I've always liked dressing in women's clothing since my early twenties. I dressed off and on when I could and kept it a secret from my family and friends. In the early 2000's I dressed frequently and even would venture out shopping. I then married in 2008 and have not dressed until just recently. I want so much to revitalize Melissa and try to dress more. Hopefully I can share this with my wife sometime in hopes she will understand and walk along with me in my journey. Update - I came out to my wife shortly after Thanksgiving 2020 and she was definitely surprised and somewhat shocked. She needed some time to digest what I had just shared with her and with a few good conversations about the subject she slowly begun to understand. I told when I first started dressing and my feelings I had when dressed as Melissa. I told her it helped me relax, get in touch with my softer side, gave me more confidence and just the feeling of looking and feeling like a woman made me feel good overall. She is slowly accepting this side of me but still needs more time to process and understand how this affects our relationship. For the most part she accepts Melissa but wants to have certain times designated for Melissa to be herself. I am so glad I told my wife and feel much more free to express myself and enjoy the woman within me. Melissa