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Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
This is not the first reply where I have seen someone basically accuse many of us of being in denial over whether we are attracted to men or not. So I’m going to repeat the main issue again here so that it is clear to everyone – the main issue here is not being in denial over whether we are attracted to men or not – the main issue is feeling lik…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
How would you know that most men here saying “I am not attracted to men” would not have any femaled friends? A couple of my best friends are women… So what would lead you to make that kind of blanket assumption?
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
That is very interesting Sonia, because when I watch a cis male being intimate with a trans woman, I too identify or fantasize being both of them interchangeably, sort of back and forth between the two throughout the experience. Before it was strictly seeing myself as the man, but in the last couple of years I increasingly see myself as both, in…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
OMG Becka yes, the hair, such the cringe reaction from me, hairy hands, arms, legs, the worst is the stomach and back, I. Just. Can’t…. Then add to that big feet, oafish proportions, no curves, all angles, the big man-brow and the smell, oh and the flat butt, and worse yet, hairy flat butt, YUCK… I just can’t do it…looking down in bed and…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Yes Boots, that’s an interesting observation. Because lately I find myself both wanting and desiring a particularly beautiful woman I may be looking at, but then also part of me wanting to look like her, be like her as well. And it’s weird because I’m not attracted to men but there is this weird part of me that wants to turn them on anyway. Which…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
I’ve pretty much had zero erotic associations with my nipples my entire life. There was a strange incident once where when I was about 17 or 18, boys being boys and roughhousing and what not, sometimes (and largely heterosexually, no latent homosexuality tied to it whatsoever), once in a while you or whoever would grab some other guy’s nipple and…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Cody, validation is an interesting concept and I can see how it might apply to some. It feels like it doesn’t ring a bell at all with me, since for me it feels completely about in part simply expressing my identity (all this stuff I’m feeling on the inside) in a more feminine way and not being constrained/confined to just expressing myself as a…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Pamela, yes, thank you for that. I have thought about this a lot too, and it seems to me that it’s all about the role playing and what I’m attracted to in terms of who is playing what role. I love femininity and all things femme, and can enjoy two women together as an example, and can enjoy a male-female couple of course, but male-male not at all…[Read more]
Yolanda Beaches replied to the topic "Mainly" straight dilemma in the forum Relationship Advice 1 years ago
Melissa, why would you call it “latent homosexuality” when people like V aren’t attracted to men, but really only to the appendage and not what the appendage is attached to. Example: I’m very attracted to functional pre-op trans women (and been married twice to cis women), but I couldn’t get aroused by looking at a man even if my life depended…[Read more]Yolanda Beaches became a registered member 1 years ago
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