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Harriette replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 4 hours ago
@sashabennett Re: John Cena I don’t know. He looks better than I do. Not sure where he found heels to fit. 😁 However, the reason that the subject of crossdressing even came up was because of some recent bad politics…. Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "memories of my femininity" – 4 hours ago
it was decades ago watching a TV commercial about women’s underwear
Do you remember which advert it was that caught your eye, because some vintage ads are on-line.
Harriette replied to the topic "How long do you wear your corset?" – 5 hours ago
@sheryl321 A waist trainer does not create a permanently narrowed waist. Once you take it off, everything should bounce back. Corsets can do this over enough time, but that could rearrange your innards, too, so be careful what you wish… Read more»
Lacy replied to the topic "How long do you wear your corset?" – 5 hours ago
@harriette I’ve tried it and it still hurts my lower back, I’m sure it’s because of the arthritis in my lower back and the fact I’m 70 in two weeks. Lacy
Harriette replied to the topic "How long do you wear your corset?" – 6 hours ago
@leainvancouver I haven’t tried wearing a corset after my heart surgery. Thanks for the heads-up!
Harriette replied to the topic "How long do you wear your corset?" – 6 hours ago
@rholtman96 If you wore a corset when you wear heels, would it support your back properly?
Harriette replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 6 hours ago
Crossdressers themselves have a difficult enough time explaining why we dress, so having non-crossdressers try to explain why seems like a mug’s game.
Harriette replied to the topic "What are your favourite films?" – 9 hours ago
@daddydavita I misremembered about Charlton Heston. It was Burt Lancaster.
He played a swashbuckling pirate in the 1953 The Crimson Pirate. Three pirates crossdressed, so that they could interrupt a wedding party. They succeeded, but not in the intended way.Olivia Crighton replied to the topic "What a rush!" – 9 hours ago
@harriette Anyday you are out and about dressed even a little bit femme is a good day. And when you find what you are after even better. 😀
Harriette replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 10 hours ago
@mary I think the idea was that society sexualizes the clothing and that they are the ones who think the crossdressers are fantasizing about them.
Ignorance causes lots of issues, not just for us.Harriette replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 10 hours ago
People are socialized to accept a narrow vision of how men are supposed to behave. Any male that doesn’t fit that vision is rejected. There’s not a lot of thought given to why things are the way… Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 10 hours ago
@ellieprincess18 I want to look good, too, not necessarily to “look sexy”. Resisting change is definitely part of our crossdressing life, though.
Emily Alt replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 12 hours ago
@harriette The reason that it doesn’t work the other way around “is that a man cannot wear women’s clothes, for reasons that cannot be specifically articulated, because we don’t want to reveal what we believe about women… Read more»
Cassie Jayson replied to the topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 13 hours ago
@harriette For me, Harriette, I not only want to wear women’s clothes but I want to go and apear to be a woman. Even going to be accepted as a woman. I am not sure about hormones and surgeries, but… Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "Hi, I am Shery…new to CDH!" – 14 hours ago
Welcome to CDH, Sheryl!
@chrisfp99 Made a career change and had to focus my efforts on other life issues!
We all do what we can, when we can do it.
Harriette posted a new topic "Why can't men wear women's clothing?" – 14 hours ago
This is a common lament of MtF crossdressers: why can’t I wear women’s clothes when women can wear men’s clothing? Many CDH members ask about it and we try to answer or explain it away the best that we can… Read more»
J J replied to the topic "What a rush!" – 15 hours ago
@harriette I agree, just the SA what you need and let them do their job. I just say unfront when something is for me so they can just do their job. It is so much easier for them to help… Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "What a rush!" – 16 hours ago
@oliviac Yesterday, I had to pick up a prescription, so I also appealed for help from the lonely person in make-up in the drug store and got it. I was dressed ambiguously, with breast forms, and didn’t say why I… Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "I’m new here" – 17 hours ago
Welcome to CDH, Bella! I guess any advice or experience that could be shared would be appreciated. I want to make sure I handle this right but also understand its not always easy. If you feel… Read more»
Harriette replied to the topic "Hello, I'm Nora" – 18 hours ago
@noralisa Welcome to CDH, Nora Lisa!
Your journey has just begun, so I hope you include us in it, too.- Load More
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