50 years old, married. Still new to this and still getting my feet under me. Trying to learn and see just how far I really think I can embrace this. It's no longer a fantasy, I love "girls night" clubbing with my wife and friends in Vegas. Short dresses, dancing, having a ball... Dealing with a lot of guilt for feeling this way having been raised that "MEN don't do that!" I'm sure you know what I mean... I'm 6 feet tall, 225lbs, a sizing MESS(LOL)...Size 20/22 in the chest, size 14/16 hips...WTH? 46-36-42...oh well...