Girlfriend supports my crossdressing

Hi. I’m Robin. I’ve been crossdressing off and on since my early teens and only recently have I come out about it to a few select friends. I’ve never fully understood my desire to be girly. Part of it, I think, is that women’s clothes always seem to be more vibrant and sexy than anything I’ve ever found in the men’s department. That and that I’ve never felt quite confident as a man.

One of those with whom I recently shared my secret with is my fiance. I was sure that it would be the end of things, yet felt she needed to know. Much to my surprise and delight, she likes this about me and has even begun helping me to perfect my look. While I still have a long way to go so as to be the woman I want to be, it is so much easier now that I’ve got such a warm and caring woman in my life to help me. I’m thinking that this site will also be of great help to me, so thank you for creating it.

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1 year ago

How wonderful just simply knowing that you do not need to endure the uncomfortable and ever haunting feeling of hiding who you really are. Let me assure you that your life will be so much more fulfilling and joyous. That is the best gift you could have ever given each other! Brava! Congratulations and I wish you (three) a long and happy marriage.

Virginia (@virginia)
1 year ago
Reply to  Nayomi

My ex would never understand, very old fashioned and traditional. She only tolerated my sister because all contact was on the phone.

Karen Wood
1 year ago
Reply to  Virginia

Its a difficult challenge for us as CDs…it must be even more difficult for the woman we share our desires with…a guy in a dress does not appeal to many women….
However remember dressing in feminine clothes is merely only a part of who u are…so believe in yourself and be true to your future partner…
Happy dressing

Lara Cross
1 year ago

Good lesson for us, Robin. I am still a little hesitant, but your story helps. -Lara

1 year ago

That is great to hear. If more guys would be open about their dressing to their girl or wife, then more people they may find they will be understanding enough to help you out. What better time to come out than Halloween, it is easier cause the female will help you in the stores. They just think you are dressing for one day, but little do they know right?

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sarasue olson (@velvetdreams)
1 year ago

I learned honesty is the best policy Robin. Many years ago when I was dating I met several women that I was very attracted to but before we got too serious I felt that I must see how she felt about guys that crossdressed. I didn’t want to live A lie and more so I didn’t want to hurt her by hiding my dressing and living in fear that she would not tolerate my dressing and have her hating me. Now than I just didn’t come out and tell her I was A crossdresser, I was very tactful with my… Read more »

Gina Fuller
1 year ago

Just joined and am so excited how good the site is. Still having a little problem of downloading a picture. Will keep on trying.

Karen Wood
1 year ago

Hi Robin
I am so happy for you that your special woman in your life is so supporting. I enjoyed your story and thank you for allowing me to feel better about my desire.

Hope to chat to you soon Robin

Mariah Palone
1 year ago

That’s wonderful — you are so lucky! What a terrific attitude your partner has. Cherish her!

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Leah (@leah63)
1 year ago

Glad she accepted it with open arms and is willing to help you out and explore. far too many ladies are too closed minded and scared that their man wants to wear lingerie or a dress. I agree, you have to be up front and honest with your SO. For some ladies, it is a deal breaker

Joanne Watters
Joanne Watters (@joannecd69)
26 days ago

I was forced out of the closet by my ex wife. I told her of my need to dress as a woman right after we got married, she was disgusted with the whole idea. Two weeks later, she asked me to dress up for her, I did & she was shocked at how good I looked, she said she wanted to help me, she could make me look so good, no one would be able to tell that I was not a real woman, I readily accepted her offer. The following weekend, she took me to her friends salon, I… Read more »

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