the balls to extend a common courtesy. Unfortunately when we judge others or succumb to peer pressure we end up missing out on opportunities and mistreating others.

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Alisha Alex]

I haven’t met a crossdresser in real life and I would like to be confident and willing to step out of the comfort zone of my own home and venture forth into the real world. Meet some sisters. Form some sort of club to hang out or so.

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Lara Tucker, Jade Danvers, MelanieElizabeth, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Kelly Terry]

Given that I’m trying to arrange a meetup in Ontario, Canada I have to go with “Yes” but it does depend on the setting. I’m still a bit shy so not a public place and absolutely not for dating of any kind. Some secluded place where we all are from CDH is what I’m aiming for.

/kt

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Kelly Terry]

I have now meet up with one girl from CDH in a distant place but I have also built up courage so next week I’m going to meet up with one in town (Ottawa, candada) in a shopping mall and I will come dressed.

I would love to meet more people (dressed or drab) in town at some point in the future, PM me if interested.

/kt

[Trisha Smith]

I absolutely want to meet other like minded people. Unfortunately the Rona has so many scared to socialize and the fact that no one sees an end to this curse China has bestowed upon us that we may not have the opportunity for a very very long time.

 

Trisha

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Anonymous]

I would love to meet other girls like me, the only problem is whenever I would meet one or someone I wanted to get to know more, go out with or go shopping about 80% of them would try to hook up with me. Now I know there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone or develop an attraction to someone else after all we are not biologically female and most of us are attracted to women because that’s what we love, we love to be female therefore it happens. I have tried to have that friend who you can go shopping, talk about girl stuff and go out in public with. Unfortunately I haven’t found one yet lol, I keep getting hit on so I just tell all my stories to the next one that comes along my way. I am only into bio females, I do think other CD or TG women are beautiful but it’s just not what I’m looking for. I’m sure it’s a blast but someday I would like to find that sister who knows and feels what it’s like to be this way, maybe someday!!

Katie B 😊

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Kelli Marlowe, Paula F, Alisha Alex, Laura Jane Moore

[Alisha Alex]

Before I join this site I was a member of fb CD  groups. And there was a couple of them that I met online in the past and I trusted them at first but later on they asked to hook up and exchange some inappropriate pics. I felt kinda disappointed tbh. I felt like those are not real sisters.

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Anonymous]

I’m with you on that one

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Lara Tucker, Paula F, Alisha Alex

[Tammy Johnson]

I think it could be fun, especially when I go in for my full makeover and go out afterwards.  I think it could be great to get feedback on clothing, stores and makeup and also just hang out too.

Is there anyone else on here in Denver Colorado?

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Brittney Andrews, Kathy Jackson, Paula F

[Prudence]

Hi Fiona!!  Good question. I have met 5 Ladies from CDH! And 3 others at a bar I go to. It’s nice to know we are not alone!!   Hugs  Pru

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Laura Jane Moore, Bobbie1951, Paula F

[Peggy Sue Williams]

Prior to COVID, my wife and I were active in CD affairs.  She with wives and GFs of CDs and I with other CDs.  When things return to normal, we want to resume social activities.  For now, considering our age group, we are conducting only essential activities.

It appears from reading CDH profiles that there are a great number of girls here in the greater Atlanta and Southeast area, which indicates potential for a local CDH chapter?

Anyone interested in a local CDH chapter?

 

 

 

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Penelope Lauren, Asha, Darcy Grigsby, Paula F, Prudence, Bridgette VonSmirff

[Mindy Mills]

Same here, I would like to meet another cross dresser to hang out with, go places with and chat with. Have talked to a couple cross dressers on Facebook but it was a no go because one wanted a friends with benefits kinda thing and another kept asking me to take her out to buy her things. Both creeped me out so much I blocked them. So if I where to meet another CD it would be in drab mode first just to make sure she isn’t creepy.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Penelope Lauren, Laura Jane Moore, Stevie Steiner, Paula F, Bridgette VonSmirff

[Mary Francis]

I attended a support group meeting of CD’ers several years ago.  There were about 15 CD’ers there, some with their SO’s.  It was a great meeting and everyone there was friendly and fun.  The group has since disbanded.  I also have attended CD conferences in Atlanta and Erie, PA.  I had a great time at both of those events.

