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Janice
I was married for 29 yrs. and raised 3 children who now have children of there own which makes me a grandfather of 9. I have lived with cross-dressing as far back as 8 yrs. old that I can remember. Not understanding it throughout my life and still not . I started going out publicly April 2021. I have never known or been around anyone of my nature to talk with or to discuss cross dressing till joining CDH. I have subdued it a lot from fears throughout my life, always wanting to blossom with femme. I have always had it in me and when I used to cross dress it felt so natural. I always wanted so much more that it would make me sad when I had to come out of my clothes and clean myself up. I was on night shift at least 10 yrs. and when the kids were in school I would dress for long periods of time during the day. Which is part of the reason for my wife filing for divorce. Trying to salvage our marriage I purged every fem thing I owned and tried to dismiss my cross-dressing since it was the biggest reason my wife told me that caused her to stop loving me. (It never went away). After that I had a 12 yr. relationship with a women who didn't and couldn't understand it. During that 12 yrs. I was allowed to wear leggings and certain cotton tops. I would have time to myself occasionally to get fully dressed. Sadly she passed August 2020. I found CDH's web site and joined early April 2021. Then on Apr. 17th 2021 was the day I broke through my fears and I went beyond my front door as Janice and haven't stopped yet. I started HRT Oct. 2021. I have been giving myself time to adapt my personality and my walk as Janice living alone. I am still working blossoming in myself as Janice "legally" and enjoying my experience living full time. I have pursued procedures available to me. l am comfortable with my gender identity and living my life fully.
Well, this is the photo we’ve all been waiting for. You previously posted photos of your stylish black outfit, getting ready to attend high tea. And now we see you at the actual event. You look lovely, Janice. I’m guessing that you were the most beautiful lady there. And based on what I can see zooming in, it looks like you were killing it at bingo. It sounds like you had a really fun time.
The loving feeling I received from all these ladies was amazing. Yes my dress attire was possibly the most extravagant. But there were others there dressed very nice with their hats and heels. I was the only one with gloves, he he. Head held high, shoulders back and strutting my style I made a grand entrance. I did not plan it but I ended up being about 10 min. late when I walked through the back of the community hall. My first time at this location and I only knew 5 other ladies out of about 75 there. Let me… Read more »
Janice such a vision of femininity.i bet you were the belle of the ball. Your beautiful look must have took the other ladies breath away as you entered the hall.
Oh how i wish our lives were closer and you could take me under your wings and guide me through this journey.
Hugs and love Carol. ❤️❤️
Carol darling, Bless your heart honey for such an inspiring compliment. Thank you. Carol honey we would do the town with no stop signs. I mostly walk alone not because I want to it is just the way it is. I am trying venture into regular kind of places with a good atmosphere. If just for a drink, a church lady invite to a high tea party. I am not trying to sound or present as someone with a Big ego. I have just been fortunate in the places I have chosen to go in that I’ve been accepted. But… Read more »
I remember my first High Tea it was at a Grateful Dead Concert
You are to much JackieBoy. I can relate and only imagine HIGH Tea a Grateful dead concert. He he. Keep on Truckin’ like a doo dah man JackieBoy. Lots of love. Janice. Ps thank you for the memories.
Very nice photo Janice, and a lovely outfit. I really like the hat too. It’s rare to get an opportunity to wear such a hat, but high tea – and I guess the Kentucky Derby – are events where it fits right in!
You are so right Kris. So when that opportunity presents itself especially if its the first time. I am taking advantage of it. I am invited to my second cousins bridal shower in late July or early August. A friend of mine is making me a wedding cake out of hat boxes, 3 deep. In each hat box I am putting in a gift. The top is a ball n chain as a gag gift, then a bedroom gift like a nighty and then the bottom something for the house off her registry , which I already purchased 8 pc… Read more »
Janice, these replies will surely multiply as viewers see and read your High Tea story! Lovely picture of oh so pretty you! How encouraging of the love you received from dozens of ladies. Uow was the cake and tea?
When you arrived ten minutes late, while the speaker was talking (and all eyes turned to watch your entrance), was there no announcement by even one of your five friends?
” Ladies, we are pleased to now welcome …. Janice!”
I’m sure that you confidently walked all the way to the 10 yard line to your chair. Hugs, Connie
Oh my gosh Connie darling I would have died on the spot if one of my lady friends did that. Kidding, for it was all in good atmosphere which made for a comfortable environment. We all interacted with one another throughout the course of the Tea Party. I did not know you could bring your own tea cup and tell a story about it. For I have one from my granddaughters 4th Birthday Party which was a tea event. The tea and cakes at this event consisted of a variety of flavorful tea bags with an assortment of mini muffins… Read more »
Absolutely beautiful, Janice.
Hello Mona. I was wandering where you have been. Thank You for the nice compliment sweetie. Love. Janice.
You look SOOOO pretty Janice!!❤️ I love the hat, and of course those sexy shoulders don’t hurt either!! Lol!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are such a darling Danica. I appreciate your kind and generous compliment. Sending my love. Janice.