I am trying to find out where I belong. I do not have a femme personality and do not see myself going there. I am an "underdresser" and have been for as long as I can remember. I am looking to find conversations with similar folks. I was away for a year. Recently I have made changes. I have worn a skirt in public and just this week I shaved off a mustache and bought a wig. I have now gone out in public as a fully dressed female. It has been great so far.