So, the world attempting to get back to normal, at least that is the phrase I keep hearing from people around me, over and over. I overhear others having a conversation among themselves saying things are finally getting back to normal.

My question is, what specifically is this “normal” people are talking about? And do we really want to get “back” to what was or maybe, just maybe, we can build something better?

It appears to me that normal is suffering, stress, resistance and the voices shouting “you are supposed to do your life like this” then they point out the many ways we “should” be, in order to be, like them.

Normal is simply an opinion

Whether held by one or more people, who have decided their way is right, and the rest of the planets people are wrong.

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I would prefer we get back to natural. Natural is living, expressing, and allowing whatever it is within you to be expressed openly and, well, naturally.

I am naturally a friendly, outgoing person who wishes people an amazing day at every opportunity. What is natural for me is to laugh, play and have fun in everyday adventures; to not take life’s events so seriously to cause drama and stress.

Life is but a dream

My favorite song is Row, Row, Row your boat and my favorite song lyric is the heading here.

Understanding this has given me the freedom to simply be me, authentically and naturally.

I recall a line I heard Will Smith say in an interview many years ago; “I know who I am and what I want to gift the people of our planet. What you do with that is your business, what I do with that is my business; it’s just that simple.”

I have searched for my right label, looked for the right place and group to fit into, the right way to “be” in the world only to find that alas, there are far too many opinions of what is normal to try to live up to while continuing to deny the authentic, free self to emerge, express, and simply “be”.

I have spent most of my life attempting to be what many have said I should be according to their opinion of what is normal, and in this, I have created more suffering, anxiety, self-loathing than most can imagine.

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The truth is each of us is born, to simply “be”. Not what any other person on the planet says we should be, no, we are born to be our authentic self, our natural self. Expressing, laughing, dancing and simply creating a magical adventure called life.

We are creators of the reality we experience. Ask, and it will be given, seek and we will find; if we look for the evil in someone, or the world, we are sure to find it. The same is true when we look for the good.

What do you look for in the world?

Let us all help the world get back to what is natural by allowing others to be that which they have come here to be, their natural and authentic self, expressing in the way that makes them feel most alive, contributory, and free on the planet.

There is no normal, no right and wrong way to live, there is only the natural expression of each soul to fully become what ever it is that is trying to emerge from within.

Toss normal and all the stress, anxiety and suffering that accompany the actions of trying to be normal, directly out the window and choose to be natural.

Choose to “be you”

The people that matter don’t mind, and the people that mind, simply do not matter; if they do not support you in “being” and fully expressing your natural authentic self, they are the ones who are stuck in a set of long outdated beliefs and constructs; they are stuck in the “normal” loop, and that, is not natural.

This week, I wish you everything wonderful you can imagine; getting out of your own way and allowing what is natural to express will improve not only your own adventure but also the lives of everyone you encounter.

Let’s give normal the boot, and get back to natural…

Thank you so much for reading and commenting in Your Weekly Reset, You are appreciated my friends.

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Dropping out of high school I began touring in the Canadian country music scene at age 17; clubs and soft seat venues, drummer/vocalist for 22 years. After 4 suicide attempts and heavy cocaine etc addiction issues, i decided to learn Self-Acceptance as apposed to self-hatred. I became a student of the Universe and an Instructor of Life Skills at a local College while operating a Private Coaching Practice. Currently, I am rebuilding the Life Coaching practice after a couple years of more personal work well under way. I am also creating online opportunities that will serve our world community…and our world in understanding how the learned life skills of Intentionally and Consciously Creating an Amazing Life have filled my life with Passion, Purpose and Prosperity and they can for you as well... Namaste'

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Amanda Littrel
2 years ago

Loved the article especially about being me. Like many have said before me, I too hate labels and trying to fit into the labels instead of being ME. Why do guys get told they can’t wear a jean skirt but it is ok for females to dress like men. This my favorite outfit and I love to wear it everyday.

skippy1965 Cynthia
Trusted Member
2 years ago

“ if we look for the evil in someone, or the world, we are sure to find it. The same is true when we look for the good.” This is how I view the world-I ascribe the best motives to others in how they act and how they treat me; this is not to say that I cannot or have not been hurt by having this attitude (I least a few times) but the alternative is-to me at least-anathema as it would make me feel cynical and depressed. So I will continue in my generally very optimistic view of… Read more »

Jane Don
Active Member
2 years ago

Here here–you’ve hit the nail on the head– It seems like I’ve been arguing that “Normal" is just a way to Control people–since I was a Teenager–My thing has been–In Free societies we have Freedom to be Different– & -To this day-& when I keep the discussion limited to examples of Religion/politics /foods we eat ect–Folks Agree–But a guy putting on a Dress is somehow out of bounds– Even when I throw in that no one blinks an Eye when Women dress in mens’ clothes-For some reason people see it as “Different" (meaning BAD) to them- the human Animal is… Read more »

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