The long road back for crossdressers

Dear Readers,

It has been a long time since I wrote to you – I have so much to say, but first I want to apologize. Some of you may have received an email from me with a very old article. The last few days I’ve been working to move Crossdresser Heaven over to a more stable server, and I must have done something that sent out the email. Quite what I’m not sure – computers can be like that sometimes, can’t they? πŸ™‚ [Thanks to all of you who emailed me confused as to why I was sending out such an old email!]

I believe, and hope and pray, that all my surgeries are now over. Last year I had facial feminization surgery, as well as a vaginoplasty. A few weeks ago I had a labiaplasty and breast augmentation. My body has been contoured and cut, moved, shaped and stitched back together. The pain has not only been physical, but emotional as well. It has been a long road back to full health, and I’ve still got a few weeks yet before I’m there.

I did have a breakthrough this weekend, when I realized that I am not ashamed. I had been steadily beating my shame back, and every time it would find a cunning way to ensnare me. I believe, and hope, that I have purged the last of my transgender shame. Take a moment to click on the link above to read my full story – I’d love to hear your experiences overcoming shame.

It has been a long road back, but the further I travel the more I notice how colorful the flowers along the roadside are, the more I appreciate the caring smiles of those I hold dear.

May your week be a blessed one!

En Femme Style

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I’m passionate about creating a safe space for everyone in the transgender community to find laughter and friendship on their journey. I completed my physical transition in 2011 and through it I lost everything, and gained everything. I am blessed that I was forced to gaze inward and embark on the journey to discover and live my authentic self. My deepest wish is that all who wander here may find peace, happiness and freedom.
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Rogina Bakey
Rogina Bakey
10 years ago

I wondered what was wrong when I saw that preHalloween blog… Best wishes to a speedy recovery. And there is no shame in being you..glad you are past that. I am curious what work you do and how things are going for you there…so please tell!! Hugs,Rogina

10 years ago

your courage & fortitude are an inspiration ~

i can’t thank you enough !

~ Polly

gina marie allen
gina marie allen
10 years ago

welcome back!,congratulations!

Shirley Corning
Shirley Corning
10 years ago

How can I be ashamed of my heart’s most sincere and undying wish? That was back when I believed what I was told. I know better than that now. Let your spirit burn as bright as a blue white star.

7 years ago

Hope you are recovering well Sweetheart.

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