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Brianna Rose replied to the topic Closet CD in the forum Introductions & New Members 2 years ago
Hi Cecilia, welcome to CDH! Hugs, Brianna❤️
Brianna Rose replied to the topic Hi… in the forum Introductions & New Members 2 years ago
Hi Jen, welcome to CDH and your new sisters. Here for you whenever you want to chat. Hugs, Brianna❤️
Brianna Rose wrote a new post 2 years ago
Hello to all the fantastic ladies that live inside this beautiful platform.
I ask for your patience and understanding as I ramble on a bit about a topic that has been on my mind. I have been grappling with my
Seems to be an evolution of events but the feeling of being with a man is so complete and fulfilling for some of us. I love being out on dates and public events with a male companion and holding hands and being romantic. The secret is finding such guys and the easiest way is tg events and clubs where the admirers are looking for such girls. Sure many are just looking for a one nighter but there are many looking for romance and companionship too. Then there is meeting friends through their friends that are interested in our lifestyle. So good luck Brianna on your journey
Thank you Deborah for your comments. Yes, I would agree TG events could be a great place to meet guys that are admirers and comfortable, great suggestions and I appreciate you wishIng me lick on my journey. Warmest, Brianna
Hi Jillian, You know, I feel the same way, like I’m hanging on for the ride, no clue where it will take me. Both exciting and terrifying at the same time! I guess like finding your own unicorn in life. Hoping to find someone while safeguarding yourself is hard but I also hope rewarding someday. Here’s to both of us having a wonderful ride down the path of future romance! Hugs, Brianna
Hi Celeste, yes and that’s what I’ve encounter too many times but still want to hold out hope. I try to never say never but not naive of our lifestyle situation either. Warmest, Brianna
I think when we dress, it gives us permission to do the forbidden..I am going though the same thing and one time, acted on it..My first time out to a club dressed, I went outside for a smoke with a couple friends. I felt someone touch my bottom and reached back. He pulled away but I reached back to place his hand back on it..It felt so exciting. I turned around and he placed his hands on my hips and by instinct leaned in to kiss him..I felt his face stubble then felt a rush that I have never felt before..The friends I was with moved in to remind me that we had to go..I had too much to drink they worried I would get into trouble if I stayed..They were right..It was nice to have a wing man that night..I think of that night often and would like to explore that side of Gina more…I guess there is more to me than I knew…I say go for it! But BE SAFE!!
Gina
Hi Gina, Wow, I know exactly how you feel, the first time a guy made a move on me I was like part frozen and part excited. I too kiss him and felt his face stubble but I didn’t have friends to pull me away, I was on my own to control the situation, I did but the pure sexual desire was so strong I almost couldn’t control myself. The one thing that I kept in my mind was BE SAFE Brianna, you don’t know him…Well, I was able to kinda tell him that we could meet again and call me but never heard back. Btw, his hands on my hips and butt pulling me into him was crazy exhilarating, what a rush is right! Thank you so much for sharing Gina, I hope you get to experience a chance rendezvous again sometime girlfriend…Hugs and be safe too. Brianna❤️
Thank you Michelle for you kind note and wishes. I hope we all find our soul mate no matter how challenging and yes, we know how men can be for sure. Brianna❤️
Brianna, I can SO RELATE. Your post was reminiscent of my early days of dressing. Your words haunt me – in a nice way of course: “…to take a chance and go on a date with a guy.” I went out on a date (different than “dating”) a couple of times years ago. It was both fun and disappointing. FUN – he treated me with respect, made me feel gloriously feminine, and I felt fulfilled. DISAPPOINTING – I wanted it to last forever.
Please write more and let us know how it goes. Wishing you the very BEST OF LUCK!
