Do you pass as a woman?

Passing… it seems like the holy grail for crossdressers. If we could work hard enough, lose that extra pound and practice voice lessons for another hour – maybe, just maybe we could pass as a woman. In our minds we’ve build up passing as something elusive that is to be dreamed about and never achieved.

Yet passing is closer, and easier than you’d think if you let go of the notion that everyone, all the time must only every perceive you as the woman you’re trying to impersonate.

Here are nineteen practical tips from Kelly Stevens for how to pass as a woman. If you’re serious about passing you’ll find more high quality advice in the world’s best crossdressing guide.

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How to Crossdress and Pass As A Woman

1. Dress your age. If you aren’t a junior, don’t buy your clothing in the juniors department

2.  Dress appropriately for the situation. A cocktail dress at the mall isn’t optimum. Make up needs to be appropriate.

3.  Crossdressing is an illusion. A genetic woman can go out without any make up and can look a mess but not look like a man. You can do the same as a man and not look like a woman. You need to constantly preserve the illusion and this involves diverting attention away from your flaws and using clothing and most importantly accessories to preserve the illusion. I do not need glasses but found they feminize me so I bought some (in the women’s section of an eyeglass store). wearing men’s glasses simply is not good enough in 99% of the people I know. I wear a hair band, diamond engagement ring, chain bracelet, necklace, earrings that dangle, and red lipstick because many people have critiqued me and said these things feminize me. The red lipstick and nail polish divert the eyes away from other parts of me.

4.  Choose a wig wisely, This may be among the most important things you do. Length, color, style all matter. (If it is too perfect, it will look fake.)

5.  Hair removal is always an issue.  You think nothing of spending a great deal of money on clothing and cosmetics so spend some on a quality razor.  Consider hair removal on your face if necessary. I had laser hair removal and it was the best thing I ever did. Use the right foundation to cover the beard but shave it off first! covering is not as good as removing. Shave closely and several times.

6.  Apply make up skillfully.

7.  Cover your arms if you need to. My arms are larger than a woman’s so I wear some type of top. This means I never get to wear sexy cocktail gowns and expect to pass but I can usually find something nice with sleeves. Cover your Navy tatoo!

8.  Keep your skirt length appropriate.  In fact, keep everything appropriate. Anything that looks out of the ordinary will be noticed and once you are noticed you will not pass.  Much of the time if others really noticed me i would not pass yet somehow I pass extremely well. Why?  Because I blend in and fly under their radar.

9.  Avoid direct confrontation with anyone and when it i necessary to interface with a waiter, store clerk, etc. be prepared.  When i go to the grocery store i know they will inevitably ask me paper or plastic so I am ready and reach for a plastic bag.  I know I will be asked cash or credit so I have my cash or credit card in my  hand where they can see it before they ask. But if I have to speak, I speak softly and quietly and smile.In a restaurant, point to the menu item as you order. This reduces the need to fully speak in detail.

10.  Choose where you go in public carefully to minimize problems. If you don’t really pass, stay out of the ladies’ room. I go out at any time of the day or night in Times Square and pass but I avoid groups of teenagers like the plague. They will notice and if they notice they will not notice quietly.

11.  Walk like a woman not a caveman.

12.  Relax. If you are afraid, you will walk like you are afraid. Have confidence.

13.  I’ve seen many men who do not prepare themselves to pass. One CD friends is an auto mechanic and he shows up at support group meetings with black grease on his hands.

14.  Eat and drink like a lady. I love beer but more women drink wine so i drink wine. Men stuff their faces. Women are much more, well, feminine in how they eat.  Study female  behavior so you can emulate it properly. A word about smoking. I personally feel that smoking is one of the easiest means to tell if someone is a CD or a real woman. Few men can smoke like a woman. You think you can, but you can’t.

15.  Carry a mirror and use it. Men don’t need much attention but women need constant attention. Walking from the parking lot to the Mall can result in blown hair. Eating can alter make up. Be prepared.

16.  Smell like a woman.

17.  Pay attention to detail. You may not be into make up and real women don’t need it to look like a woman but it will really help you. Curl your lashes. (No, don’t use artificial lashes). Keep your clothing stylish. No, that man’s coat isn’t going to pass as a woman’s coat. Details! If you have a huge Adam’s Apple, wear turtle necks. Learn to adapt.

18.  We all want to have our own set of 52 DD tits but if you wear 52DD tits you are going to attract attention and you will therefore be noticed.

