New as of July 10/21 Things have gotten clearer and hopefully more stable in my life so I’ve made the leap back onto CDH, probably not as active as in the beginning but this is a marathon and not a sprint! Update January 15, 2021 For the foreseeable future I will be mostly absent from CDH, the need for my full attention in my life is great. Trying hard to create wholeness in my life. Just in case there’s any question, my name is pronounced Ray! (And its got no similarity to my drab name in case you’re wondering) I’m 47 years of age. Happily married for 25 years, we’ve stuck together for 29! Father of 2 beautiful adult daughters. Cross dressing some sexual/gender confusion has been with me almost all my life, sometimes barely evident, other times nearly all consuming. Very happy to have found CDH! I am currently (March 2/21 and still at it) writing an in depth bio, mostly for myself. It’s had me reliving many thoughts and feelings that haven’t seen the light of day in decades. Its been quite cathartic and revealing. I’d like to share some or all at one point in the future.