You need to log in to post to this user's Wall.
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Nervous but hopeful in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Thanks Allysa,
Definitely thinking therapy is a good idea, just need to find one online. I will have a look after my holiday is over. Thank you so much for your thoughts and kindness.
Hugs right back,
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
I do think that maybe a dressing/makeover appointment might give me more clues as to my preferences, however not happy about me being at high risk of Covid so that would have to wait. I don’t blame you for being nervous and I think you are very brave.
Thanks again for your help,
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Nervous but hopeful in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Thanks Stephanie,
CDH is certainly proving to be a great place to make friends and get help. Hugs right back.
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Nervous but hopeful in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Thanks Allysa,
Some very practical advice for me. Much appreciated.
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Nervous but hopeful in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Thanks JJ,
Everything you say makes sense.
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Suzanne,
I am at high risk of Covid so my wife and I don’t do anything face-to-face that we don’t have to. Hopefully that will change in time. While I definitely do not want to tell family members of my leanings, should I discuss this with a therapist online (definitely Skype or Zoom or Discord so there is a visual link also) then I wou…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Michelle, may well give it a try. In for a penny as they say.
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thank you, Stephanie.
I can’t say for sure but I think my males side is more significant than my female side but when ‘she’ arrives, it is a powerful force indeed. Do you go out dressed at all? Not sure I could see myself doing that. Perhaps I might enjoy doing everyday things (indoors) as a woman over time like you have. It is a puzzling time…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Fiona,
Confusing? I’ll say! That is an excellent suggestion. I had considered talking to a therapist but since dismissed it. Do you – or anyone else – know of a good online therapist? I would only feel comfortable talking to a female practitioner about this.
Thanks again,
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Michelle,
Sage advice indeed. I think being on a week’s holiday away from the daily stresses of life has shifted me into overdrive. I will endeavour to slow down and try to relax into the journey. Thank you again.
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Karen,
Right now the thought of going out scares the hell out of me. I don’t imagine that I will ever get beyond dressing at home, but I am just happy that I can do this with my wife’s blessing. I nearly purchased breast forms yesterday but chickened out at the last moment. An empty bra, teddy, body etc. is a bit deflating – pun int…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Emily,
I have spent a few hours over the last 3 weeks reading the forums on here. I think reading those gave me the idea that wearing female attire outside of the bedroom would be more relaxing. I think I am just being over eager and need to allow more time for my feelings to adapt. I, like many others, have purchased clothing over the…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Stephanie,
I am indeed a very lucky person. My wife is so supportive and having read a number of threads on the forum, I can see that is not always the case. I will forge ahead and see where this adventure takes me. I guess waking up in a chemise and panties takes some getting used to.
Thanks again,
Debbie
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Michelle,
Having looked at myself in the mirror after dressing, I have to say it just made me feel a bit awkward. I’m no spring chicken and seeing myself in lingerie/skirt, stockings etc, as much as it feels amazing against my skin, didn’t make me feel like a woman. I guess that’s why I wondered if adding a wig, makeup and shoes might…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Thanks Wanda,
I’m writing this having just woken up in a pink camisole and panties. It has felt comfortable and not unpleasant, just not as empowering and girlie as I’d hoped for. I thought that it would just feel ‘right’ although what that means I’m not to sure. With my wife’s support and the encouragement from the wonderful ladies on this sit…[Read more]
Debbie Briant started the topic Stumbling even without heels in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hi lovely people,
Don’t know if this is the right place to say this but since I joined this wonderful community 3 weeks ago, I have had further discussions with my wife and she is now helping me discover what ‘this crossdressing thing is all about’.
I purchased a load of sexy lingerie, skirts a dress etc… from Shein and Amazon. Some of it is a…[Read more]
Debbie Briant replied to the topic Nervous but hopeful in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Thanks Alice.
- Load More
Recent Comments