Panties, bras, stocking, nighties … In fact, women’s lingerie is much more interesting – and fun – than the unattractive men’s underwear and pajamas.

Perhaps that is why several men are opting for women’s lingerie.

Several men prefer to wear panties than underwear. Perhaps due to the diversity of styles and fabrics – such as lace, satin, microfiber, and others.

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Some do it for fetish, others for crossdressing, others for reinforcing the gender they consider to be (trans) … and others for finding it more attractive than underwear.

The same concept applies to stockings, nighties and bras, but the last item deserves special attention in this article.

Men (usually) wear socks, even if they are knee-high. They wear pajamas instead of nightgowns.

If underwear is the male equivalent of panties, the male equivalent of bra is …

Men (usually) don’t wear bras – or anything equivalent. The main function of the bra is to support breasts, which most men do not have.

Precisely because it has no male equivalent, the bra is the most feminine piece in existence.

But there are several men with breasts – whether by fat or gynecomastia – who even walk without a shirt calmly. While women with little breasts (or practically no breasts) are required to wear a bra under social conventions. Is that not strange?

Usually men start wearing lingerie for a stimulus. When I was 12 and saw the girls at school starting to wear bras, I was curious and wanted to know what it was like to wear one. I wore my sister’s bra hidden and enjoyed the experience.

I liked the feel of the straps on my shoulders and the hug the bra gives. You can feel protected. If it is a beautiful bra, self-esteem also increases.

How many boys didn’t feel like it but didn’t have the opportunity or courage to do it, not even with Mom’s bra?

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I even wore my sister’s bras in hiding – sometimes I went to school wearing a bra under several sweaters on cold days. Why couldn’t I use them without fear, even on hot days? Why couldn’t I have my own bras?

Speaking of stimuli, there is a concept called “bra discipline”, in which women force men to wear bras as a way of disciplining them against betrayals and inappropriate behavior.

Some women do it to make the man submissive, although it is difficult for us cross dressers to think that wearing a bra is a punishment.

Perhaps this could even be pedagogical in cases like a boy snapping a sister’s or a school friend’s bra.

Putting him in a bra and snapping a few times would make him understand that it’s not good.

On the other hand, he may be doing this out of repressed desire to wear a bra, and this has to be considered to help him.

Although men – in theory – don’t need bras because they don’t have breasts, they can use them as a stylish piece that makes them more confident. Some professional football players already use a sports bra with a built-in GPS to monitor their performance. As the GPS needs to be in the chest region, a sports bra was the most suitable piece to embed it without impairing the player’s performance.

A few years after I tried on a bra for the first time, I decided to try on a pantyhose and loved the feel of the pantyhose on my body.

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Then, I decided to try on a lace boyshort panties and I also thought it was beautiful to see my buttocks in lace.

Nowadays I think about buying nightgowns, they are much more attractive than the boring male pajamas.

I loved some models in satin, lace and pocket-bra models.

This is another detail of exploring the lingerie world: we try one piece, then try another and so on. Many start exploring the fem outwear, but that is the subject of another article.

Some stores already sell bras and panties for men – although they are manufactured according to the male anatomy, they do not look as fun as the female models … besides, they are much more expensive.

We don’t want to force men to wear lingerie. But invite them to try it at least once. Perhaps if everyone did, more men would start to wear lingerie and this could stop being a taboo, reducing prejudices and can help dating and weddings by making them more fun – if the wife / girlfriend agrees…

A couple with matching lingerie can be fun.

On the other hand, trivialization may cause crossdressing to lose its “adventurous” character …

  • Would you like to describe the sexiest lingerie outfit you ever put together to wear by yourself?
  • Have you gotten lucky enough to wear a sexy lingerie outfit together with your wife or SO who also was wearing a sexy lingerie outfit as well during a love making session at night under candle light?
  • Are there certain colors of lingerie you like to see on yourself or your wife or SO?

Thanks girls for taking the time to read another one of my articles!