-Nancy
Thank you Nancy for the kind words. I will keep writing about my experiences and life adventures. If you ever want to share more about you, would love to hear more. Here’s to us finding what we’ve always desired! Warmest, Brianna❤️
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Brianna. I loved your article, thank you so much for sharing. I too am attracted to men and I wrote an article last year on the subject. I feel there is someone out there for us and all we have to do is keep looking and have a positive attitude. You are going to have a lot of disappointing dates but don’t give up. My right is out there girlfriend. Hugs Jenna ❤
I’m one of those guys that likes Trans woman and is respectful and wanting more. I’d love a nice relationship, most trans dating sites are a horrible experience. Most of the girls are married! So thats a deadend, I’m in KS and this lifestyle is not understood and makes it even harder to find one another. I was glad to see this topic, as it seemed most here were “straight” and GG focused.
How very sweet ❤️
boy—-This is really complicated for someone like me–(how to be a Girl) What example to follow—My late wife & I were swingers from shortly after we started dating–& that’s a different world– A world where women can & do become Dominate when it comes to sex–She (Alice) behaved more like folks expect a man to act–A stranger groping her in public was fine (even desired ) by her way of thinking– but it looks like the Majority of women would never accept this behavior — For us it was just “Normal” –I have a strong desire to become the Woman she was–A real relationship Plus the freedom she had– (for the better part of 30 yrs)–I don’t have the Freedom to live full time as female because I Need my job–(esp without her income helping)-That is Literally the Only thing stopping me– & now I’m even more nervous about going out dressed & running into someone from work -can’t afford time off looking for a new job now– Plus-there are fewer jobs to be had– being single-I don’t fit in the swingers crowd now (esp since I dress) that was acceptable as a couple before–but not now– I do know my wife & I s lifestyle was “Different” But whats’ a Gurl to do?
Brianna, the dating sites are very tough. While I am generally not attracted to men while dressed or otherwise, I am attracted to other CDs. That being said, I have CD friend Chrissy who simply exudes sexuality whether in her female or male forms. I met her the first time in our drab attire for lunch after having chatted for many, many weeks online. I was attracted to her immediately. We do not get to spend tons of time together, but when we do, it is always fabulous.
She is one of three CDs I have met through dating sites that are very patient and fabulous to be with. But those are the rare exceptions in my experience. I don’t even chat with men on those sites because they tend to be after one and only one thing. Others have suggested going to TG friendly places and while I am not in a position to do this, I believe it might be a good place to start.
Thank you Janice, I have thought about TG friendly places too. So happy that you have shared a great experience with your friend. I’m in a same boat, difficult to go to these places often so my options are limited sometimes. Btw, yep, men on the dating sites only want on thing. Even worst, their not always polite and feel free to act crude because they think we are suppose to like this type of talk, disheartening and honestly, gross. Hope you continue to have fun with your CD friend. Bigs Hugs, Brianna
Hi Brianna
I really enjoyed reading your srticle and it certainly struck a chord with me. When dressed and living as Gail I find myself dreaming about the things you talk about meeting someone nice, talking together, going places together and also being intimate together. I haven’t yet been to any dating sites I am not sure there are any here in Australia but I haven’t really looked yet. I have been to a CD bar on a few occasions where I received a little male attention but nothing that advanced past some conversation. Not sure wether that was me or them that didn’t take it any further.
My biggest concern is that when I am male me I dont find myself attracted to men so opening Pandora’s box and Gails legs to a man is not something I can separate between male me and Gail me. Yet through all this Gail still calls and asks for some male attention. It is a very difficult decision to make with some consequences attached. Having said all that we are all different and I hope that whichever path you choose brings you happiness
Love as always
Gail
Hi Gail, Thank you for your thoughts on this. I agree, we all have our own path and all we can do is seek happiness with ourselves and our decisions. I hope you too, find your happy place…kisses, Brianna
Hey, Briana. What a conundrum. Although I have been intimate, while in guy mode, with transfemmes and crossdressers, I have never had relations as a woman or with cisgendered men as I’m simply not sexually attracted to men. Nevertheless, I find myself dreaming of performing felatio and practice, whenever I get the chance, with a dildo. I must confess that it is the ultimate turn-on, so much so that I find myself gravitating to porn sites that show videos of crossdressers performing felatio. I used to find photos of male genitalia disgusting, but now I’m aroused, especially if the male organ is in the mouth of a sissy like me. I’ve thought about finding a glory hole where I could indulge my fantasy (orally caressing a “disembodied” penis), but they are illegal and not very hygienic. What’s a girl like me to do? Perhaps, one day I’ll find a guy that I’m attracted to, and my problem will be solved. It’s all so very confusing indeed, Briana.
