What Are You? And you only have two seconds to reply. . . The day was sunny and warm as we walked hand in hand from the parking lot to the store entrance; the cat call was loud as the pickup approached from behind us, heyyyy howya dooooin ladies? – the voice echoed clear an...
My Amazing wife and I were snuggled up on the couch soaking up Netflix when two head lamps appeared in front of our home, but the moved independently. Two large and polished motorcycles rolled up in front of our house with their engines rumbling low, they stopped and their riders...
What we see as a truth, is only a truth for us when we believe that it is true, otherwise it is simply an opinion or idea. Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live it is asking others to live, as one wishes to live. ...
What you see is what you get, may be a term you have heard; or maybe you have heard someone say, ‘What we focus on expands’ or ‘Seek and you will find’. Where energy goes, everything grows When we spend our time mostly focused on what is going wrong on our planet and wh...
One of my favorite words in the English language – Freedom! This one word truly sums up my deepest core values all in two syllables. One of my favorite questions was asked by Mr Shakespeare, a name you may be familiar with. The question is famous, To Be? Or not to be? Whe...
Here it is girls, the bounce back strategies that have saved many a life, expanded a few more and even started some, where none were visible before. Just glancing through the archives of a few of the articles here can illuminate your life experience in ways you may not even imagi...
Learning to understand gratitude is an expanding feeling for me, because I never understood who or what I was supposed to feel grateful to. For example, I would naturally say thank you, but who or what was I talking to? I was given one answer of a Deity, a word which carries many...
My 4×4 had been transformed into a crumpled heap, I had no choice but to continue to drive it to work. Just for a moment, think of how you would have reacted to this situation? A: Immediately throw a fit. Be really upset and angry saying something like: ‘Damn it!! Without ...
I sat across the desk of my CEO, a 265-pound pro body builder and company owner who I worked for. I extended a shaky hand offering my phone, revealing an image of Char to him for very the first time. He gazed at the image for a minute without flinching, handed the phone back to m...
To my dear sisters around this beautiful planet, Namaste. At this time, when so many are bunkered and self-isolating in their homes while a predator lurks just outside, have become afraid, anxious, depressed or in a state of panic. While this situation is unpredictable and potent...
We have all heard the stories about the lottery winner who finds themselves right back where they started financially, often only months after the big win. They blew the wad and didn’t think of how to use the gift they were given to create something even greater and longer last...
For the most part of my life, I have lived with a feeling inside. I was not able to identify it at first, but I just somehow felt smaller then… I am not a particularly tall person, so, I am generally shorter than most folks I stand next to, but this was different. I often felt ...
To continue, 2018 began with me being in a state of limbo, so to speak. I was caught between dueling personalities. One existed solely because of the fear that my world would fall apart if anyone found out about the other. And that other one was giving me increasing amounts of...
Okay, so the holiday festivities are completed, traffic is back to normal this time of year, and life resumes its natural busyness as we slide into 2020. Our jeep developed a power steering leak during the early part of December; I added fluid, and then added more and more over t...
Give up the habit of being critical and make your life a much more enjoyable place to be. Give up the habit of being critical. When you do, you will learn to love yourself and others unconditionally. The greatest thing I have come to understand is that every one of us wants the s...
It’s been so long ago now that I opened the curtains of my home playpen. The furthest distance I would travel dressed authentically, as Char, was around the “inside” of my home with the lights low, the curtains closed, and the door locked. I called this my playpen. ...
I was reading about the Christmas season and was suddenly struck with the thought that I needed to write this article. Many of us, regardless of our views on religion enjoy the holiday season as a time to celebrate the giving nature of humanity. And as I thought about all the...
Now that just sounds crazy, but is it? The one who approaches you with a venomous hatred is in fact the one who has been abused. They are the one who is truly inside the cage because they have given up their mind and allowed others to fill it with their own projections and belief...
When I was a young kid, way back when, I remember once saying to myself, I don’t want to be a boy or a girl, I want to be right down the middle. Maybe that was an odd statement to make at such a young age, but it was something I knew deep inside. I was aware of how much more fe...
The “resistance” to our expansion is what we do in creating our own suffering because resistance causes friction. There is a quote; “In life there are problems and challenges, but suffering is a choice.” The first time I heard this, I winced and pulled back ready ...
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Tell Your Girlfriend, But Don’t Tell Your Wife July 9, 2020 I have no doubt that this will be a controversial article (and opinion) on Crossdresser Heaven. (I do so look forward to reading the comments.) The common wisdom in our community is that a crossdresser who is in a marriage or serious relationship with a genetic woman is best o...
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Confronting Fear July 9, 2020 and how it changed my life Let me start by defining Fear: Fear is an emotion and as such can be controlled. It can exist at many levels with varying degrees of effect on our lives and how we behave. It could sit quietly in the background until the switch is flipped by a visual, a...
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My Prayer July 5, 2020 My wish for the future, a Prayer for Hope, Peace and Acceptance These are a few of the thoughts I’ve had over a long time. They contain a little bit of my whimsy, but the wish within and the desire for all of you is true, particularly now for people of all race and colour. You ...
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