Please feel free to send in a response to either my article or one of the questions I’ve posed to you below my article.

Sincerely, Marie

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Amy Myers
Noble Member
7 months ago

Thank you Marie Claire for an interesting and well written article. You mentioned that bras are the most feminine article of clothing, and that is true for me as well. I started with my Mom’s bras and shapewear back around 12 or 13. This sounds familiar to you and others I’m sure, then on to stockings and pantyhose. Course things didn’t fit right, but it didn’t matter at the time! Now nothing makes me feel more feminine than putting on a bra and either stockings or pantyhose. Some have a preference for one or the other, but I just love… Read more »

Lacy Satin
7 days ago
Reply to  Marie Claire

That is definitely a fact. I own over 75 bras. Wish I could share a picture here that I took of my bra collection.

Deborah Sullivan
Trusted Member
7 months ago

I still enjoy the feel of the straps and snugness of a bra even when out in male mode and now just feels natural. I have always found lingerie so sexy looking and the feel is divine. I think other men also look good in them.

Lucinda Hawkns
Active Member
7 months ago

what a great words , I believe men should wear a bra also. some men have bigger boobs then woman do and they flop around, so wear a bra dummy, its just clothing. yes its to hold up the breasts’ . wearing panties well I wear panties 24 7 for the reason they fit better and feel better then that male under wear they call it. I love the feel of a bra around my shoulders and around my back. love wearing nylons also in which i wear during the winter time to keep my legs warm and also gives… Read more »

Sandy Honey
7 months ago

Yes I love wearing bras. The compression on my chest always makes me feel calm and serene. I do happen to have B cup breasts so bras do fit me. I do believe that a bra is one of the most feminine article of clothing made to wear. The styles are never ending along with the materials make for a experience like no other.

Frederick Huestis
7 months ago

Been wearing womens clothes since age 12 secretly. Even wore my foster mothers girdle to school.-Jessica st. James

Tammy Girl
7 months ago

I do love to wear panties and pantyhose Shapeware and leggings I would love to have all that on when I’m making love with the wife but she does not like that she does allow me to wear that stuff though

Tammy Girl
7 months ago
Reply to  Marie Claire

That would be very nice to do I would love to do that too

Alicia Bennett
7 months ago

As someone with gynecomastia, I can tell you this- sometimes it feels like a blessing. I love the feeling of the bra. But wearing it in the public has never crossed my mind because I am afraid. Often I give a passing glance when I’m near the bra section in a mall. Its just what we’ve been taught by the society, guess I will need time to break through the mental barrier.

7 months ago

This is a lovely article, Marie Claire. I completely agree that it will be wonderful if more men experienced the pleasure and beauty of wearing pretty lingerie, so making it much less of a taboo. I believe that a lot of guys wear panties these days but won’t admit it. As for bras or other lingerie or outer wear, it’s perhaps more difficult to say how many men wear. As you say, guys should give it a try and see for themselves how satisfying it is to dress in such a way. I for one love to dress in a… Read more »

6 months ago

I so loved this. I LOVE bras! In this time of medications designed to fix what ails, I became the beneficiary of a delightful side effect. Boobs! What more could a girl ask for…right? They’re not big, don’t stand out in a crowd, but I can pass the pencil test. …and they’re delightfully sensuous, especially my nipples. In fact the sensitivity is so pronounced that at the end of the day after rubbing on a shirt, they hurt like crazy! Like many of you, I ‘Google’ stuff about a condition and was delighted to read the words, ‘Sports Bra’. Since… Read more »

Lacy Satin
7 days ago

My interests started with the first time I put on my sister’s nightie while we were playing dress-up together. My interests in lingerie of all kinds grew from there. All through adolescence it was mostly wearing my mother’s panties under my clothes and wearing her nighties to bed when I got the chance to steal one from the laundry basket. It wasn’t until I got married that my interests grew into desiring to explore femininity to its fullest extent. I was surrounded by so much femininity and a closet and dresser full of feminine clothes that I had never had… Read more »

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