Prior to a week of business travel, my wife suggested that
Tammy meet her when returning home from my business trip. This was an unexpected event as my wife, although somewhat supportive from time to time, had not ever seen Tammy in full dress and make up.

As events typically occur, between delayed flights, canceled
hotel reservations and 30 hours of sleepless travel, our plans were on
temporary hold. Upon arriving home and still insisting on a presentation, I was
instructed to be in dress before my wife’s late afternoon wakeup.

Having the time for my wife’s visual debut of Tammy, I prepared throughout the morning hours then patiently posed myself in comfy chair, positioning myself so my wife would view me from a distance as she entered our family room. To amplify the experience, I staged a “Cosmo” in one hand while the other was covering my beard as to not expose any facial hair.

Sitting in a knee length yellow flower print dress, shoulder length blonde/grey wig, facial makeup, red lipstick, red polished toe and finger nails, jet black nylons, tan
open toed three-inch platforms and appropriate body forms, I patiently waited.

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Later that afternoon, after waking from her travels, my wife entered the room I occupied with an unsure look. Quickly replaced by a surprising smile, I heard the words, “I thought some other girl was in our house for a second and wondered who she was then remembered… it was you.” That was the first time my wife of nearly 35 years saw Tammy.

As fears of the C-19 virus erupted, my wife and I found ourselves at home, all alone and basically isolated. With ample supplies on hand for an extended period. One morning, my wife approached me and suggested that this was a great time for Tammy to come out and play!

Surprised again, but accepting, I was floored when she said, “I want you to shave your facial hair, your arms, armpits (I shave my legs frequently), put on some makeup, lipstick, wig, and look pretty. I want to see you again without hair and as a woman”.

As requested and unsure as to exactly what to expect, early the next morning, Tammy, in all her femininity appeared to my wife. We spent the rest of the day and evening together as girls, sipping wine coolers and indulging in our femininity.  Building a little more confidence in my appearance, I had to ask “Do you think I would “pass” if we went out”, I asked.  “Hell, Yes!”, was her immediate reply.

Still in the closet, or should I say “the house” most recently my wife spent the late morning and afternoon on our porch with a close LGBTQ plutonic girlfriend. Leaving them to their conversations for several hours, my wife
taking a break from her friend and work, came to me and asked if she could tell her
friend that I liked to cross dress.  I encouraged her to do so, thus exposing myself to an active LGBTQ community in our isolated rural Sierra Nevada community.

Fast forward – early morning, two days later and I am
prompted for Tammy to for come out and play for the afternoon and join my wife
for dinner thus allowing for time to prepare Tammy for cocktail hour. Another
first! My wife never surprises!

Thanks to my wife, her security in our relationship, her friendship and confidence with an openly lesbian girlfriend, Tammy is getting the chance to come out, enter the world with a local support group and more importantly the support of my wonderful, understanding and most beautiful wife!

  • Currently, where are you at with you wife’s acceptance of your thrill of cross dressing?
  • What are some of the limits your wife places on your thrill of cross dressing if any at all?
  • Do you and your wife have one on one girl dates together where you shop and have dinner together both as females!

Thanks for taking the time to read my article and please take to the time to either respond to my writings in the article or offer up an answer to one or more of the questions I’ve posed to you above!

Sincerely, Tammy XOXOXO



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    Tammy Edmunds

    Hello everyone. I'm a married man of 30+ years who enjoys the comfort and feeling of my feminine side. My wife is aware of my pleasure in CDing and from time to time helps me find clothing, shoes, and accessories although not participated in joint activities such as going out on the town for an evening. WE live in a small community, so discretion is important to us both. Hoping to share with other like-minded individuals and gain more inside into my enjoyment of dressing in fem.

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    Melissa Penning
    Melissa Penning
    2 years ago

    Tammy, a beautiful story. I shared with my wife last week, but any acceptance is still in the future. I am so happy for you. You are living the dream.