Hi Petra, thank you for being so open with your thoughts and desires. Yes, I have thought about the same things, its only natural, and even being with a man all the way. I’ve even fantasized about like a whole romantic outing, him picking me up for drinks and dinner, maybe some dancing, a moon lite walk, I’m on his arm while we banter and build sexual tension, then he whisk me off to his place where we spend the evening together. I’m dressed in some sexy lingerie and he’s in a pair of cute underwear and robe while we slowly explore each other, ultimately me feeling his weight on top of me. I could go on but I think you get my drift GF! ☺️
Confusing is right…but the dream is wonderful.
Hugs, Brianna
Brianna, I apologize, but I’m just now reading your post. You describe – and so elegantly – the perfect evening. My dear, you’ve sent me in to a pink tsunami! If you ever find yourself in the Midwest, we must hang out. Hugs and Happy Thanksgiving!
Same here, I used to never look at men and their penis’s but the last fews years I have grown to love look of a nice hard penis, I too have thought of going to a glory hole but am to scared to do it
I have these feeling the more I dress the femme feelings get so much stronger makes me shake is this feeling normal
Hi Desire, agreed. The feeling only grow stronger. Brianna
I some what relate. But being bi-sexual the attraction to males has been there all along. But once I started exploring the female in side of me then it was finding men that would like that part of me. And of course women that would accept it. The thing that I would tell you is that in guy mode or femme mode I would be prode to have you on my arm out to dinner movie clubbing. You are a very beautiful lady. Hope to chat with you some more.
Karen
Thank you Karen for the kind comments, you are beautiful too!
We all deserve to be on a guys arm, if thats what we truly want… I would love to chat anytime.
Kisses, Brianna
Hi Leslie, Thank you for the wonderful note. Feels so good to know that I’m not alone. Sexual thoughts s a nature progression and can’t tell you how many times I’ve daydreamed about being with a guy in a healthy loving relationship. I hope you also find someone that makes you happy and and treats you like the beautiful queen you are. Kisses, Brianna
Hi Leslie,
I’ve tried Crossdresserdating.com but not much luck. I think going to legitimate CD events and TG friendly places may work better. I did meet one of my close friends now on another site, she’s a CD girl like us, but the dating situation was a dud. I was blessed to meet her though wasn’t a loss in my mind. Brianna
Brianna,
Great article, your sharing so openly is inspiring!
I’m not attracted to men, even when I’m crossdressed so I can’t say that I’ve experienced all the feelings that you have, and I’ve only been out in public once when dressed so I admittedly don’t have a lot of experience with my feelings when interacting with the world as Marcellette. I can, however, definitely confess that I did notice men more when I was out in public dressed and I’m not sure why that happened. It wasn’t an attraction, but rather more of a timid/shy inquisitive way of looking at them and wondering what they thought of me – specifically if they had ‘clocked’ me, and if not, whether or not they thought I was pretty LOL! Vanity at its finest I think….
Now if a man were to approach me while I was out dressed, and he was friendly, kind, and complimentary……I think I’d be flattered and maybe more?
Thanks for sharing this Brianna!
Hi Marcellette,
Thank you for your thoughts and comments. It’s definitely different when you look at guys while out and whether they are checking you out as well. Yes, I find myself wondering the same thing, am I pretty? Am I put together right? Are they looking at my face, body, dare I say boobs and butt? All of these thoughts are running through my mind…I hope they think, she’s pretty, I would like to meet her…I think your right on, vanity is the best!
