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by mariec

This is from a dinner party a few weeks ago. My friend Steph is in the pink dress and we're with two GG friends of hers. It was a wonderful night out, but there was one hitch. Twice the male server addressed me as "sir". Honestly, he was very scatterbrained and I took no offense, but it was a little strange feeling. More than anything, It made me feel grateful that about 98% of the people I interact with while ‘dressing’ in public treat me as if I’m the lady I’m presenting. It’s not because I’ve fooled them by ‘passing’, but because they are courteous and respectful enough to address me as the gender I’m expressing. That warms my heart. Still, the second time he did it I wanted to say "Jeez, I know I don't pass, but I put some effort into this! Gimme a ma'am for Chrissake." But alas, I did not.



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Marie Chandler

I’m a happily married, heterosexual crossdresser in my 50’s. I’m lucky to have a supportive wife who loves me for who I am. Full disclosure, if you are considering a friend request or messaging me, please know that I will only respond to people who have taken the time to write a full bio. Preferably with photos, but I totally understand that not all of us are in a home situation were we can express ourselves fully and take photos. My goal is not to offend anyone, but to connect with others that are willing to be vulnerable enough to share their stories, feelings, photos and experiences with the rest of us. I'm also not interested in chatting about underdressing or lingerie and I have no interest in discussing anything sexually or fetish related with dressing. My hope is to connect with like-minded ladies and learn more about myself along the way.

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Dana Simpson
1 month ago

Hey Marie, have to say you look lovely and all girl!
Love the dress:)

Micki Finn
13 days ago

Hi Marie,

You should have held up a dollar bill and asked him for change explaining that you wanted to make sure you tipped him.


Jill Harris
10 days ago

Great look, I think you pass very well.

Rachel Glover
Active Member
2 days ago

The waiter sounds like a doofus. You look beautiful Marie! Keep on truckin

Lacy Williams
22 hours ago

Well based on the picture I cannot figure out why he would have addressed you so. I think you look every bit the lady.

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