I have not had the opportunity to meet anyone outside of those group events.  I have some concerns about security and safety.  I would definitely want to have the first meeting as Mr. Drab.

 

Mary

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Penelope Lauren, Laura Jane Moore, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Elizabeth Jenkins

[Elizabeth Jenkins]

If 5 percent of men cross-dress then  most likely I’ve already met a couple of hundred crossdressers and didn’t know.

Elizabeth

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Laura Jane Moore, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Marlene Roberts, Ashley Konners, Debbie Lynn

[Cynthia Hughes]

In September of 2019, I was able to meet up with another local CD, in guy mode of course.

It was great being able to meet up with someone in real life and be able to talk about having the same issues from growing up.

We would love to be able to get out again for coffee but we all know how that is working out right now, maybe when this quiets down again.

Cynthia

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Stevie Steiner

[Stevie Steiner]

Of course I would want to meet any of my crossdressing friends.  Hence the term friend, tho I know that word doesn’t mean as much on the internet.  Way too much of me cannot be properly conveyed over a computer.  I’m more fun ” live”. 😁

 

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F

[Krista]

Hi Stevie, so the next time I’m in Ontario (post-covid of course) we’ll have to go out for coffee/tea.  My brother lives in the Toronto area and I’m supposed to help him go through our mother’s stuff (she died over five years ago and it is still all in storage).  Take care my internet friend.  Hugs, Krista.

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Lara Tucker, Kathy Jackson, Stevie Steiner, Paula F

[Anonymous]

When we are able to meet socially it would Fantastic, I am looking forward to the opportunity.

 

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Kathy Jackson, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Debbie Lynn

[Leslie]

I would love to meet another CD, I suspect that they are all around me. But right now it is hard to just meet someone by chance in the wild (as it were). And no one here admits to being local, I did locate someone about 15 miles away. But again until I can get vaccinated that is not a real option. So for now I guess it is limited to walks around the neighborhood weather permitting (I find 30F or so in a skirt a bit put offing). Will it does give me a chance to work on my makeup skills for when I can get out.

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Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Olivia Livin, Stevie Steiner

[Sandy Craig]

It was critical!

I have a respectable amount of CD/Trans friends I love.  Numbers…well not sure, I had a number recently and it must be 20 to 30 or 35 I guess. I cherish my friendship with these wonderful people. They are all awesome and we all go out which is what makes it so fun.

Co-Hosting a lunch every other month has opened up a reliable group of quality friends and while those I see or chat with regularly might be around 7 or 8 the others I still feel close to.

Sandy

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Olivia Livin

[Diane Rakers]

I would like to know her “story”. How did she get here.

Lee Ann

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Lara Tucker, MelanieElizabeth, Paula F, Debbie Lynn

[Anonymous]

It would be nice to meet someone who was a friend who you could actually talk to face to face or text with. It gets lonely being a crossdresser. I think it would be fun to share and maybe even shop with someone else

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Diane Rakers, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Stephenie Derick, Kimberly (Kimmy) Bee, Bobbie1951, Paula F

[Sidney Silver]

I’ve been out many times to local-area (Seattle) activities for both trans women and cross dressers alike. I’ve discovered I’m part of a large, diverse, and durable community of beautiful ladies that are kind, caring, and like to have a good time. Weekly activities abound, inclusive of all. I’m very lucky to have such robust support!

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin

[Anonymous]

I would very much like to meet a fellow CD girlfriend/sister. There’s so much I’d like to learn, get tips, share ideas and hear stories or experiences. That’s why I like the Chat room because everyone is so supportive and open.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Stevie65]

I would love to meet other CDR’s. I think it would strengthen the community and actually create more friendships. I am near Vegreville Alberta if any one is interested to meet even out to Edmonton.

