Hi Girls! It’s Scarlett again and I’ll be writing this from the perspective of a situation that many crossdressers more than likely have in common.
Now Girls, you may already know I spent years and years deep in the closet with my crossdressing. It wasn’t until a year and half ago, right before we moved into our new home with lots of storage space, I was finally able to talk my sexy redhead into having “The Talk” with me. I’ll later write an article on how to bring up “The Talk” and what to say to bring about a modicum of acceptance of your crossdressing from your wife or SO.
Now to the specifics of the article. Most of us have only released our thrill of cross dressing to our wives or significant others. We have no plans of ever sharing this little secret to anyone else on our side of our family, on our wife’s side, or SO’s side of the family. We’ve known them for years, and they have known us for years, and it’s the last thing other family members would guess about us; that fact that we all love to dress up in pretty clothes and become pretty girls. Let’s face it, if we dared to offer up that bit of information to those folks, the next time a family reunion was in order, we might not get invited. At the very least, it would be an extremely awkward get-together compared to others in previous years!
So, Girls, I’m recommending not to share our thrill with other family members as a result of the above notes. Besides, when you release your little secret to one family member, the next thing ya know, everyone on both sides of your family might think you’re some sort of freak or weirdo!
Now if you’ve already released your little secret to some family members and they are accepting and considerate towards your crossdressing – lucky you! You’re in a distinct minority of crossdressers. There are still many of you out there who are still deep in the closet and not even your spouse or significant others know about your thrill of wearing pretty femme clothing. Been there and done that as noted above, and I wouldn’t want to go through that phase ever again!
Here’s what I did to share my CDing with others, and I recommend you all might want to give it a whirl as well!
My first sharing of my CD secret came with the customer service ladies at JC Penny’s in Pensacola where I used to have all my heels, boots, and booties shipped in order to keep things out of the sight of my sexy redhead prior to her acceptance of my crossdressing. So, my first public sharing of my thrill outside of our home and outside of an online CD site was when I took my crossdressing secret to those girls at the Penney’s customer service department.
I had about 50 of my best pictures of Scarlett loaded on my IPad and took the IPad to the customer service girls, asking them if they wanted to see photos of Scarlett. They couldn’t wait to see them! I opened the IPad to three women in that department ranging in ages from about 25 to 65 and showed them 30 of my top photos. My God, the reaction was off the chain incredible! Next thing ya know, they had passed the word on to some other employees in departments on the second floor and in less than ten minutes, I had a crowd of at least 10 ladies absolutely loving every photo of Scarlett and wanted me to stop in with more every time I came to the store – which I continue to do to this day!
Here are the next places I went over the next two weeks with my IPad, and later with color 8×10 photos in a folder and got the same exact reaction with each set of girls clamoring for more as I left each place!
1 1) Sports Clips where I have my hair cut. The manager and all the hair stylists have seen loads of Scarlett photos, and they won’t even let me get my hair cut now unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell pictures!
2 2) Sephora where I buy some of my foundation liquid and powder. The girls who work at these places are on the liberal side, open minded, and quite accepting of the LGTBQ folks, and now you can add CD to that list of letters as well!
3 3) Ulta – See Sephora notes above. And I should have added kind, considerate, caring, inquisitive, and full of answers to a wide variety of makeup questions you may have!
4 4) Plato’s Closet which is our largest consignment shop in Pensacola. With such a huge selection of girl’s clothing, footwear, and jewelry available at next to nothing prices. You would assume they would have admitted crossdressers in there all the time, but the first time I told them I was a cross dresser the girls were in shock until I busted loose with a pile of Scarlett photos. Then every girl in the place wanted to see my pictures. Some of them didn’t believe it was me, so I had to point out a small brown dark birth mark in the middle of my right shin. Then they were all believers that those photos were of me as a girl named Scarlett! Now those girls won’t let me shop unless I bring some Scarlett show and tell photos!
Other places to share your thrill of crossdressing with other employees are as follows: Stores in a mall or not in a mall you regularly frequent, thrift stores where you may shop on a regular basis, brick and mortar stores where you may buy lady’s shoes, wigs, purses, clothing, and other accessories.
