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Gabriela
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Gabriela
4 years ago

Hi Ashleigh. While you do look very nice in your pic, passing is much more than looking good. So you do have a great starting point, but passing, whoever may tell you that you do by looking at only one pic, while encouraging, may be doing you (or anybody else in a similar situation) a disservice.
You seem to have a nice facial bone structure, so much that even with very little or no makeup in your pic, with the long hair, your overall look is feminine, and like I said, that is a great start!

Gaby

Gabriela
Active Member
Gabriela
4 years ago

Ashleigh, I can totally understand that! Been there, and got support from others to help me get to the point where I was confident enough to take that step. Only one really important thing to consider, if you allow me. Aiming for passing, nothing wrong with that, but if you aim to be accepted instead, that may be much rewarding. Being out and passing is mind blowing and exciting, but you are basically building a character in many ways. And you can only tell very few times if you are really passing or not. But being accepted is even better!… Read more »

JackieBoy
Baroness
Famed Member
4 years ago

You look terrific, confidence comes from doing it once and then repeating. A friend of mine Heidi Phox once told me. If someone recognizes that your a man in a dress, well that’s because you are. Just put on the best show you can. Your first time out dress causally leggings and a sweater and boots. GO to an Ulta and get a makeover. The makeover will also give you more confidence as you will look amazing and feel amazing and it also is a delight to sit in the chair and feel of the powders and other products they… Read more »

JackieBoy
Baroness
Famed Member
4 years ago

I have 10 wigs or so and not one as far as I know is human hair. The wig you have on looks fine. Checkout Heidi Phox’s web site. I learned so much from her over the years
http://www.heidiphox.com/

Tiff Any
Active Member
Tiff Any
4 years ago
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Heidi is fabulous

Peggy Sue Williams
Duchess
Famed Member
4 years ago

Ashleigh,

The ladies here are sharing some great information with you.

You have an excellent start, youthful looks, a pretty face, nice hair color, etc.
IMHO, rather than concentrating on “passing,” work on the basics, make up,
attractive outfits, hair style & color, body language, etc.

Cross dressing is an art, and I consider myself a continual work-in-progress,
always learning something new and improving on what I know and am doing
already.

You are in the right place. The CDH ladies are tops, the best!

Hugs,

Peggy Sue

JOJO
Lady
Trusted Member
4 years ago

The ladies have indeed provided you with some excellent advice. I personally can not stress enough that confidence is the key. There is nothing more attractive than a person with inner self confidence of who they are.

Scarlett398
Editor
Noble Member
4 years ago

Hi Ashleigh it’s Scarlett, and yes, with the proper application of some makeup and some red nail polish you could pull off the passabilty check with no problem at all!

XOXOXO Scarlett

Kim Austin
Kim Austin
4 years ago

Hi Ashleigh, As a newbie I can’t really offer any advice. You are way ahead of me and I’ve forced myself out twice recently. I agree with everything that all of the other people here have said and I am grateful for their advice. Always grateful to these amazing ladies. I think if I could have heard advice like that growing up I would be a more complete person and I don’t just mean as it relates to dressing. Thank you all. One thing I have found in life is that 9 out 10 people don’t/won’t/can’t? look others in the… Read more »

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