 

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Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin

[Anonymous]

I’ve met quite a few over the years, I have a few friends up around Toronto I go out with a few  times a year and I have a couple of girls close to home I met in a therapy group, we usually get together at least once a month for lunch and shopping kind of thing, always a good afternoon. It’s nice to have people who understand you and have gone through the same things as you to talk to.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Deborah Sullivan, Bridgette VonSmirff, Stevie Steiner, Leslie, Olivia Livin, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Penelope Lauren]

To be able to meet another girl just as friends would be amazing, anyone up for a day out?

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Diane Rakers, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Roberta Thomas, Olivia Livin, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Roni Calin]

Hell ya I would not be  the shy wallflower that I am if I would met somebody when was in my 20s

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Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Kelli Marlowe, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Camryn Occasionnel]

I responded “Yes, most certainly!” But after reading about Fiona-Ann’s three disappointing experiences, maybe I should qualify that response just a bit.

I would like to meet up with a small group of CDs, say, two or three. Even better, CDs from CDH! (But never one-on-one.) I’m still undecided about whether I would want to meet up dressed or in drab. I’m leaning toward dressed, however, but that presents another set of problems: I have little in the way of presentable wardrobe, even age-appropriate wardrobe; no jewelry; poor makeup skills; and only just making my first fledgling attempts walking in heels. So, although I’d love to meet them, they may not want to meet me!

Then, of course, there’s the logistics of such a meet-up. I would have to rent a room near the venue where I could dress and do my makeup to the best of my meager abilities — I’m far too closeted to leave home already en femme. And I’m not sure I can overcome my fear of “driving while dressed,” or worse, having to take a taxi from the hotel to the venue.

I have an ongoing fantasy, and that is, one day to be able to attend a conference like the Keystone Conference, where I could meet and enjoy the company of so many like-minded CDs. It is just a fantasy, and I doubt that I’ll ever actually go. But a gurl can dream!

Another great poll, Fiona-Ann, keep ‘em coming.

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Lara Tucker, Izzy Phoenix, Diane Rakers, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Kelli Marlowe, Roberta Thomas, Kathy Jackson, Fiona-Ann Moss, Bobbie1951

[Leslie]

I so understand your feelings. I’m new to this and don’t have many clothes or great skill at doing my makeup. But I think I that I would love to be able to go out with one or more CD friends. As I say a girl can dream! Good luck in finding one or more local friends!

Hugs Leslie

 

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Lara Tucker, Camryn Occasionnel, Bridgette VonSmirff

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Hi Camryn, dont! let my experiences put you off, i may have just been unlucky. I would like to note also that of all the experiences i had, i was in drab too. I think, at least, for myself, it’s the way to go because i am more confident drab, however, if i was to get to know a person better, then i more than likely would go femme. I find it a sad fact that for many of us, our lifestyle seems to attract some unwanted attention. The best way is to put it all down to experience and try again, maybe the next time might be more fruitful!!

Love and kisses, Fiona xxx

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Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Camryn Occasionnel, Kathy Jackson

[Anonymous]

I would like to be part of a group of like minded girls. To meet and enjoy discussions about dressing, makeup and other related things but not for any type of committed one on one relationship. Even here there have been a few that have made lewd comments that honestly I don’t enjoy or appreciate. Friendship is all I would want and all that I would give. I do love my life the way it is and have no desire to make it complicated beyond a simple gathering once in a while.

Carla

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Camryn Occasionnel, Roberta Thomas, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Vicki Smythe]

I would love to meet another CD. Just to be able to openly talk with someone else that understands where you are and what you’re experiencing. I just need to get over my fears of going out in public and how well I may or may not pass. But I definitely don’t want to embarrass the other person with how I look.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Amy Myers, Roberta Thomas, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Aoife, Fiona-Ann Moss, Pam H, Mindy secret, Bobbie1951

[Olivia Livin]

Its easier when you are meeting another CD for the first time. You don’t necessarily have to pass and if they know you’re ‘newer’, they keep their expectations in line. You can work up to a meeting too, by PM, email or phone first to get a feel for the person you are going to meet.

