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by scarlett398

I’m actually quite comfortable in both skins! My Sexy Redhead wife, as most all of you know by now, much prefers me in what she calls my “Handsome Husband” mode. She’ll look at pictures of Scarlett for very short periods of time, however, she doesn’t allow me to be dressed as Scarlett while in her presence. She doesn’t have one lesbian bone in her body. As a result, I’ll never get to live out my fantasy of making love to her while I’m in Scarlett mode. Whaaaaaaaaaa! That’s me whining! I love my gorgeous wife more than cross dressing so I respect the limits she places on my thrill of cross dressing. My pretty Scarlett wardrobe can never provide me with the unconditional love my wife has for me. So if I ever had to choose between the two, Scarlett would have to go bye bye. I came out of that cross dressing closet with her many years ago. That story is covered in one of my articles entitled “How to have “The Talk” with your wife or SO” in the Hodgepodge area of our Article section noted above and to the right of each and every page on this most wonderful site! I never have to hide anything that belongs to Scarlett ever again and it’s been that way for many many glorious years now! Thanks for taking time out of your schedule today to read my notes I paired with my photo of me in a classic Tommy Hilfiger dress holding one of my favorite teddy bears! Love Y’all! XOXOXO Scarlett



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I love the thrill of cross dressing and based on the CDH girls' comments in response to my posted photos, I must be pretty good at exploring the feminine side of myself. I find it sexy, sensual, exciting, challenging, and ever changing. I'm so very blessed now to have as much money as I want to spend on Scarlett and can now, for the very first time in fifteen years, actually purchase dresses, tops, and skirts while shopping with my wife! I never thought that would ever come to fruition! I can now store all of Scarlett's things in our huge dream home when just a short period of time ago, it would all have to be kept in a temperature controlled storage unit. I love Crossdresser Heaven and know it's the classiest and most tasteful cross dressing site on line. All the girls are full of support and encouragement and if folks come to the site with alternative motives which aren't in line with our founder’s rules and regulations, they are quickly deleted from our site. Vanessa Law, our founder, keeps this site classy at all times. She has much help from her Ambassadors, Chat Room Monitors, Photo Monitors, Article Editors, and many more personnel to keep this site classy, encouraging, and supportive.
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Sarah Kanter
Trusted Member
1 year ago

Hey Scarlett, Your pics are always fun and lovely, but I especially liked your thoughts here. I really appreciate how you are willing to put your wife and your relationship to her first. I think with anything, it can be easy to forget that our relationships are more important than our hobbies. I know everyone thinks about this differnetly and I don’t wan to judge, but I really appreciated your perspective here. Thank you!

Angela Crosse
Trusted Member
1 year ago

Thank You for those lovely notes with this photo, must find your article as mentioned to help me on this journey. By the way, great pic, you look amazing xxx

Amy Myers
Noble Member
1 year ago

Very beautiful Scarlett. I like your friend too.

Patty Phose
Famed Member
1 year ago

Liked yor little story. I agree, destroying a relationship over crossdressing is not worth it. My wife met Patty a couple of weeks after we met. That first day we went out shopping together as girlfriends. We became girl friends, so Patty as always been in our relationship.

I like being a guy, but I love dressing like and looking liie a woman. Wish I looked half as good as you when femme..

Melody Scott
Active Member
1 year ago

Love your comments here Scarlett. Yes – it is so good to be able to acknowledge and embrace all of our loves. Your story (like all of your photos) is inspirational! Hugs – Melody

Hope Roberts
Active Member
1 year ago

Thanks for sharing Scarlett. You look gorgeous as always. That was a very candid story and it sounds like you have a great marriage. Kudos to you for finding the balance ❤️

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Danielle Wayne
1 year ago

you look amazing in your lil black dress. yummy. I too feel blessed at the amount of tolerance my wife has for my dressing. Like you, she does not want to see me dressed. Oh how I fantasize about a girls day out with my wife followed by a lovely evening together. A girl can dream

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