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Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "MY WEEK AT THE 2022 KEYSTONE CONFERENCE" – 3 months ago
Thanks for a great personal overview of the conference. I’m looking forward to Southern Comfort next year. Ive never had the chance to make a major event like Keystone, so your article gave me an idea of what to expect…. Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "And What I Wore (Part 4)" – 3 months ago
That sounds like quite the evening! I too love a great jazz club. They are always very intimate and friendly and I’m so happy for you being able to be who you are. Can’t wait for the next chapter in… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Hi Cheri. Thank you for the kind words. I absolutely recommend that you try again. With more places being more open to us and much more accepting, its easier to blend in, and clubs that are LGBT friendly are easier… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Emily, thanks for the kind words. Yes, things have exploded for me since that night. I have so many new friends in the local LGBTQ community. I’m invited to other events where our local drag performers are appearing. This past… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Terri, thanks for the kind comments and I take it as a compliment that you became so emotional over the story. I still get so happy remembering that night. Even now, when I go back to the club people are… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Hi Haley Anne and thank you for the kind comments. Just wanted to say that I think you look fantastic and you and your friend seem to be having fun. I agree that the LGBTQ community is much more accepting… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Thank you for the comments Leonara. Yes, it was a wonderful experience and I do continue to go regularly. As far as going out, I just decided that it was time. The opportunity presented itself and I just went. Thats… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Thank you for the nice comments, Danika, and I agree that the type of club i went to is a great starting point, simply because no one really worries about it. There are several strait couples as well as singles… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
I agree, Stephanie. Just being out is such a rush, and then to be so well accepted was the icing on the cake. Keep taking the small steps, and soon it’ll be second nature. Thanks for the comment, it means… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
I’ve been back several times, and it never gets old. This first time was not filled with fear as some stories I’ve read here. I guess it was more the excitement of actually going. I was a bit nervous driving… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
Thank you for all the compliments, Brielle. I’ve been back several times since, and now I’m just one of the regulars. Friends there always stop to say hi, even some of the performers have become close friends, and invite me… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer posted a new topic "First Time Out Dressed and Wow, What a Night!" – 3 months ago
I’m a crossdresser, and have been most of my life, in one form or another. Now, as I’m older and a widower, I can make up for all those times I missed. I now dress freely around the house. I’m… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic "Working Boundaries" – 3 months ago
My wife and I are professional crafters, and we often collaborate on projects. She works with material and yarn and paint, and I in wood. She helps me with design, as I cannot draw a strait line without tools. Once… Read more»
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic How are you different? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
The female me is more outgoing, happier and more at peace with myself than male me. I also find myself standing taller wirh much better posture wearing heels. I just feel good. I feel pretty, sexy and sometimes very adventurous, ready for whatever might come my way.
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic Its more common than one might think. in the forum Personal Crossdressing Stories 2 years ago
i love being a crossdresser. Recently, after attending my usualThursday night drag show, I needed a bite to eat before heading home. I stopped at an all night diner and no one said anything about my outfit. Enjoyed my meal, chatted with the waitress who said I looked nice and went on my merry way. Im sure that I was the subject of talk for them…[Read more]
Raymond Swarmer replied to the topic I fine.y did i in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 2 years ago
Planning to get mine done soon. If my TV home improvement hero Mike Holmes can wear diamond studs on a job site, then so can I, evenif I am retired.
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