When meeting my first CDH contact, we did it with our SO’s in drab after talking back and forth for a bit. It went very well. We continue to be in contact and visit on occassion. Its good for the soul.

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Lara Tucker, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Amy Myers, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Pam H, Vicki Smythe

[Patty Phose]

I love meeting other CD’s and have met many over the years.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Jade Danvers, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Davidamae]

Hi Doll; You were the first contact I had as a Dress. I started Dressing last October 2018 and joined CDH in mid January 2019. I visited the site multiple times before I actually joined … I was so anxious about being outed over something I was excited about but knew nothing about. Would there be a fee or paper trail. Would it appear on Facebook or one of the numerous “surprise remember this” that your phone or computer will do and make public. Somewhere between turbulent torture & feast of femininity … I suspect for this Crossdressing Closet Girl meeting another Dresser would be a similar roller coaster ride of emotions than to step out of my Closet, Dressed and appear in public … 😅 whew talk about an anticipated emotional overload

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Lara Tucker, Diana Morgan, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Amy Myers, Camryn Occasionnel, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin, Bobbie1951

[Paula F]

Over the years, I have met many other gurl’s like me.  I have met them when I and they were both dressed, when I was dressed and they were endrab, and when I was drab and they were dressed.

I met the first CD, other than myself way, way back when I was 16 and she was a wonderful help to me and it’s been 44 years of meeting and losing track of other ladies, but I do enjoy making new friends of every type.

It’s easy to know when a girl is out for her first or near first time, and I think it is our responsibility to get acquainted with them when we see them and let them know we are there to help if and when they need it.  Don’t be pushy, especially if you notice that ‘deer in the headlights’ look, but do introduce yourself and invite them sit at your table or shop along with or whatever you are doing.  But, please let them know they are not alone.

PaulaF

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Diana Morgan, Bridgette VonSmirff, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin, IsabelB, Mikayla Morrison, Pam H, Meghan M, Bobbie1951

[Danny Amone]

Of course, people would like to meet others who have the same interests.

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Lara Tucker, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Paula1]

I would love to just to be able to share and go out with as mates ( Friends only )

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Exactly this.

Just hang out, shopping, coffee, get the nails done, more shopping, cheeky cocktail, talk about light things that are mostly irrelevant, – maybe dancing until 9.30pm, then home for cocoa, slippers and a good book.

Lovely.

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Leslie, Kathy Jackson

[Gigi Mathews]

100% yes, Fiona. I think it would be so nice to actually meet and perhaps build a friendship with someone who really gets it. Someone to dress with, exchange thoughts with, sharing makeup tips and anything girly. My wife is an amazing supporter but, can she truly understand. Also she wouldn’t mind.

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Lucia Brown, Leslie, Kathy Jackson, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Hi Girls. I must say that i am pleased with the answers so far, especially as it seems that most of us want to meet up with someone else who crossdresses. I mean, who wouldnt? as long as it was safe and just for friendship.

I have had Three experiences so far, and all of them have been a total waste of time. One, well, i got friendly online and decided to meet up drab….. the person never turned up after me waiting there for over an hour at a pre-determined time, since then, no contact either way, still baffles me to this day.

Number Two, and this is what you all should watch for…… This person was the nicest person you could talk to, suffice to say, i met up in a pub, we talked, the convo was flowing well, then out of the blue, i was shown pictures of his male organs for which i politely refused and left, but not before him asking to go back to his flat and, well…… i’ll leave that one to you.

Number Three, much the same as number two, but for one small difference, once again we chatted via messenger, we were going to meet, but he spoiled it by posting me very indecent images via messenger of himself, suppose i was lucky to be pre-warned.

So this girls, is why i am so cagey about meeting anyone, in my limited experience, there does seem to be an ulterior motive for many, agreed, not everyone is like that, thank goodness, but do i really deserve that? am i such a bad person? All i want is a simple friendship!!!!! is that really too much to ask for?? 🙁

Love and kisses, Fiona-Ann xxx

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[Jessica James]

Hi Fiona

I would agree with all you have said, I would love to meet other crossdressers for friendship but have been wary for the same reason as you have expressed in your experiences.

