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    • #479384
      rebekka moore
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      Registered On: January 7, 2017
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      Hi Ashley and welcome!

      Great questions and list! Everything there would cover it for me!!

      I have, do some of it but not everything. It is a long slow process but worth the effort!

      Love and hugs!

      Rebecka

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    • #479262
      Mary Jane
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      Registered On: September 30, 2020
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      My bucket list is to go to the Seahorse CD Ball in Sydney.

      It’s a 400km trip for me. So a bit of a distance.

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    • #477886
      Diane Rakers
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      Registered On: August 18, 2019
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      Hi Ashley,

      1. Smaller shoe size.

      2. Hairless privates.

      Diane

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    • #477835
      Caty Ryan
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      Registered On: August 27, 2017
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      I only have one (practical) one left…. Finish off the body shave… Torso and “down below” sorted, especially the torso… Been clean for years. Arm and leg hair next, which I’m hoping will happen very soon..As in next week…Will celebrate by buying a pure silk nightie… On bare legs… What bliss….

      Attended two CD conferences, bought three period gowns, been a bride and bridesmaid… (long time ago) attachable silicon breast forms,many professional makeovers, en femme shopping trips, dinner out ,two lovely wigs,enough mid to upscale lingerie to fill two dresser drawers. Love the pure silk pieces, especially the pj’s….

      Plus a “retail dress rack” full of skirts, blouses  and other outfits to suit my “retired professional woman” self image..

      “Tick all the above” Having had the time on this mortal coil and the $$ required for the above is why I can make the statement above

      Nail polish would be nice… But would not be accepted by either “the Boss” or the retirement village environment where I live.

      Oh and I guess the one non achievable is to have my beloved SO accept Caty. She “knows but does not want to know”

      Caty

       

       

       

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      • #478334
        Caty Ryan
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        I forgot one important one I need to tick off my list. That is to have a professional makeover and then go and have a bra fitting with forms attached, en femme

        I had one lined up before Covid hit, but it got cancelled at the last minute. We have a lingerie store in the southern suburbs of Melbourne whom sponsors the local cd/tg group and is happy to accommodate “us”

        Which with the way Covid hammered shopfront retail, is hardly surprising. Our “Shekels” are as good as any ones…

        Lots of girls have mentioned letting their hair grow long. I dont have hardly any left to do that… Being the wrong side of 70 will do that to you!!!

         

        Caty.

         

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    • #477810
      Kelly Terry
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      Registered On: February 26, 2018
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      Not that I really had a bucket list but if I think about it and only put stuff that I can realistically do (so change dress size from 20 to 2 doesn’t make it) I think it would be something like

      • tell wife ✔
      • buy breast forms ✔
      • go beyond heels and dress with skirt/dress, forms etc ✔
      • dress for more than a few hours ✔
      • leave the house dressed at night ✔
      • leave the house dressed in daylight ✔
      • go out fully dressed in some remote place (with wife) ✔
      • interact  a little with strangers like store clerks ✔
      • interact more with strangers like in a bar
      • spend several days at home dressed ✔
      • go on vacation dressed 100% of the time (covid… maybe next year)
      • pierce ears ✔
      • grow my hair long ✔
      • go shopping dressed ✔
      • tell kids ✔
      • tell family
      • tell close friends
      • tell “everyone”
      • meet up with other CD  from CDH in some remote place  (planned for Aug 1, see separate post)
      • meet up with cd/lgbt people in town

      That’s what I came up with in 10 minutes, it’s probably a lot more.

      /kt

      • #477862
        Ashley Konners
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        Registered On: August 15, 2020
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        Great list Kelly.  Thanks for replying.

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    • #477804
      JillianW
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      Registered On: October 13, 2019
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      So, you want a bucket list, do you.
      First, a simple thing, pierced ears.
      Next, eyebrow shaping, a nice feminine arch.
      A professional transformation makeover would be nice.
      I would love to attend a conference like The Keystone conference. 5 days of non-stop girl time.
      Finally, my own pair of breasts.
      Not too much to ask, is it?

      Jillian

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      • #477863
        Ashley Konners
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        Another great list , Jillian that makeover sounds good. Might have to add that one to mine.

