Do You Like To Be Noticed? This seems a fair question to ask any crossdresser. Those that are still in the closet may fantasize about being a good-looking girl, walking down the sidewalk getting cat calls and wolf whistles as she moves along. No? The old saying goes, “The o...
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Let me jump into the deep end and see if I can make my way to the surface. There have been some great comments on my past posts and recently in the submitted articles that I’ve proofread. Being the girl in the back of the room who is analyzing everything and everyone, it got me...
I didn’t start dressing until quite late on (after I retired from work, more’s the pity), but over the last six years or so, I have practised what quickly became my favourite hobby, whenever I can. I have chatted to a number of lovely girls over the years: go...
The one thing many introverts have in common is their need to observe. We are in constant surveillance mode, watching, analyzing, and preparing our “What ifs.” The strategy is more important than the outcome… although a successful ending is greatly accepted. I didn’t know...
It’s ever likely that your journey started in stealth, absolute secrecy. Only you were becoming aware of your curiosity. Which became your inner desires, which became your secret endeavours, which became your closeted journey; it didn’t take long to realise that this jour...
It occurred to me as I viewed the contest photos for this year’s contest that we all tend to be drawn to… something. Whether it is what we view and decide is appealing to what we desire in our mannerisms and dressing. Some of us have had the same sports team our entire life w...
As we say goodbye to 2024, let us look ahead to 2025 as a year of finding. What we find may be all we need or what we dream of as possibilities. Our journey is our own, yet it comes with similarities to the many who call this site home. This is where we come to find answers, to b...
Here goes… one of my ramblings… where will it end up this time? We all (CDs) approach this ailment, blessing, curse, need, desire, endeavor, and wonderment with similar and entirely different reasons. At times, all of the above have been felt by most of us. Relationships, res...
It was a cold and blustery night…isn’t that how most Halloween stories should start? But in my case it was true. There was no rain, but it was windy and very, very dark from the cloud cover. I have never been out as Janet. I’ve dreamed of it, I’ve thought a...
It had long been planned. Well, actually, planned isn’t quite the right word; maybe proposed, envisaged, contemplated, imagined might be better words, because I was far from certain this could be made to happen. Perhaps I had better start at the beginning, take you through the ...
No, not in the political sense, and not in which way to turn, although that would make for some interesting discussions… Ever met that person who only gives directions based on compass points? “Ya head North for 2 miles, take the west road, and when it flips back east, take t...
When I tried on a bra for the first time (and liked it), I never imagined that I would learn so many things – not only about bras but the feminine universe. I had always been curious and noticed girls at school starting to wear theirs and deciding to try on one – secr...
Leeds First Friday, a Real World Adventure – Part One

This is a personal perspective of a visit to Leeds by Crossdresser Heaven’s own heroines – we’ll call them Ellie, Liz, Fiona and Allie for no other reason but accuracy. It is written by Allie, with comments, amendments and recollections from Ellie, Liz and Fiona, my ste...
(The following story is wishful—enjoy reading) Oh, what joy. Let me justify my statement here, and when I’m finished with my presentation, I’m sure that hundreds of you will immediately be seeking out places to purchase one of the most sexy, sensual pieces of lingerie a...
Video offers quite a challenge when used to capture one’s cross-dressing, but the results can be very rewarding. Snatches of one’s life are preserved as rare images, with magic akin to that felt by the early motion picture pioneers. Seeing one’s appearance in motion, knowin...
I won’t spend money on a new set of golf clubs, and I’ll go two years in between buying a new bowling ball (These are my long-term sports hobbies). I’ll search countless sites for deals on fishing and camping equipment. I’m squeaky tight when it comes to spending money on...
Back in December, I was feeling brave. I booked a five-hour makeover and photoshoot with Tracey Galligan at Femme Side Studios in Leicester. It was a long run-in to the actual appointment on 23rd July, and there was plenty of time to get cold feet. However, the closer the day got...
What determines what is best for a person? Is it shaped by their environment, their parents, or themselves? In my case, it was I who decided… at least I like to think that I did, but majorly it started accidentally when a curious teen landed on the website, which wasn’...
I’ve been dressing since I was around seven. I remember thinking, why can’t I dress like my sister? Now over 50 years later, why am I still asking that same question regarding womenswear? Why can’t I wear them? It’s an everyday occurrence now. Whenever I see a woman beaut...
I wrote an entry for my blog and thought it would be nice to share it with you ladies. It was the incident concerning some fellows yelling, “Look at the tranny! Look at the tranny!” I wrote about it in my article, “Early Days Out and About.” In the aftermath of my...
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