19.  Be self aware. Know your limitations. Unless you have practiced dancing like a girl you probably won’t do it like a girl.

And there you have it – nineteen practical tips for crossdressing that don’t require night classes or intentisive training. Don’t stop now, there is so much more to learn about crossdressing – learn how to pass as a woman.

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  1. Allyson 9 years ago

    Can I add one?

    Coco Chanel had a rule about accessories: on your way out the door, take one off. Accessorizing is much more art than science, and less is almost always more.

  2. ARLIVON 9 years ago

    great tips i will pass them on…and thank you for your prayers and words of encouragement…hugs arla

  3. Molly 9 years ago

    You left out one,
    Never go shopping or in public places with other xdressers if you don’t want to be “read”

    loved you article


    • Vanessa Law 9 years ago

      Molly, too true 🙂
      Allyson, I can see how we sometimes go a bit overboard with the accessories. For myself I probably go out too light on accesories – I’m not sure where I missed the desire to over accessorize 🙂

  4. Lynn Jones 9 years ago

    Some interesting advice. thanks for sharing. I think passing’s nice if you can get it, but I think we can get hung up on it. If you’ve got a very male body – big shoulders, strong jaw, etc – its unlikely you’ll pass close up (I know I never would), so why sweat it? Just go and enjoy your day. 🙂

    The ‘fear’ one is particularly true – regardless of how you’re dressed. What about:

    Smile more… just, maybe not as much as The Joker would. 🙂

    Oh, and practice walking in your footwear before you leave. If the shoes aren’t right, they’ll cripple you by the end of the day.

    • jim 8 years ago

      great site and excellent content. I will be here often.

  5. Lizzie 9 years ago

    A little tiny wrist watch will make your wrist look even bigger. Pick either a very small unisex watch, or a lergish ladie’s watch. I know one TG woman who insists on weaaring a little tiny (0/0) ladie’s Bulova that is a very good watch, but it looks lost on her large wrist bones. I am a clock and watch repairman, so I notice these things, but you would be surprised how many watch collectors there are out there, both male and female, and believe me, all collectors notice everyone’s watch.

    • Vanessa Law 9 years ago

      Lizzie that’s a great point. It’s about proportions, anything that looks “too small” will accentuate how large you are. Whether it’s jewelry, a watch or that too short skirt.

  6. DG 8 years ago

    Is that World’s Best Cross Dressing Guide legit?

    • Vanessa Law 8 years ago

      DG, it’s a good resource of crossdressing advice. It doesn’t substitute for practice or personal femininity training. If you’d like to be more feminine it’s a good place to start.

      • Ragina 8 years ago

        Hello all,
        I, for one am not overly concerned about ” passing ” per se, I really just want to be able to go out somewhere and not be stared at or spoken about behind my back or even snickered at as I pass by a group of people. Not that I try to be read, I just want to be myself. Of course, there will always be the one person in a crowd to make a big stink about a crossdresser in a crowd. I’ve seen it happen more than once and I cringed for the person being the brunt of those comments. I only hope that some day that we will be accepted as a normal part of society. In the meanwhile, I’ll still continue to be myself, like me or not.
        Love to all, Ragina

  7. Callista 7 years ago

    Wear Tall, tall, tall heels! (But not hooker heels) trust me, this helps! (and learn to walk in them, too). It will make your feet look smaller.

    Tone it down with the clothes! I know, I know we can’t help being dressed better than the GGs ;), but if you wear something that’s a bit more in style rather than the most frilliest, daintiest, bedazzling thing you can find, you won’t get as many strange looks.

    If you are muscley/stocky, work with what you have! Pecs can be turned into sexy cleavage with the help of tape, and man boobs can be turned into luscious melons with a nice push-up bra. If you happen to be ‘top heavy’ (like a gorilla 😉 ) try waist cinchers, girdles, and hip padding. Trust me, if you got enough booty, no one will be the wiser. And wear puffy sleeves for big arms, rounded necklines for broad shoulders, and knee-length dresses (or longer) for big, muscly thighs. For hands, make sure to have long finger nails and lots of big, gaudy rings to take attention off your big hands. 🙂

    And girls… Learn to do your makeup! I can’t count the number of times I’ve seen girls with cake-faces that look like surprised porcelain dolls. There are lots of tutorials on youtube. Unless you’ve been blessed with a feminine face, you gotta work a little to make your face look feminine. There are many tricks like softening the jawline with bronzer, concealing eyebrows, etc. One thing that I usually notice is a dead giveaway is the jawline and the mouth, or the bottom of the face. Try to make your lips look pouty as opposed to large, and that will make the bottom of your face appear smaller. Play around! Look at pictures of more “masculine” Women, such as Heidi Klum or Brooke Shields, and pay attention to what they do.