Hugs, Brianna
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Brianna,
Thank you for having the courage to express your feelings publicly in your article. It was well written. They say “there are plenty of fish in the sea” but most of the fish you catch, will have to be released! The world of cross-dressing is sadly misunderstood. There are so many dating sites with horny guys who want “friends with benefits” or a one night stand, but that’s not what you want, nor would I. Someday I hope that you catch a man who is the man of your dreams, and treats like you like lady. That rare fish is swimming out there in the sea.
All the best.
❤ Rev
Thank you for having the courage to express your feelings publicly in your article. It was well written. They say “there are plenty of fish in the sea” but most of the fish you catch, will have to be released! The world of cross-dressing is sadly misunderstood. There are so many dating sites with guys who want “friends with benefits” or a one night stand, but that’s not what you want. Nor would I. Someday I hope that you catch a man who is the man of your dreams, and treats like you like lady. That rare fish is swimming out there in the sea.
All the best.
❤ Rev
Thank you for having the courage to express your feelings publicly in your article. It was well written. They say “there are plenty of fish in the sea” but most of the fish you catch, will have to be released! The world of cross-dressing is sadly misunderstood. There are many dating sites with guys who want “friends with benefits” or a one night stand with a CD, but that’s not what you want. Nor would I. Someday I hope that you catch a man who is the man of your dreams, and treats like you like lady. You deserve it.
All the best.
❤ Rev
Hi Revel, thanks GF, always good to hear your thoughts. Yes, there’s many fish out there…what kind of net do I need to catch one?? Men should treat all ladies with respect and kindness, we all deserve only the best.
Warmest,
Brianna
Thank you. That’s a real good question! Wonder Woman has the “Lasso of Truth” and wouldn’t it be wonderful if we had the “Net of Truth” to catch the right mate, and find out if they were being totally honest and sincere? Sadly, it’s not that easy. Yes, we all deserve the best, and I wish you the best of luck GF.
Rev
Hi Janine,
Thank you for your thoughts. I wrote this as I know its a wonderful safe place to share feelings and I would hopefully get back good open feedback as well as sharing experiences. Just lets me know I’m not alone in the search for a “good man”! As I either meet someone or just see a guy out, I always thinking, wonder what type of guy is he, kind, smart, compassionate, respectful, sensitive…but I do look at the attractiveness too. Also, because I’m 6’1…6’5 in pumps, so tall, I like guys who can stand eye-to-eye, maybe now I’m asking too much here .
Hugs, Brianna
Oh how I’ve dreamed of being the girl on the arm of a nice guy on a real date. So far it’s remained just that… a dream. I’ve gone through with a few of the dating site hook ups just for the experience. Hardly the same thing. Nothing satisfying about giving a guy what he wants then being shown the door. We deserve better but I have no clue as to where to find it.
Hi Candy, Thank you for your comments. Yes, we have our challenges with men for sure. I’ve experienced sort of the same thing with guys wanting a private NSA relationships that last a hot second. We just have to keep positive and searching the sea for mister right!
Hugs,
Brianna
Wow, what a beautiful article. I identify with so much of what you are saying here, most of all my changing views on dating and opening up the possibility of dating a man and learning what I am attracted to as my feminine self evolves. Thank you for putting it in the perfect words!
Thank you Julie, I appreciate your kind comments and sharing. Hugs, Brianna
You will love the experience as I have as long its the right guy. I look for kindness humor and acceptance in a man. The question becomes how do you meet them. Well for me it has been through tg events and clubs where admiring men go to look for us. Avoid the online sites unless youre just looking for one night encounters which I dont think you want from what you say. It is wonderful being out as a woman in public but super exciting when you are with a man be it for lunch , a movie ,or just an outing. Your feminine skills go into high gear and will be surprised how satisfying it can be. Good luck Brianna
Amazing article. Thank you for writing and sharing. You are definitely not alone in having these feelings and thoughts.
I have dressing since I was 12, Never gave men much consideration, But in the past five years I definitely have become more attracted to men. Still am attracted to Women. I don’t know if this more about me wanting to feel more like a Women but do like looking at a cute guy