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Betty and Brina Take on the CD World Vol 2

Betty Rockwell September 1, 2022 Brina's Corner 24

Brina, is cross-dressing a need or a want? Betty, Depends… on the day, where we are on the gender spectrum, and the amount of moola on hand to buy pretty things with. As it is in all things, I want it, but do I need it? First, let me douse some water on the fire. For those who ...

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Managers Musings – site trolls and internet safety

BillieJay June 23, 2022 Crossdresser Support and Advice 10

Hello, darlings. this is your nosy manager back for another issue of Managers’ Musings, and I’m going to tell you about yet another attempt to draw our members off-site, where the staff can’t take action to protect our members. a member (almost always a new member in the la...

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Letter to my Wife

Sarah Lane August 12, 2021 Crossdressing Relationship Advice 68

My wife has known about my cross dressing for almost 2 years now, and although she is accepting, I know at times she still has her doubts. One of those doubts came when she saw the ad for Transgender Heaven on the CDH website. She freaked out, thinking that I was looking to trans...

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Working Boundaries

Peta Mari July 15, 2021 Advice and Encouragement 19

My wife and I own a small farm. She works for a government department, and I work part time locally. Because of the nature of her work, there is much she cannot share with me. Likewise, when I have counseled others in the past, I can’t share with her what the details were a...

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Brina’s Corner Issue 1

Sabrina (Brina) MacTavish April 1, 2021 Brina's Corner 26

I’ve been blessed to be your Managing Editor for over two years. Believe me when I say, “I’ve read it all.” I’ve enjoyed my time being in the background, helping to give voice to so many of you that have important stories to tell. I created the Hodgepodge column to publ...

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Listening To Your Heart To Overcome The “I Shoulds”

Casey Amber Twitchings August 26, 2020 Hope and Light 4

Many times in my life I’ve had a case of the “I shoulds”. This was never truer than when it came to being transgendered and crossdressing. “I should” have a separate male and female persona. “I should” not wear that, it’s not me. &#...

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Enjoying What We DO Have

April (Pacific Princess) August 14, 2020 Crossdresser Support and Advice 7

I don’t know about you ladies, but this Coronavirus has put quite a damper on my April time. For me, she has always been a release, but she has also been a way to express myself out in public. That option has been taken away from me for months by this virus, and I miss it. ...

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My Scary First Solo Trip To A Makeup Store

Kendra Carter March 3, 2020 Crossdresser Support and Advice 33

Here’s a little story about my very first trip to a make-up store as a male. I slowly walked past the store I wanted to enter. It was a high-end makeup store full of people, so I kept going to the food court and had a coffee and relaxed for a little bit hoping the place would b...

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Etiquette For Ladies

Wanda Full February 15, 2020 Hodgepodge 12

et·i·quette /ˈedəkət,ˈedəˌket/ noun the customary code of polite behavior in society or among members of a particular profession or group. la·dy /ˈlādē/ noun 1. a woman of superior social position Etiquette: a tool to tell the difference between a woman and a lady. Ev...

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From Brina’s Desk – Writing Your Wonderful Articles For Crossdresser Heaven!

Sabrina (Brina) MacTavish January 26, 2020 Crossdresser Heaven Information 18

For slightly more than a year, I’ve had the privilege to be your Resident Editor. A title that means I’m responsible for the content and publication of the articles that you love to read in our article section found by clicking on the word “Articles” which is foun...

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The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Clothes From Chinese Companies Online

Abby Lauren July 14, 2019 Crossdresser Support and Advice 33

Abby Lauren The Trials and Tribulations of Buying Chinese Clothes Online If you’re like me, you very easily are influenced to try to buy women’s clothes online because the manufacturers are abundant, the clothes look absolutely gorgeous, they carry your size, and the ...

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Ready to jump down the rabbit hole

Nameless One June 11, 2019 Crossdresser Support and Advice 20

This thing (whatever crossdressing is to me) has been nothing but a burden. When combined with the added stress from all of the years I’ve been avoiding it, I’ve reached a point where I finally need to deal with it. I have read many articles on ways to stop the urge t...