        Ashley

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    • #477785
      Camryn Occasionnel
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      Well, as old as I am, I’ve never even imagined making a bucket list, drab or femme. But since you brought it up, I think I’ll get myself a small CD bucket and put only one item in it: go on up to Harrisburg, Pa in March of 2022 to attend the Keystone Conference.

      Think of it: 5 days of blissful crossdressing spent in the company of other CDs, some, hopefully, from CDH. Dressed femme all day, every day. A venue where CDs and TGs outnumber the “straights” and the “muggles”.

      It may be the last big hurrah of my CD life. Only just the one bucket item, but a colossal one. But now I’m thinking what Grace said: I’m going to need a bigger bucket!

      • #477865
        Ashley Konners
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        These conferences keep coming up.  Sounds like a great experience!

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    • #477765
      Leslie
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      Registered On: September 14, 2020
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      There are so many things I want to do/get done that there isn’t space enough to list them all.

      get my ears pierced

      get more clothes and shoes

      go out more was out today in jeans and shirt full face makeup and purse went to Walgreens and Burger King.
      the wife and I have gone together for mani/pedi.
      My hair is growing out nicely getting to point it is a puffy enough that it is beginning to look good. One of the few benefits of being retired. Where I worked it was 1940 Navy regs required.

      I get to dress every day at home, ever gone out dressed for walks with the wife in the neighborhood.

      ,

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      • #477775
        Ashley Konners
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        Sounds like you’ve had some great times.

    • #477750
      Bridgette VonSmirff
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      Registered On: October 18, 2020
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      Well, like I told Grace, I seem to lack the imagination some of you have, especially Laura! But still,

      Pierced ears, ✔

      Go out as Bridgette, ✔

      Go shopping with wife dressed,  ✔

      Go out to dinner and bar, ✔

      Get pedi with wife, and professionally done eye brows, ✔

      Get professional bra fitting, ✔

      Get makeover, after pandemic

      Come out to a couple more people, once wife and I are ready

      Meet someone on CDH, love to but no clue how really

      Become comfortable enough to come out at work? Might be a pipe dream where I work…

      So most of what I want, i have already…

      Unimaginative Bridgette

      • #477866
        Ashley Konners
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        Well Bridgette those all seem possible.
        Ashley.

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    • #477706
      Bianca Everdene
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      Hi Ashley

      My crossdressing bucketlist aim for this year is to spend time at a hotel 100% en femme. 2-3 days in a large mainstream hotel, going down to breakfast, maybe going out for the day, back for dinner and chill in the lounge. Maybe one with a spa for a pedicure or waxing, or a pool.

      A big step for me, plans already taking shape. I wish to just show my inner Bianca to the world for my confidence, and maybe expose and normalise in society what we are, in my own little way.

      ❤️Bianca

      Oh! Am I allowed two? A Rose tattoo somewhere out the way.

      P.S. Ashley-looked st your photos, you have a great body😍

      • #477710
        Ashley Konners
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        Omg Bianca, I love all of them! I would love to do something like that. My wife and I talked about going out of town , getting a room and do some shopping during the day while dressed casual and then for the evening in a nice dress for dinner.
        hugs

        Ashley

         

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    • #477697
      Laura Lovett
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      Registered On: March 26, 2020
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      1. Lose the lockdown belly

      2. Lose the back pain

      3. Complete writing my stage acts (too much material, not enough organisation!)

      4. Take makeup to a stage ready level. I’m a CD, not a DQ, so there’s the challenge!

      5. Work on stage outfit. It’s got to look real, but stage demands mean tweaks.

      6. It’s all about the entertainment – join band as outrageously tall feminine bass player.

      7. Stay in a city other than Brighton – Manchester is on my hit list. This means shopping, eating out, sights, museums, bars, dancing, karaoke, drag show, the works.

      8. Organise a Drag murder mystery with myself as hostess. I have the materials and the blessing of my wife – this is going to be a scream!

      9. Get first femme gig.

      10. Have first successful femme gig… could take a few attempts!

      Fun, fun, fun – and audience participation all the way, spreading the happy vibes of the caring world of cross dressers.

      Ambition is one thing… organisation is probably number 11 on my bucket list… 😊

      Love Laura

       

      • #477744
        Bridgette VonSmirff
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        Registered On: October 18, 2020
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        How very intriguing! You fascinate me, you do!

