“Why do women get all the fun fashions and what’s wrong if a guy like me wears them”, I often wonder.
Searching the internet, I’ve found lots of websites targeted towards CD or TS individuals. There seem to be only a few references to guys, like me, who simply like wearing women’s fashions, but have no desire to pass as a woman. This feeling has no explanation, no matter how much I think about it or try to research it.
Simply, I love the way women’s fashions look, and I have this deep, inherent desire to wear those fashions, from heels and flats, to mesh tops and lace tops, to cute party dresses and formal dresses, to exquisite lingerie. I have no interest in makeup or wigs, I really like my guy face and how it challenges people’s thoughts when they see me dressed up in women’s clothing.
It took me a long time to admit that I was actually a crossdresser. I often thought of myself as just a guy who likes to “try on women’s clothes”. At first, the term crossdresser seemed to me as reserved for someone who really wanted to look like a woman.
With no interest in transitioning, my daily struggle is how to be true to myself while trying to make sure most of my world doesn’t know that I’m a crossdresser.
Advice, comments, questions, email are all welcome. I’m just hoping to hear if any of have had similar experiences and struggles, or know someone like me, “Just a guy wearing women’s fashions.”Tags: crossdressing acceptance discovering my identity