Hi folks,
I’ve made a few tweaks to the website, to clean it up a bit, and make it easier to find articles based on categories. Hopefully this will make it easier for you to find what you’re looking for.
If there is anything you would like to see discussed in an upcoming article, please let me know and I’ll get make sure to include a post on it in the near future.
Thanks for reading – your comments and continued visits to www.crossdresserheaven.com keep me inspired to post more content about transgendered life, and the issues we face.
Hugs,
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Vanessa Law

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I am 64 year old MtF who started transition over 20 years ago. Beware the girls who think this life is all fun and dress-up parties. I found out how hard it could be when I was very young. My life, as with so many others, has been a series of dreams interrupted by long periods of a horrible reality. The reality I was born into finally shattered into the recurring dream. The dream the became my reality. I had to sacrifice so much to reach my reality. I now live the life of a woman with all the joys,… Read more »
There is that popular saying by males- ‘I tip my hat to you" but suddenly I want to praise you and find myself stymied. I have no idea what we ladies would say. So don’t think twice if I get it wrong but I lift my skirt to you.
Most girls I run into just say “cool" . Shades of the Sixties and Seventies..
I was brought up to curtsy for most introductions but for extra ordinary circumstances, I say and…….I bow before you in your honor. ( I am a Knight Templar…….chivalry is my forte)
Hi Michelle,
Thank you for your words of wisdom. I can’t even imagine the trials you overcame to transition 20 years ago. I transitioned 5 years ago, and I still face many hardships common to womankind – I shared some of these here: https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/womanhood-is-harder-than-you-think-gender-equality/
There are many sacrifices, but equally many joys.
I know that some are happy living in two genders. I am and always was a woman.