    And don’t overdo it with the mannerisms! Maybe there are few ladies left nowadays, but it doesn’t mean that you should start making plans to invite the Queen for tea. 🙂 You got to build it up, get used to it, make it subtle… If you exaggerate it, you will look like a caricature of a woman and people will notice you.

    That’s all I have to say for now girls… Now go have fun! 🙂


  8. Staci 7 years ago

    Thongs/G-strings, lingerie, skirts, perfect fitting dresses, make up and so much more – the right heels is by far the sexiest and most femanine thing you can do.
    I agree about the stripper heels – DO NOT go out on the town in those unless it’s October 31. Not being bossy, just a suggestion. I have some 6″ stripper heels – the clear slutty kind. They are all kinds of fun, but bring me to a total height of 6’7″.
    3″ – 4″ heels seem to work best for me. Makes my feet look perfect. Now if there was something I could do about my hidious mug and my Sasquatch body hair, I could go somewhere.

  9. phylisanne bernstein 6 years ago

    very informative.

  10. Elizabeth 6 years ago

    WHenever I am considering going out, be it to the local convenience store for gas and coffee, or to dinner and a show, I think about what my (now ex) wives would have worn. For casual day wear, I dress as my wives used to when they went to work. For evening wear, unless I am going to a really dressy function (think one where if you went as a man, you’d feel comfortable in a tuxedo) then I forego the little black dress, and CFM heels. If I am not wearing the little black dress, I use eye shadow that is lighter, and more nearly approximating my skin tone. I never wear false nails or eyelashes; they are just a little too “over the top” and will get me busted every time. 

    • Vanessa Law 6 years ago

      Great advice Elizabeth! Don’t wear your finest just to go grocery shopping 🙂

  11. Lizzie 6 years ago

    INcidentally, aboiut watches: (I just re-read my post from a year or so ago). You can find really good smaller watches in antique malls. Elgin’s first waterproof came out in about 1920, and measures about 1″ in diameter. It was marketed as a men’s watch, but in this era will pass nicely as a ladies. The same thing goes for 1920-1930 Bulova tank shapes. They are smaller than the modern ones, and will pass nicely as either a men’s or a ladies watch. Either of those are available on ebay and in antique malls for about $100.00, in gold-filled or sterling cases.

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  13. Karmela 6 years ago

    very, very bad advice for the most part. Comes from delusional crossdressers.

  14. Tammy 6 years ago

    I dress for relaxation I don’t try to compete with wemon and there dressing . I just like the way the clothes feel on me. I just do it in priviate so i don’t try to with anyone .

  15. Samantha 6 years ago

    I agree with the advice.Dont dress to attract attention or you will probably do so for the wrong reason.Wear the best most lady like clothes make up shoes and accessories you can afford. Make sure things are coordinated. Practice going out in quiet places to begin with. Maybe go for a drive making sure you have full control of the car in your girlie shoes or boots!

  16. Hello im elizabeth and a cross dresser and find articles verry helpfull and need plenty of help

  17. Candy 3 years ago

    I live by this advice, Always go out efem never have a problem. I go every wear dressed up. Every crossdresser should follow these tips.

  18. Loni Kay 3 years ago

    After the shaving,and putting on your makeup,and most of all those gorgeous heels are on,everything is on.I know that I’ll be safe and the nervousness fades after the first look you get from that hot guy that tells his friend he wants you.There is nothing more exhilarating in a gurls life than to feel like a sexy woman…Loni

  19. Wendy 3 years ago

    Such good points. From my own experience of going out for the first time at the age of 62 I was so worried of being found out, but your point 3 is absolutely spot on. It is all an illusion. In generally we all see what we are expecting to see and the important thing is not to stand out or do something that provokes the illusion to be questioned. Good shoes and accessories are essential to finish off our look and perhaps complete the colour co-ordination.
    Thanks for looking after us girls so well.
    Love Wendy

    • Wendy 3 years ago

      Hi Girls,
      I forgot to add one more point from my experience. Always give a smile, especially when looking at another women, it’s expected and a nice part of the illusion. It’s an important woman thing as men just don’t do it.
      Love Wendy

  20. Karla 3 years ago

    There´s one very important thing that really helps in crosdressin succesfully, it is: SMILE
    there´s nothing more charming than a femenine smile and sometimes we are too worried about our outing and we forget to smile, smile as you go out, smile if meeting someone at the door, smile at people you meet walking along the sidewalk, smile as you walk or wait or whatever, SMILE!!!
    it never fails

  21. Heather 3 years ago

    I think being confident is the key and just accept that some may clock you. Once you relax and realize I’m a guy in a dress so what? Do that and smile and you’ll be fine.of course all the other tips are great as well. I go out all the time and 90% of the time I blend and I even dress younger than my age, I can’t help it!