This can be a lonely experience and sometimes I feel there are not any ‘people like me’ who are nearby.  Maybe I live in a dressing free zone or the north of England is where CDs tend to keep themselves to themselves.

it would be great to have friendship with someone with the same interests and who understands.

Jessica x

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Lara Tucker, Leslie

[Davidamae]

Hi Doll; You were the first person I had communicated with after I started Dressing last October. Now after a year of Dressing I’ve may have become to open. When I first started Dressing I had no idea why I had been bitten by the Femme Bug so I went on line and found CDH. I visited the site multiple times before I actually signed up. I was an anxious mess. The thought of being Outed over something I absolutely knew nothing about and yet … I signed up. I must admit it was the sexual charge that drove me. I still can’t explain my fascination with my new found femininity. But at this point I think I’m at a point of maturing with my balance between David & Davida. To be able to Dress and have some Girl Talk at a Café or Coffee shop would be so exciting but the reality is I’m a Crossdressing Closet Girl and chatting others up on my keyboard, perhaps sharing photos of lasted hairstyles and outfits is probably as close as I’ll ever get. But like you said in one of your comments, “ Never say Never”

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Lara Tucker, Diana Morgan, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Paula F]

Fiona, it def isn’t you hon.  Since the internet made it so ‘convenient’ to make friends with total anonymity, most of the people who like to go to chat or IM have had plenty of people ‘ghosting’ them and the dishonest people seem to be as thick as thieves.

I do miss the 70’s and 80’s, when you would actually meet real people, and usually you were both already someplace public when you did.  It was very much easier back then than it is today, regardless of what the techie folks say about the internet.

 

PaulaF

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Lara Tucker, Leslie, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[patty williams]

Hi Fiona ,

No it is not too much to ask for a simple friendship.

As you said it seems people categorize us as having a sexual motive to what we do.

And they have a ulterior motive.

I hope you find that friend and you will, you are great person.

You know real friends are hard to come by and I am finding out one of the most valuable things you can find.

when you find that friendship cherish it.

Patty

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Lara Tucker, Diana Morgan, Leslie, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Alice Underwire]

Hi Fiona,

So sorry that your three experiences did not turn out as you had hoped they would.

Alice

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Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Fiona, darling, let’s make it a new year’s resolution to meet up.

If you don’t want to see pictures of my dangle bits, we’ll get along famously!

Love Laura

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Lara Tucker, Jennifer McCrennaugh, Fiona-Ann Moss, Bobbie1951

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Lol Laura, no!! i dont like dangly bits!! i dont even like my own!! It would be nice to meet up, trouble is, on first encounter with anyone, i’d rather be drab and see how it goes. I guess, it’s a bit of a negative answer, but i’d feel more confident that way at first. I do know however, that one day, i am going to have to just go for it and go femme outside!!

Fiona xxx

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Bobbie1951

[Anonymous]

As long as you don’t mind if I dress for the occasion, I won’t mind how you dress!

Love Laura

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Bobbie1951

[Gigi Mathews]

That is really unfortunate Fiona. I hope that is not what I can expect. I want to meet a sister who is like me. They must be out there somewhere. I am. I hope your experiences do not stifle your desire to connect with other CDs Fiona……your sister Gigi

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Fiona-Ann Moss

[Molly]

Dear Fiona;

Your expectations are not unreasonable!… There are people out there who are as good as any of the girls on this site.  Don’t give up!.

It may be that your contacts are coming from the wrong place, and their expectations are all wrong. Find a CD group, or a Trans resource group and ask these people where and how they’re meeting people… It’s really very interesting to listen what they say and where they’ve had disasters and successes.  I’ve heard a few stories just being around some of these groups, and some of the statements have really made my jaw drop … Who would have thought that there’s a (very small) group in a vintage car restoration community?

