As I walk about the house fully dressed as JoJo, I find it not so easy to do normal things while wearing high heels. I ask myself why don’t, I just take them off and wear flats to make life easier, but I cannot come up with an answer and can’t bring myself to take them off.

This got me wondering, as I recently told a couple of close family members about JoJo, I wondered how I would answer if they asked me why I want to wear female clothing. The only answer I can think of is that it is not a case of wanting to but more a need to dress, as something in my psychological makeup gets me depressed whenever I have to go for long periods as my totally male persona.

I ask myself if I want to transition full time and while I am dressed the answer is always yes, however, when I am in male mode carrying out male dominated tasks (I wouldn’t dream of concreting while wearing a nice dress LOL) the answer is always different. Am I unusual in this respect or do you girls question yourselves in this way too?

I cannot be sure when the need to dress started in my life although one of my early memories was when I was about 9 years old, 2 friends and I (the friends were twin brother and sister the same age as me) found the door to an old unused church hall was not locked so being adventurous we went inside. We found many things of interest but the thing I remember most was some pleated white gym skirts that we put on and were running around the streets wearing them. Of course, at that age I had no idea about cross dressing. My next memory was just before puberty I found myself fascinated by my older sister’s underwear drawer where she had many pairs of tights. I succumbed to temptation and tried a pair on, whoa! This felt so good I kept on adding pairs until they were so tight I could hardly move or breath. I don’t know if she ever knew about my regular foraging of her tights, but I have loved the feel of wearing them ever since. Luckily, as life moved on and I got married, my wife and I would play games which resulted in me trying on her panties and stockings, and from there Jojo developed fully and is a big part of our married happiness.

I count myself lucky to have such a loving supportive wife and we often buy Jojo clothes together, which makes life easier in the shops, which brings me back to wearing high heels around the house so often and not having the will to remove them to do mundane tasks.

Do you girls have the same reluctance to remove your female garb? Do you have a different personality when you are dressed? Does the world seem to be a nicer place when you are en femme?

All I know is that I will never stop being Jojo and even when my time on this rock is over, I want to be put to rest as my female self.

Love to you all. xx Jojo

PS that is part of my wife’s leg at the bottom of the pic.

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    Ashley Konners
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    1 year ago

    Great article hun. I know I’ve thought of this same thing many times. As I’ve cleaned the whole house from top to bottom fully dressed and wearing heels. My sister in law asks me “how do you do that in heels, I’d break my neck cleaning in those. My wife and I get a laugh from it but it’s so true. I do all the laundry, almost all of the cooking and we both clean the house but when I do or can. ( kids not home). I find it so much more enjoyable doing any of these tasks while… Read more »

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    Peggy Sue Williams
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    1 year ago

    Thank you for your article, Jo Jo. To answer your questions: My days start early, and being a plus size girl, I wear shape wear, in addition to the usual feminine under garments, so at the end of a long day, like any female, I am very glad to shed all my clothing and feel relief. My wife has always felt close to me, because she knows I experience the same feelings women do when wearing female wardrobe items, shoes, make up, shape wear, pantyhose, etc. I would not say I have a different “personality," when I cross dress, but… Read more »

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    Deborah Sullivan
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    1 year ago

    Well can certainly relate to your history and current things sweetie. I do most things about the house en femme and in shape wear as well as shopping and errands. I do have a small bit of personality change as well and love being kinder, more respectful, and playful.

    Leonara
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    1 year ago

    Jojo, thank you for sharing your experience. One of the reasons I love this website, it gives us experiences that like minded “ladies” to which we can truly relate, I too during Leonara time will do housework. Depending on the “pink fog” I will dress with either 1)skinny boots and a blouse… this time instead of girly flats I wore my 3” ankle boots!! Or 2) there is nothing like vacuuming wearing a skater skirt in 3” strappy heels lol… thank you for your article, I just thought to let you know, you are not alone Happy Holidays to you… Read more »

    Gabby Ashmore
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    1 year ago

    Jojo I clean the house almost everytime I dress. Kind of an agree with my wife. I love doing so in heels. You walk differently. My hips sway and all those short steps. Trying not to expose too much when you bend or squat. Sweeping into a dust pan and getting the laundry out of the machine are so different when a bra and forms are involved. But I wouldn’t change it. The feelings of doing “woman’s work" while dressed is a blast. And it sure beats cleaning in boy mode.

    Rochelle Mills
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    1 year ago

    JoJo — Thank you so much for sharing your article. I hardly notice medium high heels when I’m out and about or doing housework. I might not be inclined to work much if I’m wearing 4 inch heels . If I am dressed for couple days or more, it does feel more natural and the thought of living as a female seems more appealing if not realistic. But when I am back in male mode–typically for work–the idea of transitioning doesn’t pull as strongly on my psyche. Deep down I like a lot of guy stuff, too, even if I… Read more »

    Roberta Broussard
    Duchess
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    1 year ago

    I agree it would be heartbreaking to ruin a nice outfit doing a heavy work-related task. You might consider adding some feminine clothes just for doing those male activities, While i love dressing, i really love doing everyday normal things while dressed. Afterall no one dresses nice to wash the car.

    Amanda Woods
    Lady
    Active Member
    1 year ago

    Lovely article, thanks for sharing

    J J
    Lady
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    1 year ago

    I do agree, once dressed who wants to change? The practical side in me, though says to just change shoes to a lower and more comfortable heel. I do love wear stiletto heels, but my feet and body just aren’t adjusted to them since I don’t wear them often. If I am going to wear a nice dress and sip wine around the house, then I put on some black pumps with three inch heels, but if going out, or planning on walking around the house preparing dinner or some such thing, then I wear a lower, more comfortable heel.… Read more »

    Bee Dee
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    1 year ago

    Thanks for the article. Yes, I too am reluctant to change back into male clothes from my female clothes. Yes, if there are some jobs to do and I’m dressed, like you I’ll try to do them in heels if I’m wearing them. I have a couple of pairs of 4in heels but I have a hard time with them so I usually stick to my 3in kitten heels or my suade ankle boots. I love wearing dresses, skirts and Lingerie, stockings & suspenders/ tights with a dress or skirt. I have a lot of Lingerie and I’d buy more… Read more »

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