And of course, the #1 place to share your thrill of crossdressing is right here with the wonderful girls in the greatest crossdressing site in the world – our very own Crossdresser Heaven – which is our way to get ourselves out of the closet or house on a regular basis and share our thrill of crossdressing with all of the CDH girls who share the very same thrill of wearing cute, pretty, sexy, and classy lady’s clothing! I get excited as soon as I put on a pair of heels! I just love being a girl as most of you know!
Girls, thanks for taking the time for reading another one of my informative articles. If you have other places you love to share your thrill of crossdressing, please send them in your responses to this article so that all of our readers of this article will have an exhaustive and complete list on how and where to share their own thrill of crossdressing with as many other accepting folks out there as possible!
Sincerely, Scarlett
More Articles by Scarlett398
- Scarlett Looking Back At Her Very First Cross Dressing Experience!
- Scarlett’s Purpose at Crossdresser Heaven!
- A Few Of Scarlett’s Hot Tips On Fashion And Beauty!
- “Scarlett’s Hot Tips On Photo Shoots!”
- Scarlett On Having “The Talk” With Your Wife Or SO
Hi Scarlett,
Thank you for detailed article on sharing our CD with others. I may share my CD with the customers service at Macy’s where I pick up my feminine purchases .. I thank you for our friendship… You are a special person an a very pretty one, also. Leonara
Thank you Baby Doll! You’re one of my biggest fans and I appreciate each and every one of these fan letters you send to me Girl Friend! Yes, take some photos of you to Macy’s and share them with the customer service girls there. They will love to see your pics and once you show them the very first batch, they will want you to bring another batch each time you come to pick up something else for Leonara! And you’re just a pretty and as special as you think I am! Love ya Girl Friend and take 8x10s produced… Read more »
Thank you Scarlett for the encouragement.
I am a bit shy. But I will take your advice.
Luv ya …Leonara
You are an icon of lovliness and style. Thanks for drawing attention to the truly amazing acceptance and enthusiasm so many women have once they have had a glimpse into our world. Gloria
You’re so very welcome Gloria! That’s such a lovely compliment you dished out to me!
I hope the acceptance of cross dressing continues to grow and grow so many of us can go out in public on a more regular basis and also so we can get a whole pile of us out of the closet in out in our towns to show off how pretty we are on the inside as well as on the outside!
XOXOXO Scarlett
Love you Dawn Judson! Yep, even the trans girls and every other group represented by those letters LGBTQ are more accepted than us thrilling cross dressers. We hope with more public appearances by girls like us and with this wonderful site Crossdresser Heaven, we can one day add the letters CD to this list of letters!
XOXOXO Scarlett
great articlew and wonderful to hear of your success out in public and being accepted by so many ladies!
Thanks a bunch Leah! And by the way, that profile pic of you is SMOKIN’ HOT girl friend!
XOXOXO Scarlett
Wish that was my actual picture…but it was just one that I liked.
It’s OK about the profile photo. I’m sure you’re not the only one using a photo that’s not the actual photo of the one the profile photo tracks to!
Great selection of a hot girl anyway, Leah!
XOXOX Scarlett
Great article Scarlett! I would have never thought of bringing pics with me. I will give that a try. By the way, you’re stunningly beautiful.♥️ Nicole
Thanks Babe! I get a lot of those so sweet compliments from so many of the girls here at CDH! They are always inspiring me to try something new and keep my quality of photos to be some of the best displayed on here. And none of them are touched up in any way! That’s all me and all Scarlett!
Thanks for the lovely note, Nicole! Have a super week girl friend!
XOXOXO Scarlett
Thank you my dear. Your recent photo is beautiful , I am jealous and envious of how you look!!
I applaud you Scarlett! Loved you article on sharing the thrill. Crossdress evangelism! My heart is about to explode!!
Thanks!!
xxoo!!
