Hi. I’m Robin. I’ve been crossdressing off and on since my early teens and only recently have I come out about it to a few select friends. I’ve never fully understood my desire to be girly. Part of it, I think, is that women’s clothes always seem to be more vibrant and sexy than anything I’ve ever found in the men’s department. That and that I’ve never felt quite confident as a man.
One of those with whom I recently shared my secret with is my fiance. I was sure that it would be the end of things, yet felt she needed to know. Much to my surprise and delight, she likes this about me and has even begun helping me to perfect my look. While I still have a long way to go so as to be the woman I want to be, it is so much easier now that I’ve got such a warm and caring woman in my life to help me. I’m thinking that this site will also be of great help to me, so thank you for creating it.
Many people urge others to come out and be “truthful" with their SO’s. As you can see above it’s a mixed bag. I believe one should give serious thought to that move. If you live with and love the person you are with you should be able to make a reasonable judgement as to how they will react. If they react badly the cat will be out of the bag and your future will be troubled or you will be divorced. You have to decide which is more important to you, your SO’s or your girl life before you spill… Read more »
My ex asked me to try on her dress at first I was reluctant to do it but she persisted I finally did it for her and then let her no I was a crossdresser after the last few years she got tired of me dressing as a women and left me as she said to be with a real man but I wouldn’t change anything for the experience I had as I love being a crossdresser
I think many women like and are curious about cds. I have no problem socializing and partying with straight women but believe they just dont want to be married to one. Maybe its like for you guys on the desire to be with a professional stripper which you would love to date but in long run not marry. Well my thoughts as a gay cd trying to sort it out
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very important to let your intendant know way ahead of time let them make the choice of weather they can accept you as a crossdresser or not saves the wicked fights and separation that may occur later in your relationship by that time there may be children involved. you may be surprised just how accepting most people are as they relize we all have our things we love to do that may seem odd to others.
Well my wife caught me wearing her panties a couple of times and was hurt and mad. I told her I wouldn’t do it anymore but I did. Our marriage went bad and she cheated on me but blames me for divorce cause of me dressing up.it been a,bad divorce and I don’t know how many people she told about me.and even carries pic of lingerie I have to blackmail me. I’m to a point in my life I don’t care anymore. I just don’t dress in front of kids.
Hello I’m jackie blue. My wife knows my.secret. she bought me an her lot of lingerie. We would have hot sex for hours . She liked it. But she did the unthinkable when she was pissed off at me for jumping her 18yr old sons ass about late videos on my card. She got mad and flipped out .I know her when she’s mad at me cuz the lazy 18yr old. She told all her family and probably told everyone who would listen to her. But nothen I can do about it now and I’m also at that age ,well… Read more »
Hey there ladies I’m angie I am a cd I came out to my girlfriend about 10yrs ago at first I was scared to death to say anything about it. She looked at me and said that she loves me no matter what I like to wear. She came home from work and had a nice dress for me to put on panties and brahs she does my makeup and she also paints my nails. She even found places for me to order clothes and accessories from. I love being a female I feel so good. To be honest she… Read more »
Aww chick thats great news good luck and enjoy xx
I finally came out 4 ears ago. I also lost a lot friends and was disowned by my family. I feel normal now and finally living full time as female. It feels so right because I have been dealing with this for my whole life. Time to do what is right for me. Don’t let them get you down, it’s important to be who you are. My only support is my girlfriend, she helps me get dressed when I go out, even to see my therapist.
Well after reading all of these post I feel more at ease. My story is about the same as most, not the situation I was hoping for. we are divorced and she knows and sees me dressed up and does not say much. She lives in my house and we get along but as friends. I have spent most of my life fighting the wanting to be female. I do not fight it any more I just Have to deal with the time and place thing. I still have to work to pay the bills and survival is priority. But… Read more »