  22. Jane 3 years ago

    Even when I follow many of the suggestions in this article in the end there is no hiding the fact that I am male-bodied. Thus I don’t try to disguise or deny the fact so when it comes to speaking I do try to speak in a softer manner but I do not avoid talking by pointing or other sign language.

    Usually I am accepted as what I am, a male-bodied person who, for the time being, wishes to be considered female. I’ve not yet had a problem and most staff have been polite and accepting. The worst I have ever experienced was some confusion and I alleviated that with a pleasant smile and a display of common manners.

    Overall I think people appreciate honesty from those of us who do not look like a svelte, young runway model. Your own confidence goes a long way.

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      Vanessa Law 3 years ago

      Well said Jane,
      If you’re approached, or asked, honesty is the best policy – and being friendly and not getting defensive puts you in a much better position.

  23. evon mc kay 3 years ago has exercises for thinning your arms evon

  24. Vanna 3 years ago

    I am SOOOO glad I found you Vanessa! Empowered thanks to you and all the girls!

    • Vanessa Law 3 years ago

      A pleasure hon – welcome to Crossdresser Heaven!

  25. Kayla Kross 2 years ago

    Great write-up! Thank you Vanessa, all these tips are very useful & workable. Confidence is the biggest key factor in my eyes when it comes to passing in public. One can achieve all the above mentioned tips but if one has low or limited confidence it just bleeds right through everything else. Stay positive & stay strong, true to your conviction & who you are. I love going out in public fully dressed to the 9’s, smile and walk proud. When I’m out in public it is the most empowering feeling I’ve ever had. Another key feminine characteristic is correct “posture”. As a man we automatically slouch our shoulders & slump over while day sitting at the dinner table. Posture is a key element in the female persona in my opinion. My tips…arch the lower back (stick that ass up in the air) tits up & shoulders back and relaxed. And confidence in every aspect you/I do daily.

    xXxX Kayla

  26. Janine 2 years ago

    I’ve been out many times and I guess that I must look passable .while walking out of a mall once I met a real female who told me that she just loved my skirt
    I smiled at her and thanked her as I was walking away
    Her compliment about my skirt made me feel really feminine and I had a little bounce in my step as I was walking to my car.

  27. Khloe West 2 years ago

    Great read and much more to share when actually awake,. bit my “Schooling” advised a 38D….


  28. brenda 2 years ago

    I really want to dress up but im to afraid to go anywhere to buy clothes in case i get found out today i found a pair of thights in the street took them and wash them and wearing them can anyone help

    • Tammy 2 years ago

      Buy clothing at christmas

    • Michele Luke 2 years ago

      I get most of my stuff at Goodwill. Not underwear, but dresses, shoes, etc.

    • Stella 2 years ago

      I buy on ebay and collect at Argos.

    • Julie 2 years ago

      I buy a lot of my stuff online.

  29. Stella 2 years ago

    You mentioned 52DD tits. I have a large frame and a 46″ chest and currently wearing a 46D bra. It sometimes feels too big. Should I go smaller? I’m still housebound, too afraid to venture out, despite the advice above.I probably think I’m not convincing 🙁

    • Danielle(Dani) 2 years ago

      I’m in the same boat. I’m in a 48D now. I was bigger. I let myself get really fat unfortunately so I actually did sport DD’s for a while and just recently went back to my D’s and bought some new bras because I’ve lost weight. I found taking full length pictures of myself and turning a little to the side helped me see what was a little more appropriate for my size and shape. I’m continuing to lose weight so I figure I’ll wait and see somewhere in the not to distant future again what seems more appropriate and probably go down again.