    Vanessa Jones
    Active Member
    2 years ago

    That is just terrific for you Tammy! I absolutely know the feeling that you have experienced and I know it is euphoric! I too have a very accepting wife. I can be Vanessa when ever I want, do what ever I want, go places with her, shop together, etc. I don’t always have to be dressed to be Vanessa either. She accepts who I am inside. The one and only stipulation is that she does not want to live as a lesbian woman. In other words, no permanent transgender woman. I’m sure you can agree that it feels like you… Read more »

    Carrie Lynn
    2 years ago

    Congrats Tammy, that is awesome. It is definitely an interesting journey. Putting my answers to your questions, my wife knew about Carrie (although I did not have a name yet at that time) when we worked together. We were married after that (25 years next month) and her acceptance came and went until about five years ago when we started seeing a couples counselor who helped us both understand it better. I have a very strong feminine side and I consider myself genderfluid. Now she is all-in. For us, it took me understanding, accepting and being comfortable with myself before… Read more »

    Kathy LaDonna
    Trusted Member
    2 years ago


    So very lucky. It’s fantastic that your wife enjoys you so much. What a beautiful experience. You must love the freedom your wife affords you. You go girl.


    Katie Mitchell
    2 years ago

    I’m so happy for you Tammy you are a real inspiration.Wish I had your courage.Stay safe and stay happy

    Laurie Tidenow
    2 years ago

    So where am I with my wife’s acceptance of crossdressing? I’ve begun to ask that myself in the past year. We met as teenagers in the 60’s and reconnected in 2002. I was married at the time to a cold unaccepting woman, the divorce was bitter.  I told “D” right off about Laurie, first time we made love she noticed my Vanity Fair panties. Thing progressed quickly she wanted to see Laurie and what I felt as a crossdresser when fully dressed. I was about 52 at the time and had been dressing most all my life, only occasionally in front… Read more »

    Erin Mondale
    2 years ago

    Great example from you.My wife of 5 years is also supportive and even helped me out through my journey when I started 8 years ago.We both love shopping and getting our nails done together

    2 years ago

    Dear Tammy I would like to thank you for the short story how Tammy came out to the world with the help of your beloved wife who came to support you at great extent which made your marriage bond more stronger and lively more happy ,,,Yet to me it came after a marriage of 28 years together to confess finally after several hints from my side to her ….in which she responded with a partial support by helping me to all my needs such as make up , cloths ,dresses but without sharing the moments as joseline ,,, she admitted… Read more »

    T.J. Byron
    T.J. Byron
    2 years ago

    T.E… Thanks for sharing your story…Tammy is a Lucky lady! My wife of 38 yrs, learned of ” T.J.” a day , 6 yrs ago , when she returned home unexpectedly early. After many sessions with a therapist, she became able to accept me for the behavior I presented. At this point she critiques my look before leaving to go out with girlfriends. We used to go out with her sisters, in the beginning, but not for yrs. I am out 3-5 X per month, even in a pandemic! We are both very blessed to have our spouses knowledgeable of… Read more »

    Suzanne Jeffries
    Active Member
    10 months ago

    It took me so long to come out to my wife because I was sure she would leave me as soon as she found out. Like most of my other fears, it turned out to be completely unfounded. She was accepting but a little hesitant at first however since then she has become 110% on board with it. She encourages me to dress and has even told me she likes some things better about the female me. It’s the most wonderful feeling in the world.

    Suzanne Jeffries
    Active Member
    8 months ago
    Reply to  Tammy Edmunds

    Tammy Dear,
    Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I don’t get on CDH all that often but you can email me at I check it almost daily. I would love to share thoughts and experiences with you. You can never have too many girlfriends.

    Suzanne Jeffries
    Active Member
    7 months ago
    Reply to  Tammy Edmunds

    I’m always interested in connecting with other women like me for friendship and support.

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