Maritina, I love the definition you’ve assigned to my mission – “Crossdress Evangelism"! Well if that won’t sum it up in two words or less, I can’t imagine what would! Well done girl friend! When I’m out there spreading the news, I’m dressed as “Handsome Husband" and never as Scarlett so they know that cool handsome and even cool non handsome guys are really into cross dressing. And I let them all know that there are millions that you’ve walked past over the years that you wouldn’t have come close to guessing they had a sexy pair of panties on… Read more »
you are so lucky to be so nice looking dressed up. So sweet hun.
Georgia, I’ll never take the genes by late parents passed on to me for granted. It’s those genes that make the transition from guy to girl so much easier for me than many other cross dressers.
I’m no doubt very blessed!
XOXOXO Scarlett and thanks for the sweet compliment, Georgia, from your Florida girl!
Yes–I’ve had tremendous luck with sales people being accepting (when I’m spending Money)–(esp at thrift shops ect) Wich is Great–but now I don’t need much more in clothes– Family on both mine & my wifes’ side knows & I thought accepted fem me (Jane) –However–Since my wife died (May 4 2019) both sides of the family seem to ignore me (even avoid) me– they used to visit or phone either one or both of us multiple times a week –Now I feel ostracized– Of course–I’m pretty Broke now–I do wonder if that is part of it– Lost the love of… Read more »
Jane, all I can tell you is kids suck! I put both my sons through college at FSU in Tallahassee by paying for their cars, food, car insurance, place to live, clothing, and spending money and never received one “Thanks Dad" from one of them. I’ve got many more other horror stories related to my kids that I will spare you. I taught middle school Math and Algebra for six years after retiring from a high profile job and now I am totally allergic to kids of all ages so I can’t help you at all here, Jane! Kids SUCK!… Read more »
Scarlett–I Do wish I could say you are Wrong about kids (& family in general)–But, I can’t–My two Youngest Daughter who live 8 or 10hrs away–seem to be the most caring out of the 5– they do text once a week or so & when they come to London (Ontario) to visit their friends they usually stop for a Short visit–I guess this is practice in case I’m ever in a nursing home- Thanks for your input– I guess I just have to “Buck Up" & Try to make some new Friends — but with a lack of money/time &… Read more »
Hey Jane, don’t worry about family members and friends. Dogs are so much better than family or friends. Dogs always give you that unconditional love we are always searching for humans and never quite get it! Stay with the dogs and don’t worry about friends and family. They will leave you in a second but those sweet doggies will be with you until it’s time for them to jump over the rainbow bridge. When that happens, I cry for about two weeks and always have photos of them I put up on the Christmas tree each and every year. The… Read more »
Thank you very much-
Scarlett, You are rapidly becoming one of my heroes! i am fairly certain my crossdressing would NOT go over well with my daughter though my son would likely accept it as just another of Dad’s oddities. My wife is accepting though not enthusiastic; we had ‘The Talk’ about two weeks ago. i am an embryonic crossdresser just getting some outer wear and more than one bra. i suspect the next person to find out will be either the one who pierces my ears or whoever gives me my first makeup lesson. Both of these are in the near future. Your… Read more »
Thanks Babe! You wouldn’t believe the amount of notes I get from girls who tell me I’m an inspiration to them. This humbles me and makes me so very proud as well!
I’ll never grow tired of hearing what an inspiration I am to so many girls here at CDH!
Love you Bobbie, and have a super week! XOXOXO Scarlett
Hey Scarlett , such a great post. I often dream of coming out like you said. Makes me feel light and free just thinking about it. I wasn’t aware that you are in Pensacola. I am in Destin, would love to have lunch one day. I am semi-new to this and think I could really gain some confidence from you, if you think it possible to meet.
Misti
Hi Misty! Good to know there’s another cross dresser within 300 miles of here. I can’t meet with anyone because I can only get out in the public as Scarlett four nights per year and on those nights I prefer to fly solo. But wherever you purchase items for Misty, feel free to share photos of Misty with these people if you feel confident with your Misty pics. I’ve very proud of my photos and I even shared them with a female physician assistant at the VA hospital over in Pensacola today! She thought the photos were fabulous and couldn’t… Read more »