  30. dani 2 years ago

    I have been going out for some odd 40 plus years and have only been read twice that I know off. Once by teenagers at a mall entrance and once in walmart while wearing a coat not suited to my skin tone.
    I always dress age appropriate less about 10 years. Since my height is 5-10 I don’t push the heel height over 3 inches. For skirts don’t go higher than knee less about 2 inches. The skirt length should be at your fingertips. I don’t use false nails, they are too difficult to handle.My watch is a jewelled large ladies which takes away from the large wrist. Breast forms are a “C” cup. I use a waist cincher along with padded panty. Look at what women are wearing for the time of day you want to go out in. I use women’s washrooms, change rooms, eat in restraunts. I have had my colors done so I know what colours suit me. I know my sizes and carry a tape measure to check leg lengths/ blouse lengths etc. so I know what fits and looks good before I consider trying it on. My ears are pierced and I wear dangly earrings. Avoid to many rings on the fingers, it looks slutty and draws attention to hands. Do wear bracelets. With bare legs and skirt I always wear ankle bracelet, it takes away from my height.

    • Leonara 2 years ago

      Catching up on the forum. What a wonderful article. Thanks for sharing

  31. Stacy 2 years ago

    Vanessa, thank you so much for all your wonderful advice on this site. You are so inspiring. I hope that very soon I will have the self esteem and confidence to go out dressed. And with all your great advice, I’m sure I’ll be able to pass.

  32. Katie 2 years ago

    Definitely smile …. and present yourself with confidence. But unless you have one of those fog horn male voices don’t be afraid to interact with people. Half the fun of going out for me is not being alone. Store clerks, restaurant staff … even casual conversation with a stranger can really make you feel good as a woman. Work on a feminine voice. (I practice on may daily commute).

  33. vikki 2 years ago

    I realize that everyone is different, and some have a harder time than others, but, I say your main accessory is confidence. If your going out—-don’t hide, and be proud of who you are. You will be surprised that your ease will make others at ease also!

  34. suesy 2 years ago

    im still scared to go out dress like a girl in public the complex i live in is a 6 unit complex and my grilfreind wont let me step outside in daylight dress as a female or at night when its dark out at night my family dont know im dressing as a female how do you tell them

  35. Jaye Dee 2 years ago

    That was a great article not only about “passing” but a confidence builder as well. I have been dressing as a woman all my life (50 plus years) and have adapted to almost all of your suggested tips. The only thing that I regret is not having the confidence earlier in my life to be who I really am, I AM A WOMAN!!!!!

  36. Karyn Lobelia 2 years ago

    Love and kisses , this article is fantastic , but I have two comments . First learn how to,walk like a woman , and how to apply makeup and dress . For God Sakes go to gay bars or whatever BUT PLEASE DO NOT GO OUT TO A MALL OR IN PUBLIC IN YOU ARE UNCOMFORTABLE OR WORRIED BECAUSE IT WILL SHOW . The Law Of Attraction says YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU ATE THINKING ABOUT , If you expect or worried about something happening , It Will ! Gay bars or transgender friendly places are for you if you lack confidence ! Please do do expect ALL people to be kind , polite , and respectful no matter what you do ! Just try to find friends locally you can share time with and never be unkind .

  37. suesy 2 years ago

    i have a freind that is willing to take me to a gay bar dressed as a female should i go as a female help

  38. evette 2 years ago

    i have been dressing for some time, im a older man 5ft.10in. i always wear my skirts short because that is the way i like them, i wear a 38b cup bra so not to be to big, inthis day and time not to many people say anything mosat just dont care what i have on, so dont be afraid just go for it love you all

  39. linda roach 2 years ago

    I’m sixty eight, but want to dress like a twenties something chick. I also don’t care to wear regular clothes and sensible shoes, I want to dress like a female lounge lizard. I care more about my lingerie than my outer clothing. I guess I’ll have to stay semi secluded and out of malls. I have under dressed all of my life and I think I’m too old to learn or care about passing. Good article though, good tips. Thanks for the info, even if I can’t quite swing it.

  40. Danielle(Dani) 2 years ago

    I can say this. I have been blessed with lashes. All the men in my family have them and none of the genetic women do, go figure. My grandfather had to cut his to keep them from rubbing his glasses. My brothers and I have always received comments from women we meet about how jealous they are about our eyelashes.

