Dear readers,
Over the weekend I was thinking about you, and about the journey that I’ve taken. In many ways I’ve been tremendously blessed. My self discovery, the support I’ve had along the way and my transition have all worked out about as well as I could have hoped. Yet I know that for many of you the road has been harder. Perhaps you’re just starting out, or perhaps you’re a loved one of someone who is on their journey and you’re hurting, confused and scared.
I realize that for a little while yet I still have something I can contribute back to the community. Even though the memories of my former life are fast fading into the distant path, I know I’ve walked a path that for many is still shrouded in mystery and tainted with anxiety.
I think 2014 will be a year where many of you will experience breakthroughs. I know there will be heartache, but there will also be joy. Each step along the journey to discovering your true self is a magical and beautiful endeavor.
Will you be my BFF?
To start the next year off right I’ve done some tinkering and improved www.crossdresserheaven.com. You’ll find it now works better on your tablet and mobile phone, and should load a lot faster. You’ll also be able to login with Twitter, Facebook or Google+ to leave your comments (don’t forget the 3 steps to keep your feminine identity secret).
So, dear readers, it looks like you’re stuck with me for a little while longer 🙂
While I’m around I’d like to know what you are most interested in hearing more about. Please drop me a note in the comments and let me know what you would like me to share.
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My name is Dana and I live in Michigan. Your site is a welcome and unexpected surprise. I was in hiding for so long. Afraid to be the woman I am. Yearning for acceptance. You are an inspiration to me and others I am sure. There aren’t many groups here that help…you have truly made it possible for me to be free and live like God intended. Thanks
Dana, you do not indicate your age, but if you are perhaps older there isa group on Yahoo called ElderTG which you may find helpful support. Vanessa is after all a mere babe in the woods at least compared to moi. (wink, wink Vanessa 🙂
Thank you Cheryl C. I am 47 years young but I am blessed with youthful looks. Thanks for that info…I will look them up
Hi Vanessa: It is sometimes very lonely and somewhat scary,trying to come to terms with my feminine feelings.However reading all of your commentsmand also from other Girls,it has given lots of comfort! Comfort,because it is good to know that iam not alone! you have given me the insight to know,that it is alright to have feminine feelings!. While as of yet do not go out freely dressed as a woman,you have given me the courage to explore this part of me!,and with you insightful comments,know that i will soon! Also from reading the many comments from other girls,know that i… Read more »
Dear Vanessa,
What is your take on genderqueer/genderfuckers:
I look & feel fabulous in women’s clothes, hairstyles, & make-up, but I like my beard !
Yes, I sometimes get harassed, but the compliments & words of encouragement make my day !
Thank you for sticking with us for a little while longer. {{Hug}}
Your just wonderful,
just wonderful,
I hope to come out someday
I echo Dana’s sentiments,you are an inspiration for all of us girls,who have yet to truly fulfill our wishes to be sexy women!you are a friend to all of us!!!!!
Vanessa, I’m so very pleased that you came to this realization yourself that it would be a mistake to abandon your ‘sisters-in-arms’ and that you still have a contribution to make. I remember when I read that ‘last farewell post’ thinking, “Well, that’s pretty crappy!" I truly understand the desire to get on with your new life and put all the old pain and struggle behind you. On the other hand, in Plato’s allegory of the cave, and in the movie The Matrix, there is an obligation of those who successfully woke up and escaped to go back in and… Read more »
@Cheryl Tights C – I cannot find a group by that name in the Yahoo Groups directory. If Vanessa doesn’t mind, could you post a link directly to the group please?
since i started crossdressing at the age of 13 wearing my mums knickers and anything else i could wear without getting cought then when dating i would tell my girlfriend at that time to leave some spare underwear and clothing at my house in case they stopped, they never stopped at mine no one was aloud which i knew but thats how i got them to leave things so i could wear them when i was alone. As time went on i started to let very close friends{girls} put make-up on me that progressed to giving me a complete make… Read more »
great to see that you met a girl who was open minded and adventurous enough,to let you enjoy your feminine desires freely! also good to see that your wife respects your desires and indeed helps get garments for you,you are lucky!
regards
elisa michelle