Sadly now widowed after 28 years of a wonderful marriage to an accepting and supportive wife. We discovered by accident that I enjoyed feminine things and that she enjoyed being with a man willing and able to express his enjoyment of the feminine. I was in a relationship with my late wife's colleague and friend for four and a half years but never quite got to tell her everything. Started a new relationship 8 months ago but have not yet been able to decide how accepting she wil be.