Although we love women’s clothing, we know that we can’t always wear them – especially when we’re away from home and in environments where crossdressing is taboo …

An interesting tip for outwear is to wear satin shirts – a very feminine fabric but that is not taboo for men.

But there is a type of women’s clothing that you can wear discreetly and secretly in (almost) all environments … lingerie!

Yes, unless you go through a demanding metal detector and do not take certain precautions, no one will know that you are wearing panties and bra under your men’s clothing.

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Let’s talk first about how you can replace monotonous underpants with beautiful panties in your day-to-day.

Since you are a man, at least in those moments, you wear baggy pants – that is, the risk of panties marking your pants is less. But you need to be careful with the fit of the pants – very wide pants can expose your panties, either because the pants are “falling” or if you bend down (to catch an object that fell on the floor, for example).

To avoid this, wear pants with a perfect fit and a belt. Also avoid bending over. The easiest panties to wear without anyone knowing you have then on are any panties made of microfiber. The fit just like a second skin, are sexy, and extremely comfortable.

Now, let’s talk about the bra.

When I first tried a bra at age 12, I even went to school a few times wearing a bra on very cold days and with a couple of layers of clothing on top.

A bra is a hard part of feminine clothing to hide. Of course, you won’t be able to wear T-shirts with any transparency or ones which are very thin,  unless you want them to discover your “secret” under men’s clothing.

Color is important if you are trying to conceal a bra as well. You should prefer colors close to your skin tone.

Lace bras also deserve care. See if your blouse is not marking the relief of the lace.

The ideal is to wear simple bras (bralettes) without hooks and that the strap adjusters are in a place where they cannot be seen or touched.

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If someone eventually embraces you they may not be able to feel the bra so try to check in the mirror to see which is the best position for the adjusters.

The pandemic at least prevents physical contact and can help with that type of situation.

There are even bras with straps without adjustment which can also be an option.

On colder days, you can even risk a model with adjustable straps and hooks – the various layers of clothing that you will wear over the top will help you.

There is also the possibility that you may have an accident or become sick outside the home. If doctors and nurses need to take your clothes off and discover your secret, they may even think this is funny, but never ridicule it in front of other people. Health professionals must follow a strict code of ethics and violating it has serious consequences for them.

In fact, these days you can even wear pantyhose, it will be amazing!

On very hot days, you will have to look for a very discreet color of hose or just wear panties, which is already a way to practice underdressing.

Before leaving, check in front of the mirror if you can see any detail of your bra.

When you are dressed in men’s clothing, remember that these are wider than women’s and therefore hide the lingerie better.

Try to use beautiful pieces that you like. The important thing is that YOU know what you are wearing, and that can make your day more beautiful and happier!

There is nothing better than wearing a beautiful lingerie, wearing much more beautiful panties than your underwear and feeling the permanent embrace of a bra.

Have you ever worn lingerie outside the home?

Do you have a habit of underdressing inside and /or outside the home?

How do you feel wearing panties and bra under men’s clothes?


I hope you enjoyed this article and I’m curious to know what you think and your answers.



Marie Claire


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Alana Bedford
Alana Bedford
1 year ago

Love your artical, I wear lingerie at home and outside, always wear nylons , bra and panties at home, the feeling of wearing lingerie under my man clothes is so wonderful and exciting, especially when shopping in stores for new lingerie, I visit the doctors and ride my motorbike always wearing lingerie under my male clothes, so so exciting

Tiffany W
1 year ago
Reply to  Alana Bedford

I’ve only worn a bra while riding…… so far

Christine Watkins
1 year ago

I wear panties and a bra at home always, and when I can get away with it the bra at work (outdoor stuff, manly men blah blah blah). When it’s not too hot, garterbelt and stockings a must(not at work). Silly story here. Yesterday I had the panties and bra on under guy shorts and a loose fitting cotton fisherman’s button up shirt. I checked in the mirror before heading out to make sure there were no ‘bra lines’ showing up. All good. Off to my local small town ‘beverage’ store. As I got back to my truck I noticed… Read more »

Tiffany W
1 year ago

I enjoyed your story Christine. I’m also new to referring as myself and being called Tiffany.

Tiffany W
1 year ago

That how I started out doing, wearing bras under my guy clothes. I was so paranoid about rather or not it could be seen though my shirt. Now I really don’t care if people notice just when I’m around family. I have a fun little story. So about a month ago I had an urge to wear A bra and panties under my work uniform for a few days. I did wear a pair of panties to work. That wasn’t the issue, the issue was the bra. My work shirt is fairly thin and you can easily see the straps.… Read more »

Clarissa Cross
Active Member
1 year ago

Great article, personally Love underdressing and do so almost every day, love my nightgown and wear it for breakfast every morning, almost always have nail polish on my toes. Dress fully as much as possible which is about 5-6 days at my home, never really been out and about fully dressed but almost always underdressed when out and about.

Marlie Shyly
Active Member
1 year ago

I do wear panties and bras everyday. It feels so wonderful when my arm brushes against my boob. Hiding the outline is difficult though. My panties never show as I wear jeans and a belt.

Christine Thomas
Active Member
3 months ago

Great article, I underdress all the time, bra, panties, suspenders and stockings (usually not tights – makes bathroom breaks a bit harder, and anyway, stockings are so much more fun). I check for indications of bra straps, but also ask my wife to check – just in case. With stockings I do not wear covering up socks, but then I need to be careful when walking up and down stairs, when sitting and when getting in and out of a car. But it is thrilling and exhilarating. Probably only bettered by full dressing when out and about. thanks for this… Read more »

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