Hugs and warmest wishes for your success

-Molly

• This reply was modified 2 years ago by Molly.

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Lara Tucker, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Olivia Livin]

I have met and plan to meet even more, relating and sharing in person is such a great experience. Doing so with a few of the girls from this site who have made a big intellectual impression on me would be even more awesome.

I also been lucky enough to have met and become friends with a couple gg’s. The conversations seem quite different from those with other CD’s or even with my very supportive SO.

Olivia

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Yes, yes, yes! I have a few online friendships, but only know of a couple of other local folks, who, unlike me, aren’t retired and so have limited opportunity for meetings.

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Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Most definitely!!!

Why keep it to yourself when sharing is so much more fun!

I’ve met and am friends with some trans girls, and drag queens (well, one drag queen!), but it’s not the same – lovely though they are.

Any girls who fancy a day trip or a night out in Brighton, 2nd November is the date!

I’m planning a December one too.

I love going out in Brighton.

Love Laura

 

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Brittney Andrews, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Alice Underwire]

Hi Fiona,

Another great question.  I have met with several CD’s in person.  It is fun to go shopping with another CD or just visit together.

If one is planning to meet another CD be safe and get to know them prior to your meeting.

Alice

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Brittney Andrews, Lara Tucker, Leslie, Meghan M, Bobbie1951, Fiona-Ann Moss, DeLora

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

That is very sound advice Alice 🙂 xx

Love and kisses, Fiona xx

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Lara Tucker, Alice Underwire

[patty williams]

I would love to meet one that we had enough in common to be friends.

I had a close internet friendship with a transgender person but I seemed to have really messed it up .

My heart is still aching over that loss.

It would be nice to have some  c/d trans friends to talk to and go out with .

I think I may just be too boring.

 

Patty

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Lara Tucker, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss, Bobbie1951

[Camryn Occasionnel]

Patty!?!? You’re a crossdresser! And a CDH member! How could you be boring???

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Leslie

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Awww Patty, please dont call yourself boring! in fact, you are far from it. You have shown here at CDH that you like getting involved in the forums, adding your bit of useful advice. No hun, it’s the other person’s loss, you are worth far more than that 🙂 . Oh! and remember, you still have friends here!

Love and kisses, Fiona-Ann xxx

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Lara Tucker, Leslie

[Bobbie1951]

Oh, Patty, i am sure your not boring.  Everyone has a story to tell.  Just let yourself out and there are those out there who would be fascinated by you.

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patty williams, Olivia Livin

[Anonymous]

I marked the other box, please try to understand. If the opportunity was presented and I felt safe then sure it would be ok to meet a girl like me. However my top priority would me to become close friends with GG, I feel to futher my journey as a woman I need to associate with GG, so as to become more femine in my ways and manors.Just think how cool it would be to have GG friends who you share life with.

Robin

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Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin, Aoife, Bobbie1951

[Bobbie1951]

Thanks for the question and starting this discussion.  i would love to meet one or more other crossdressers just for understanding, companionship and mentoring.  i am trying to come out of the closet at least part time by You Tube Videos and articles and hopefully a makeover or two, but i am not at all certain i am doing anything right.  my few makeup attempts beyond nails and lipstick have been DISASTERS.  Clownish is too gentle!  Even nails and lipstick are not even at the level of the average 13 year old.  i would just like to be able to go out for lunch or supper with one or more kindred spirits, dressed up and let Bobbie have some fun.

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Leslie

[Michelle Liefde]

Thanks for another great poll!  I am looking forward to this Spring when Gwenn and I attend a conference, this will also be my first time out unless something happens between now and then.  So yup gonna get a chance to meet a few folks.

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Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin

[IsabelB]

Yet another great question, Fiona

My answer – ‘I have already met one or many other CDs in person while presenting as a woman’

However, had you asked that same question just a few months ago, it would have been the ‘Yes, most certainly’ option.

