Dear Readers,
When I first started my transgender journey I didn’t know where to turn, what to do and how to deal with the conflicting emotions inside of me. I struggled for many years – afraid, lonely and scared. I was lucky to come across a loving couple who drove 200 miles to meet with me. To be the first people I ever told my deepest darkest secret: I was a crossdresser. Thanks to that couple I found my own crossdressing community.
They introduced me to other people who become my friends, and who walked with me on my transgender journey. Friends who counseled me when I told my wife to be I was a crossdresser, who held my tears years later when I knew I needed to transition, and who were at my side when I had my surgery.
Looking back, those friends changed my life. They allowed me to be my true self.
Join the Crossdresser Heaven Community and find your friends.
A Crossdressing Community to feel at home
Everyone deserves to find a friend who understands
Have you found a friend you can confide in? Have you found someone to share in your laughter, to model your latest outfit to, someone who will be there for you when times get tough?
I’m excited today to announce the official launch of the Crossdresser Heaven Community.
Here you’ll find a safe, supportive environment to discover your inner woman. You’ll join a complete transgender community. You get a profile you can customize, access to the private Crossdresser Heaven social network, messaging and multiple forums for discussion.
Join the Crossdresser Heaven Community today!
The transgender journey can be long and lonely, join to find a friend to share your burdens and laugh in your joys. I look forward to getting to know you.
-Vanessa
“Things are never quite as scary when you’ve got a best friend.”
-Bill Watterson
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I had a friend but she passed away from lung cancer last summer. I’ve not found another friend to confide in
I just want to be happy wearing girls clothes. I love feeling feminine and looking pretty as a girl. I used to dress in my moms lingere as a young boy and her sheer lace panties and stockings felt so good on my skin and then I tried dresses and pretty tops and tight jeans and I just felt fabulous dressed as a woman. Then it turned sexual as I learned to love having sex with other cross dressed boys cuz when I had an orgasm it was much more wonderful than with a real girl but then I am… Read more »
i feel exactly the same havent ventured to meeting other cross dressers though love the piece; it spoke to me
Lana, you sound like you have found yourself while young. Enjoy it! I am a 57 year old who has crossdressed since I was 15. My wife has known for most of our 27 years together, but makes me keep my crossdressing hidden from everyone, even my teenage daughters. I am frightened of losing them all, but each year my feelings grow stronger and my secret ‘girly’ walks make me long to be a full time woman. I love life, but can see why some tgirls get suicidal. these intense feelings drive me mad! Best wishes.
Sharelee x
Lana. I have dressed for a long time also my wife knows but really does not like it . I love the way the cloths feel I love having my bra and brestforms and makeup on.i never thought of my self as gay put now I want to try and have sex dressed as a women .i think this is only normal if the cloths feel great the sex will feel extra great
I am much like Joann, I have been cross dressing since I was in my teens, about 30 years or so now. My wife hates it, and I do mean hates it where it is just about to break up our 25 year marriage. She knows I have been cross dressing on and off for years, quitting for a while only to come back to it. I am done purging everything. I also love the way my bra, breast forms, panties, dresses, and make up feels on me. I am experimenting with wigs in order to find the right one… Read more »
It is my considered opinion that (assuming you are not gay and hopefully you would know that, what it means and hold no negative attitude toward those who are) that if you dress, one because you want to emulate that that you admire and/or you dress because that is who you are, then you should have no guilt. There are a lot of GG’s who will not preform oral sex on anyone and that is OK, but if you are dressed and find yourself in that situation and you “do it." Again, it is my considered opinion that you are… Read more »
Is there any way I can find a Big Sister/ Mentor/ Girl Friend? I have the desire to dress-up with all the works, but I lack the know how. I felt like a girl from the age of 10, and I just had my 57th birthday. I feel I can’t wait any longer. Any help will be a blessing. I want to say thank you for this Heaven!!! It has helped me to know I am not alone out here.
Hello I am new here and I am looking for a very close friend to confide in.
Am new here plz give me a direction
I am also new here contact me on rajpoot.riya@yahoo.in
Hi,riya I want to join crossdressing pls help me
I too was never interested in dating men before either but when I am dressed as a woman I actually turn myself on and fantasize of having a man make love to me .I become the woman and as such want to become a whole woman , however I am not in the least attracted to men at least non so far.Maybe mister right has to come along .