Love all things fem. I was married at 24yr, at that stage I had a couple of kilts and a box of lingerie which I kept hidden. I got caught wearing a kilt one day which didnt go down very well and the kilt got trown out. we have two daughters who are now 30 & 32 who Im not sure if they are aware. All these years my wife knew and had some tolleration but never accepted and it was always hidden away. anyway after 28 years, another argument and I said to myself if this happens again I might leave .... it happened again and i stayed at a motel for the night and the next morning I went and cleaned out my wardrobe (boy clothes). the next day, (We worked together) she mentioned, I didnt think you would do that! but there was no invite back either. I since explored Janene and went to Australia to a couple of events and discovered what trans gender and crossdressing was! After two years I was on a dating site and met a beautiful girl, after the third date I told her about both of me which she accepted and life has been so brilliant since. As the girls in Australia said... it dosent go away so finding the ballance is so important.