During the 18 months with my therapist (a regular Jungian, not specifically-gender-focused), I processed through a number of general life topics and also a bunch related to gender dysphoria. Like so many friends I’ve talked with, I spent 30 years trying to quit female cloth...
As I read thru several articles written by the members of the website I realize how much pain so many gals have felt over the years because of their desire to dress in feminine clothing. There are also words of joy, confidence and success by those who have been able to say: ̶...
When I`m relaxed, what do I want to do? Now (Jordan) has a different style to my other persona’s, taste. Is this natural, or is it having a “split personality?” The answer is; I’m not sure. So which is the real me? We have a vast difference in musical tast...
From seemingly out of nowhere, at age 64, I began constantly thinking about whether or not I was transgender. I started to explore dressing as a woman. The questions built; why is this happening? Is something wrong with me? After some nervous introspection, it became clear that t...
For much of the last year it has been difficult for me to find time to dress. Life has just gotten in the way. An ever-growing list of family and work responsibilities, on top of all the little time sucks that carve up the day, has made it inconvenient for me to even think about ...
Much of my life’s work for the past two decades has been devoted to the study of mythologies, archetypes, and the hero’s journey. While it is impossible for me to summarize all that means here, I will say that the heroic path requires that we heed the call to adventur...
Over time we learn many things, how to eat, how to talk, how to walk, how to play with other children, go to school and learn more, obey our parents, and eventually, we learn many lessons regarding right from wrong. Sometimes the right and wrong lessons can be gentle and sometime...
I have not met most of you unless you were one of my FB friends before I decided to pull the plug on my nearly 1,000 “friends.” I am now rethinking that decision after a session with my counselor who has helped me come to grips with my genderfluid self over the past...
Sometimes the best way we can support each other is to share our own stories and resources that have helped us on our journey.
The part of me that I'd been neglecting... while all the time I really needed to share my life with Brina
I have talked about how young I was when I first Cross Dressed at the early age of 10 before becoming a Drag Queen, also at a very early age. Between the two I am proud to admit and say out loud that they are my life and there’s nothing in this world that can change that fo...
I will always hold dear to me that summer, those days we spent together and that gift she gave me of accepting myself for whom I am.
...stop being Vicki? Would it be easier? I can stop wanting to breathe but it doesn't mean my lungs or body will allow it.
Life is getting better and better every single day, as I am learning to love myself fully and who I really am at long last.
I just stared at myself for what felt like hours. I could barely break eye-contact with my reflection. Because it was MY reflection. I wasn't staring at a boy.
We are here on this tiny web life raft together to celebrate, or hopefully..., hang on by the... nails when things get a little rough along the road.
This is my time to discover who I am. So here I am, battle scars as an example of how to survive in an intolerant world, preconceived notions... moving forward
I want to be an awesome cross-dresser and that's all I want to be... that's far more comfortable than being an unusually tall and masculine-proportioned woman.
So far my family have been really accepting and cool with my disclosure, and I had an amazing talk with my older sister that really made me think, what she told me about our mum and what she went through to have kids just might have influenced our fetal development.
So, I ponder and think and then open the door Not wishing to hide what is in me, no more Strengthened and calm I can reside, I can be; a person I can love because I am finally me.
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My Birthday Outing April 18, 2019
Patricia needed to go shopping today. I had some errands to run, so they were done in drab. I am not ready to go out fully dressed. I decided to go as compromised Patricia. I had on my copper wig, ladybug dangly earrings, makeup (mascara, lipstick and powder), and wearing a sweat...
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Being a bridge to someone April 15, 2019
When I hear a song that speaks to my heart, I tend to relate it to life experiences-both my own and others’. The other day I was listening to a group singing one of my favorite Simon and Garfunkel songs, Bridge Over Troubled Water. The song is an allegory about life; how we liv...
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What if I’m addicted to the Pink Fog? April 14, 2019
During the 18 months with my therapist (a regular Jungian, not specifically-gender-focused), I processed through a number of general life topics and also a bunch related to gender dysphoria. Like so many friends I’ve talked with, I spent 30 years trying to quit female cloth...