I took the opportunity this year to finally get myself to a couple of events where I could dress for the whole weekend in the company of many like minded people.  It was wonderful – it all felt so very natural and comfortable and certainly reinforced my feelings about dressing.  So the plan now is to attend as many of these type of events as I can, which, for me, means travelling to the UK as unfortunately I have yet to find anything similar in Ireland.

Isabel xx

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Bettie Houston]

Yes; I definitely would. Not necessarily for any sexual encounters but for friendship and mentoring. I would love to have a friend to share experiences and frustrations with, someone who could be a sounding board re; makeup, fashion, etc

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Definitely. Anyone who I could talk to freely in person with about this would be wonderful. Granted I wouldn’t want to go in with any preconceptions for what I’d get out of it but even if it was just that I’d have another friend then it would be worth it.

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Brittney Andrews, Lucia Brown, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Anonymous]

Sorry Fee! I added the last two options… as “Other” was just too generic. 🙂 Gladly, I have met lots of our sisters in person. Both presenting as Gaby as just going out for lunch with “the guys”.

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Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Aoife]

Big yes. It can be hard to keep myself contained when I meet one in person, not wanting to break whatever they’re feeling, ntm how much I would prefer to befriend one closer to my age. It would be such a relief to have that connection!

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Lucia Brown, Paula F, Meghan M, Fiona-Ann Moss, Olivia Livin

[Anonymous]

I said yes definitely, because it would give me someone who knows exactly how I feel, we could discuss the latest fashion’s and other issues, and maybe we could go out en femme to a venue or just for a meal, I’m sure it would give me more courage to step out of that closet door and face the world x maybe sometime in the future you never know what will happen xxxxx

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Kathryn Lynn Peters]

A qualified yes… but ONLY for friendship and support. Anything more scares me!

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Paula F, Meghan M, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Sally Drinkwater]

I would rather meet women who are sympathetic to the cause and would feel more comfortable meeting their other CD friends.  (does  that make sense?)

Anyhow, I will be 70 in a couple of years and never met one yet so what’s the chance of that happening?

Sally xx

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Marti, Lucia Brown, Paula F, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss, Kathryn Lynn Peters

[Marti]

never say never sally, someone wins the lottery nearly every week 😉

Marti xxx

[Lucia Brown]

Hey girlfriend, please message me I’m 62 and have never had another crossdresser for a friend That I know of 😘, Lucia

[Fiona-Ann Moss]

Never say never Sally!!!

Fiona xxxx

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Paula F

[Sally Drinkwater]

I think it’s the pipe and slippers that put people off Fi  🙂

Sally xx

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Paula F

[Ruby Smith]

Definitely. Would be awesome to be around someone who feels the same and to have a friendship with. Would help me to get mentally prepared to go out all dolled up.

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Molly]

Fi!;

Sorry, had to answer Other, because the option I wanted wasn’t there.

I HAVE joined a local group and it’s been so much better than I could have even imagined.    There are girls at all stages and it really really made a big difference to my mental state.    I love the forums and the occasional times I get a chance to talk on the Chat, but having an evening a month to dress and be with other girls has been such a sanity saver for me.

I would answer ‘Yes most certainly’; But I have noticed that some of the girls crave a little more than friendship.   Still love the group, but a little wary of one-on-one type get together type invitations, so it’s a guarded answer

Still, I must say it was one of the most important things I’ve done for myself, and it really cemented the “This is not uncommon” understanding in a way that this site couldn’t do as well, or at least as quickly, with words

Thanks for your wonderful polls.

-Molly

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Brittney Andrews, Barb Wire, Paula F, Olivia Livin, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Kristy Violet]

I certainly would, for some camaradarie and to not be alone…

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Brittney Andrews, Paula F, Leslie, Fiona-Ann Moss

[Caly James]

This would have to be a very careful search. You don’t know what or who you may attract. I would like to see there are loyal GGs out there to befriend, learn from and build a great friendship. It will happen when we least expect it I suppose!

 

💋😘Caly

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Paula F

[Caly James]

I totally agree. This would be the perfect and ideal situation!!

 

Caly

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