Meeting my wife, Stacie changed my life around. I wouldn’t be here without her. Stacie’s support has made me realize how important it is to not give up. She has been there for me when I was down.
There was a moment when my whole wardrobe was stolen by the 2nd of my non supportive ex-girlfriends. The ex-girlfriend did it to make me stop dressing. Stacie helped me by pitching in to rebuild my whole wardrobe.
Stacie and I have known each other for a long time, ever since I was six and she was five. We started out as friends. We both have memories of me going into her closet and pulling out clothing to try on. It was fun and neither of us had a problem with me doing so. I looked good in her clothing and she agreed.
Stacie loves that I’m a great shopping partner. We have so many wonder shopping memories together. There was the time that we both picked out the same dress, only in different colors. I let her pick out things for me as she knows me so well. Stacie sees me as one of the girls when we go out together or with her friends.
Stacie took it well when I decided to go fulltime in February. She sees me as being much happier and is still supportive. She loves me; loves me as a girlfriend in her life. Stacie and I started dating in 2006 and the got married in 2009. Stacie loves that I’m a redhead and that I have a feminine side and am also a Marine. She is a proud wife of a Marine vet.
Stacie was supportive of me enlisting in the Marines. At the time, I was heading in the wrong direction in life. I hung around with the wrong crowd and knew I had to do something. Stacie said to do what I had to do, and she saw my life changed, me coming out a better person after boot camp. I wrote to her with letters, or we spoke on the phone. Our future isn’t going to change and nothing is going to stop us from growing old together.
I plan on going on as Kelsey until the day I go. Stacie has been taught a great lesson by her parents’ love. She accepts people for who they are and won’t judge people for who they are.
Good for you
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How awesome to have a supportive partner! I wish you every happiness in life, Kelsey!
Cyn
how wonderful it is to have a supportive gf or wife, go shopping together. dressing up and being happy and free and feminine. getting to know what its like to be a female and go though the buying dresses, nylons,make up, perfume, ear rings, nail polish and dressing up all pretty. it takes time to get dressed up. but with the help you have is awesome. so happy for you and your wife. enjoy and so happy for you. wish my wife would be more supportive and go shopping for dresses and come home and dress up and she can… Read more »
You are one lucky person, and you have an exceptional wife. Mine was 14 when we met, and she was also a life-saver. If only she were more accepting of my dressing…..
Bettylou
My wife and I know the song that describes us well,My Best Friend
Wonderful Kelsey , supportive SO is a beautiful feeling , Tiff
Up until I met my wife—I did’nt dress–but she often knew me better than I knew myself–she introduced dressup into our sexlife in a playful way—I did’nt know I wanted it–somehow she did–She helped me & others (friends & Family)accept & even embrace “Jane" -She was one of those people with tremendous empathy & caring for others–she was forever volunteering with different charities -from soup kitchens to children’s charities to a distress lines to Kiwanis children’s charities to neighborhood things–Everyone liked her (even loved her because she was the most caring person they knew & tried to do good her… Read more »
This article sounds like the way my life is now going.
My ex’s all knew but didn’t exactly support. Now I’m told i no uncertain terms if it doesn’t suit me or the colour is all wrong.
(Still relied upon to repair things when they go wrong tho………)
Kelsey, before anything else; THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR YOUR SERVICE from a USAF Veteran. I read with great envy what you shared with us. I hope you know how blessed you are to have Stacie in your life. That is a prayer, dream and hope for way too many of us “gurls" that sadly will never happen. Although my wife tolerates my satin passion and wearing, lingerie and long satin nightgowns, she hates the idea and wants no part of it. So, “Berta" is “closeted" and will stay that way for what’s left of my now 79+ year old… Read more »
I was told under no uncertain terms in February that my wife of 39 years ago could no longer remain married to a man who cross dresses and she said that divorce was the only solution. My heart was broken but Lacy had been closeted for fifty (yes) fifty years and she needed her freedom. I also knew that quitting wasn’t an option as I had tried several times by purging and used a lot of tools to remain abstinent from cross dressing, but always came back to what made me feel complete. I came out to my whole family… Read more »