Ted didn’t seem to mind me snuggling against him. Instead, he smiled down at me, pulled me in even tighter against himself, and kissed me on the forehead. I let my eyes close, feeling in that posture overwhelmingly warm, safe, cared for … and female, so very female. What I ac...
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Remembering a Weekend I Spent in New York City As a Woman … with a Man Edward smiled again and put his right arm around my shoulders, pulling me towards him while we walked. He raised his left hand to hail a cab. Edward had mistaken the exact location of the jazz club. He did t...
Remembering a Weekend I Spent in New York City As a Woman… with a Man Then… the room’s doorbell rang. My heart fluttered. But I didn’t hesitate. I walked to answer the bell. I stepped back and he stepped in, letting the door close behind him. Right there by the door, he...
I have this very sweet genetic woman friend. She knows about Cassie. She is by nature a supportive and loving personality. And like all good friends among women, she is a superb listener. (Even if most of that “listening” is, in fact, back and forth emailing and instant messa...
A Memoir of a Weekend Spent as a Woman Tourist in New York City … with a Man (PART 1) Okay, it’s true. I stole the title for this essay from a portion of the title of a delightful and bestselling memoir published several years ago (Love, Loss, and What I Wore by Ilene Bec...
Here is a reprise of an essay I wrote many years ago. First a credit. It all started with a letter I had at that time from a blogger than going by the penname “Jenny Mahoney.” (A little imagination will enable any among us who keep up with the important opinion leaders in o...
The Vicarious Woman: Part 3: Biographies, Autobiographies, and Memoirs
Cheryl Ann (Cassie) Sanders Media Review 2This Part of The Vicarious Woman Six-Part Series will not be my strongest suit because I stopped reading crossdressing and transitioning biographies several years ago. And I know that there have been several good ones in the last several years. I hope some of you will strengt...
“Everybody is transitioning!” If you spend a lot of time on YouTube, you could almost believe that quote. There seem to be thousands of vloggers on YouTube documenting their transition. It is such a pervasive phenomenon that it has generated a pseudo-scientific sensatio...
Definition of vicarious 1: experienced or realized through imaginative or sympathetic participation in the experience of another a vicarious thrill (Merriam-Webster) My intention here is to start a group of wiki-lists of favorite places to enjoy vicarious fulfillment from o...
The Convenient Women: A Response to a Dismissive Transsexual
Cheryl Ann (Cassie) Sanders Hodgepodge 43I’m sharing here an essay I wrote in response to a note a I received recently from a pre-op transsexual that included, among other things, the following sentence fragment: “…but you are just a crossdresser; you can’t possibly understand what I am feeling about that.” Ob...
Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife
Cheryl Ann (Cassie) Sanders Crossdresser Support and Advice 63I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a crossdresser who is in a marriage or serious relationship with a genetic woman is best o...
I’ve been surprised in recent years to find myself fancying a belief in reincarnation. This is a remarkable admission from a girl who has long been little more than amused by the half-baked ideas of the alternative, new age, occult, and various other pop-cosmologies. Even my sp...
Me? How old was I? Old. Probably 28 or 29, maybe 30. I was long passed the time when the clothes were an end in themselves; and being Cassie in the world, in public, was the wonderful pleasure. I had long since decided that I wasn’t a transsexual, but that the occasio...
There are innumerable theories about why many men have a compulsive need to crossdress, to wear the clothes of women, to wear women’s lingerie and hose, to use waist cinchers, hip pads, and especially expensive artificial breasts (silicon masterpieces, preferably with subtly-er...
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