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Toni Palmer replied to the topic Ashamed, Angry, Tired and & at a Loss.. in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hi Jill – I am so sorry to hear you are going through this, & how bad things have gotten for you. You mentioned grandkids so you must be around my age group – I’m 69 and there are more than a few folks our age here on Crossdresser Heaven. I don’t have grandkids, and I also don’t have family close by, they’re either gone or back on the East Coast…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic I'm 71 and at long last have found a group I can relate to. in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Joan and Paulette and Rosalyn and Lauren and Christina and everyone,
I’m up there with y’all at 69 and I’m all for us wearing what we like, what feels good. I have thought about being age appropriate, but I’m not sure what that would be, or that I’d care for fashions appropriate to older women. Who says, anyway? Who says we should stop…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic Love lingerie in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Chrissie, mos def lingerie is wonderful, it can be so transformative and at times I can feel like I’m in an imaginal world where I am beautiful (I’ve always wanted to be beautiful) where I can dance all night and walk around the block in my pantyhose and stilettos with a lace top with long bell sleeves and short short skirt combo on (I’m…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic If Only I'd Embraced My Feminine Being Earlier in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Paulette, thanks for your response. Being who I am, it never occurred to me that I could conceivably “pass” as a woman given how thoroughly you have to be feminine in voice, gesture, walking, laughing, sittin, (peeing), and so on. But I also resonate with you when you said, “I have have reached a point in my life where I don’t care what o…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic Loving and Being Loved in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Christina,
I just looked up Fulton, NY … brrrrr … I went to grad school in Syracuse and those winters were so frigid and sooooooooo long – bury my car under 10′ of snow and wait till it thaws out in May. But then I came out here to Chico where it’s been over 100 degrees for the last 3 weeks. I feel like I live in Dust City U.S.A. a place…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic New to this. Wanting to experience getting full drag makeover. in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Me too! Me Too! Donna Blair, I wish I lived in Edmonton and we could get full makeovers together – I don’t think I could do it alone. But good luck, and I hope you’ll post a picture of your fabulous self when you do it.
Toni Palmer started the topic Loving and Being Loved in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Everyone, I’ve already been a little active writing to people and posting some pictures, so here’s a bit of an intro.
I do wish I had opened myself fully to crossdressing when I was younger. But here I am and here we are. And I’m very happy to be on this path now – happy, excited, timid, self-conscious, wanting to go out, afraid to go out,…[Read more]
Toni Palmer started the topic If Only I'd Embraced My Feminine Being Earlier in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Everyone, I’ve already been alitle acitve writing to peple adn posting some pictures, so here’s a bitof an intro.
I suppose my topic title makes me sound a bit regretful, but it’s true, I do wish I had opened myself fully to crossdressing when I was younger. But here I am and here we are. And I’m very happy to be on this path now – happy,…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic Glory and sexy fashion outfits? in the forum Sexy Crossdressers & Transvestits & Transgender 1 years ago
Hi Frida,
Like you I’m uncertain about what is permitted both in our conversations with each other, how forthright or explicit we can be about wanting to be sexy and why we wear & enjoy sexy outfits. And the same goes for pictures. The description “sexy outfit” would seem to mean just that – what is it you or I think is sexy, or what makes us…[Read more]
Toni Palmer joined the group Sexy Crossdressers & Transvestites & Transgender 1 years ago
Toni Palmer replied to the topic Having My Nails "Done" For The First Time in the forum Fashion Beauty & Makeup 1 years ago
Hi Diane,
Wow for those red fingernails! Congratulations, and I know just what you mean about enjoying how they look on the steering wheel of the car, or wherever else you will look at them them. It’s fun, and the colors are great, though the names are kooky – I’m wearing “Purpe With a Purpose” right now. I hope you get your nails done lots more…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic Who (or what) am I? in the forum Introductions & New Members 1 years ago
Hi Sarah, I think I might be a similar “who (or what)” as you are. Am I right in reading your comment about having “feelings of wanting to try CD-F to M encounters,” that you are talking about you as the CD-F (crossdressing as female) who is curious about having a romantic or intimate encounter with another man? If I’ve misread you, please forgive…[Read more]
Toni Palmer replied to the topic What prompts you to dress? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
Hi & thanks to Jess and Janice and Everybody, it’s liberating to read about all the things I (we?) love about crossdressing:
~ yes to the sensual – we get to indulge all 5 senses in just gettting dressed up while men get to indulge about one-tenth of one of the senses;
~ women are allowed to make themselves look sexy and it is wonderful to enter…[Read more]Toni Palmer replied to the topic What prompts you to dress? in the forum General Chat "Life as it Goes On" 1 years ago
~ I dress almost every day. I get this feeling inside that I want to look beautiful … not that I do, but by putting on makeup, pantyhose, a black dress or a tunic, some jewelry, letting my hair down, putting on heels and walking around my place, I do feel beautiful for a while.
~ I dress because I feel more at ease and calmer in my feminine…[Read more]Toni Palmer replied to the topic How many of us who crossdress are also musicians? in the forum Crossdresser Heaven Polls 1 years ago
I’ve been playing guitar since the 1970’s, mostly self-taught but I had a few really good taechers here in Chico, CA. I have my electrics lined up right now, love to make a bit of joyful noise. I think if I had it to do over, I would have hooked up with a crossdressing community in my 20’s, and I would have played rhythm guitar in a tight…[Read more]
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You are so right!! Thank you for your post.
I don’t think there’s an issue about the content of private messages. I know that I have gotten into some pretty wild exchanges with other girls on this website. I do realize that they like to keep the chat rooms fairly “clean.”