If there is one question that is seriously prevalent to my being, it is this: “How do you know?” I’ve asked that question enough times to fill my car with silver dollars. If they made a crossdresser anthem, that would be its title. Although it isn’t just about crossdressi...
Over recent years and more frequently, I have watched and listened to many of those in positions of power and responsibility throughout the world, speaking in ways that either make no good sense or logic. Truth being used like sugar on a bitter pill, while language is far too oft...
During a conversation the other evening with a close friend, who knows about my life choice here in France, she asked a question. I felt I should try to explain. It relates to something that has surfaced over the past five years and causes concern. I wish to share my observations...
To quote Mark Twain: “The two most important days of your life are the day you were born, and the day you find out why.” We celebrate our birthdays with a dying intensity as the years pass by until the candles required to add up the years are costing more money than the cak...
I have a question to ask… If you are going to transition and wish to pass as a cis-gendered woman, where and how do you find your frame of reference? Women that are my age have been mothers and many grandmothers as well. They have had to contend with periods and menopause; they...
Researchers have determined that the fat in our bodies is, in fact, an organ, both sending and receiving hormonal signals to change itself in order to benefit the body. We cannot live long without it, as it is the only way to store energy. It is also responsible for maintaining g...
With a hobby, like making my own jewelry from scratch from old watch bands and seemingly useless junk obtained at garage sales, I slowly morphed my craft into a jewelry design and repair business. Designing and creating has me occupying my time online with purchasing materials wi...
We slowly become aware that it will come to the surface eventually. We know this now, right? Sometimes, we were aware in our earliest memories. Sometimes, in our adolescence or in early adulthood – those private thoughts and feelings that we push aside because we cannot pro...
The complex and unpredictable pattern of life had drawn me away from this site to follow my path and life journey as it unfolds before me. In ways that sometimes feel to have been predefined, or happening for a reason that I am yet to discover. An ever-changing, evolving process ...
Enlightenment for the newbies It concerns me to see girls moving towards altering their physical appearance in a way that pacifies a desire or maybe a fantasy, and sometimes without sufficient research into procedures, impact, and effects. I see this often on so many sites, inclu...
When I first considered surgically altering my body to become a female, I am pretty sure it was originally done on the whimsical notion that it was simply done like any other surgical procedure, and I could pick up where I detoured off and go on with life afterwards, as I dreamt ...
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Remembering a Weekend I Spent in New York City As a Woman… with a Man Then… the room’s doorbell rang. My heart fluttered. But I didn’t hesitate. I walked to answer the bell. I stepped back and he stepped in, letting the door close behind him. Right there by the door, he...
I wish you all the most wonderful holiday experience you can imagine, always! So, a while ago, like almost a year ago, I began using a product called Pueraria Mirifica. It is an herbal supplement that I got online that enhances breast growth, or so it promises. Let me first state...
Having reached what I call my “trombone” year, my seventy-sixth on the planet, and having been crossdressing since my eighth year – perhaps earlier – it is surprising to discover that there can still be things to be learned about this fascination that has with...
It seems like yesterday that I retired from my full-time job and started living and working as Angela. I’ve not had any surgery or taken hormones but have developed myself into the woman I am today. Previously, I was going out so much that I built up great confidence in doing m...
I’ve been crossdressing on and off for 50 years. In the last five, I’ve been dressing quite frequently and have become aware of the effect it has had on my persona. Recently, I’ve been trying to ascertain a clearer, positive perspective on my crossdressing – the resul...
Our lives today have never been more influenced by others and outside pressures than it is now. Independent thinking has given way to repetitive reasoning as strongly (or officially) suggested by those in charge, in positions of power, or in their self-prescribed strategic stagin...
Hello to all the fantastic ladies that live inside this beautiful platform. I ask for your patience and understanding as I ramble on a bit about a topic that has been on my mind. I have been grappling with my feelings about meeting and possibly even dating men. The more I have be...
Are you willing to feeel goood? In the past, I have used being authentic as an excuse for feeling dark n twisty. I use the word authentic because there are so many labels used to describe and categorize and compartmentalize who we are or not. If we are to choose a label for anyth...
Dabbing my toes in the water of femininity. Is this what I’m really doing or am I a creature of unknown origins? A collection of thoughts and actions that show neither a true path nor a divergence from safety and the familiar. Enough with the existentialism. Just what the heck ...
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