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Erika Pilkington replied to the topic So I finally did it (talk with my SO) in the forum Personal Crossdressing Stories 1 years ago
I know how hard this is to do. Good for you for taking the leap.
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Dating Advice in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
That’s how I feel about it. If it is wierd now how is it going to be if it goes longer.
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Dating Advice in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
She was upset of course. She doesn’t understand why. I don’t know how to explain it to her. Somethings are left better unsaid.
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Dating Advice in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Thanks to everyone, I appreciate the input. As much as it hurts I have broke things off with her. I am hurting right now, because we were so intellectually compatible except for this and some sexual stuff. I really liked her, but I know how this will turn out. It will be worse if I let it go on. I know some of you have significant others that play…[Read more]
Erika Pilkington started the topic Dating Advice in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
After my divorce I promised myself that when I started dating again I would always tell my significant other about the crossdressing thing when the time was right. So this time I didn’t wait too long, I wanted to get it out of the way and see what would happen. I told her and her reception was that she accepted it, but didn’t want anything to do…[Read more]
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Relationships vs. Fantasy in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Kim, you bring up an excellent point and I think I am going to post a new disscussion, because I deal with many issues besides crossdressing and I would like to discuss it further with the group as it could be very helpful for everyone.
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Relationships vs. Fantasy in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Thank you Jerri, I have thought about changing therapists and looking for one that deals with these issues. I have been with this one for many many years and this subject seems to be a sticking point. She wants to deal with it like an drug addiction and I dont know if that is the best way.
Erika Pilkington replied to the topic Relationships vs. Fantasy in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Thank you for your respose. I know that I cant be the only one that struggles with this issue. Finding ballance is difficult for many of us. I just have had such negative experiences with telling my partners about this issue. It makes you feel like such a weirdo. Like you dont fit in as man or a woman.
Erika Pilkington started the topic Relationships vs. Fantasy in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
I struggle heavily with crossdressing. I am really tall and not passable. I get sexually aroused by wearing female things, and then after I fantasize about all kinds of kinky stuff and I masterbate, Erika goes back in the box. Right now I am in a vanilla relationship with a woman and I am struggling sexualy. I have not told her about the…[Read more]
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Erika Pilkington started the topic Hello again my friends in the forum Introductions & New Members 2 years ago
Hi my name is Erika and I’m returning after a major purge. I have tried to stuff myself away and hide yet again to return. I struggle with my own acceptance like many of you out there and I am just looking for support.
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