  41. Alex 2 years ago

    Thanks for this they will really help out now I just have to get in touch with my gp’s for a referral to another clinic

  42. July 1 year ago

    Thank you, very good tips and helps with building confidence…I so want to step out and just be me……

  43. Susie queue 1 year ago

    I have been saying this exact thing to my husband! This is good advice

  44. debbie 1 year ago

    All excellent points Vanessa. Seems so obvious to me now but wish I knew this when younger

  45. zena simmons 1 year ago

    I went an bought some wedge high heels there size smaller than what wear however find something odd bout wearing em while one fit’s good on my foot without problems the other tends to bother round front side my foot I’ve got both buckled the same tention why is that because I know if go buy the size suppose wear it’s gonna be too loose on my foot) zena

  46. zena simmons 1 year ago

    Yes wearing proper make up is helping key also wearing right style of clothes that goes with your body image as to not having it too loose or too tight fitting same with shoe’s be careful the way choose eat always wear right outfit to occasion so don’t overdo it or underdress if necessary bring extra clothes or another outfit to change into and ladies be sure bring right nessetaies like cosmetics brushes combes hairbands nailpolish band-aids mascara n so on=zena

  47. BRIT 12 months ago

    My recommendation for your first outing is Halloween. It’s a free pass. You can wear what ever you like, you can have a lot or a little make up. You can judge your passibility and peoples reactions. You can flaunt it in your friends and family’s faces. If anyone brings it up in the future you have Halloween as your safety net. Once you have walked the walk you can search out CD friendly venues like drag nights. From there you can move on knowing your not alone. But hey, if you want to throw on a frock and stroll around the mall with a mocha java there’s no one stopping you but yourself.

  48. Lee 10 months ago

    As a full-fledged biological female from birth I can attest this literary work is a piece of misinformed and subjective BS… In my opinion it promotes the same idealogical thinking and stereotypical garbage that women have been subjected to for years as is in many beauty and fashion magazines — most women don’t even care to be held to this kind of “standard”. My advice — do what makes you feel comfortable and BE YOURSELF and to hell with what anyone else thinks.

  49. phyllis 10 months ago

    I have tried lazer hair removeal,, dosent work on me.. and I can not find the old style equipment in my are.. some one who still has it.. my beard is like wire, and gray now.. any thing else I can try…

    • Joanna Fillingane 6 months ago

      Electrolysis is another method.

  50. Glenda Bingyi 10 months ago

    Would have to add to that list, Self Belief. If you think of yourself as a female with all that entails then others will see you as that woman and treat you as that woman

    • Monica Meadows 6 months ago

      Yes, yes ,yes. So correct!

  51. Jane Gerrard 10 months ago

    Hi I,am new here

    • SissyAndrea 4 months ago

      I’m new here also. Hello ladies

    • Audie Dewey 10 months ago

      Learn how to crossdress — and pass as a genetic female — from the most comprehensive feminization guide on the web…

  52. Tom tossen Vossen 8 months ago

    In my case, as a pcd “partial cr.dresr.” i thought or had a thought….if i just wear femaleliks briefs, all i am doing is being attracted to the fabrics of nylon,satin,silk.spandex, etc. Yes, i’ve gone overboard with my obsession with it by mot having girlfriends to model for me, cuzz i do love the female torso, And i seldom have displayed what i wear to females i hang with (scared to death some girl would renect me et

  53. Bonbon 7 months ago

    Hi Vanessa bonbon here I love your input.i myself tin to wear little amount of jewelry.dont know why being 5`8 inches, WT 126 lbs. Wear 6 inch heels would to much jewelry be distracted from my outfits. . .

  54. Monica Meadows 6 months ago

    Disagree with the fake eyelash comment. Loves my fake eyelashes, and with the right eyeliner it can do wonders for feminizing your face. Totally correct on outfit choice with age. I do have bigger arms but I am not afraid to show them.

  55. Brandon James Endrizzi 4 months ago

    I am low on money and live with my parents. (My parents don’t know) I can’t buy stuff online cause my parents check the mail. How can I get things cheaply but still get quality items to pass in public? Also, I can’t just leave the house dressed like a woman, because one of my parents is usually home. What should I do for that? Thank you. 🙂

    • Anonymous 4 months ago

      I suggest getting a PO Box or having purchases mailed to an understanding friend.

  56. Lori Shane 4 months ago

    My ultimate goal to go out dressed, my ultimate fear to go out dressed this really helps

  57. Sally 8 years ago

    Nice web site. One tip related to being calm, is not to look at everyone for a reaction…(to see if they read you or not). The thing is, we can't read minds, so even if we get an odd reaction, it might not be what we think. It can destroy your confidence. It is best to carry on like you belong, like you have done it a million times before. And one really important tip is to always hold a smile on your face and smile to everyone who makes eye contact.

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