        Bridgette

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      • #477707
        Ashley Konners
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        Wow Laura, that’s an amazing list hun.  Thanks for replying! Hope you get to do them all my friend.

        Ashley.

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    • #477682
      Michelle Trott
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      Registered On: April 7, 2021
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      After reading all of your wish lists I decided that I want it all. Especially the size eight and smaller hands and feet. Anyone have a solution for that. Thanks girls.😋

      • #477722
        Ashley Konners
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        Michelle if I knew a way I have them both.  Lol. Some are reachable,some may take a bit more work.  Thanks for replying hun.
        hugs

        Ashley

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    • #477680
      Sarah Du Hessisse
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      Registered On: September 16, 2020
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      Hi Ashley – First a pierced Naval with Ruby in it.

      Second – My hair in rollers permed & set old woman style.

      Third – Eyebrows plucked “ouch”.

      Fourth – Wear my favorite perfume always.

      Fifth – False Nails gelled.

      Sixth – Join an all female social group.

      Love Sarah xx

    • #477669
      Eona Oh
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      Registered On: March 7, 2021
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      Bucket list eh. I’d have to say getting the courage to tell the world who I am! I’d also love a nice hairless body…oh yeah, that too! ❤️

    • #477659
      Eva Kelly
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      1. Release guilt and shame about being feminine

      2. Listen to myself & take my needs seriously

      3. Take steps to greater self acceptance

      4. Believe in myself

      5. Learn to love my body

      6. Cry when I feel like it

      7. Transition on my timeline, on my terms

      • #477745
        Bridgette VonSmirff
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        I’ve only been here for several months, but the girls here have helped me so much with so many items on your list, I’m sure it’s within your reach.

        Bridgette

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      • #477701
        Laura Lovett
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        I love this list – you go, girl!

        All of those things are in your reach.

        Love Laura

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      • #477671
        Ashley Konners
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        That’s a great list Eva.  I hope it all works in your favour hun.

        Ashley.

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    • #477650
      Sandy Jayson
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      Registered On: September 29, 2019
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      Lets see
      pierced ears -done
      shopping in fem – done
      visiting with another cdh member face to face -done
      letting my hair grow put – done
      coloring my hair -done
      manicure/ pedicure
      color my toe nails -done
      come out to my brothers – done
      spend a day with my brothers while in fem
      get a make over
      spend a day with a friend ( whether another Cd or a GG ) shopping and doing some of the above
      get a hair removal treatment for belly, chest, back and legs
      loose a few pounds – hopefully all in the belly
      come out to at least some of my co-workers

      As you can see I’ve already done a lot of these. Hope I can get some more in the next year!!
      . Sandy

    • #477649
      Grace Scarlett
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      Hi Ashley.

      Pierced ears…..that’s it, thank you….

      maybe I need a bigger bucket???

      Grace x

    • #477620
      Rozalyne Richards
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      Here are a few of mine,

      Flater stomach,

      Bigger bust,

      Rounder hips to give me more of a womanly shape,

      Smaller hands and feet so they didn’t look as manly,

      Hairless body so I didn’t have to shave any more,

      Long long hair instead of having a bald patch on the top of my head,

      Losing some weight so i could go from a size 18s to a size 10,

      I know it’s a lot to ask for but maybe i could lose some weight and they could find a cure for baldness, i can change my body shape but I’ll have to put up with my big hands and feet xxxxx

      Hugs Roz xxxxx

    • #477593
      Wendy Swift
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      Oh my, where do i start ??  Some I have crossed off.

      – I’d love to be fully transformed by a professional from those transformation services.

      – dress up as Wendy for halloween.  This I crossed off my list.  However, I’d like to expand on this one by going as Wendy for halloween get togethers (once covid is done).  Before covid, we would have halloween GTG, but i’d like to go as Wendy when the pandemic is over with.

      – go out in public dressed.  this is sort of crossed off the list; I just walked around the block as Wendy.

      – buy a full silicone women’s suit with working plumbing.

      – go to work as Wendy.  Since I’m still working from home, I sometimes fully transform into Wendy to work; but someday go into work physically as Wendy.

       

       

    • #477805
      Camryn Occasionnel
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      Maybe a shipping container. It’s a really big dream.

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