Although we love women’s clothing, we know that we can’t always wear them – especially when we’re away from home and in environments where crossdressing is taboo …

An interesting tip for outwear is to wear satin shirts – a very feminine fabric but that is not taboo for men.

But there is a type of women’s clothing that you can wear discreetly and secretly in (almost) all environments … lingerie!

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Yes, unless you go through a demanding metal detector and do not take certain precautions, no one will know that you are wearing panties and bra under your men’s clothing.

Let’s talk first about how you can replace monotonous underpants with beautiful panties in your day-to-day.

Since you are a man, at least in those moments, you wear baggy pants – that is, the risk of panties marking your pants is less. But you need to be careful with the fit of the pants – very wide pants can expose your panties, either because the pants are “falling” or if you bend down (to catch an object that fell on the floor, for example).

To avoid this, wear pants with a perfect fit and a belt. Also avoid bending over. The easiest panties to wear without anyone knowing you have then on are any panties made of microfiber. The fit just like a second skin, are sexy, and extremely comfortable.

Now, let’s talk about the bra.

When I first tried a bra at age 12, I even went to school a few times wearing a bra on very cold days and with a couple of layers of clothing on top.

A bra is a hard part of feminine clothing to hide. Of course, you won’t be able to wear T-shirts with any transparency or ones which are very thin,  unless you want them to discover your “secret” under men’s clothing.

Color is important if you are trying to conceal a bra as well. You should prefer colors close to your skin tone.

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Lace bras also deserve care. See if your blouse is not marking the relief of the lace.

The ideal is to wear simple bras (bralettes) without hooks and that the strap adjusters are in a place where they cannot be seen or touched.

If someone eventually embraces you they may not be able to feel the bra so try to check in the mirror to see which is the best position for the adjusters.

The pandemic at least prevents physical contact and can help with that type of situation.

There are even bras with straps without adjustment which can also be an option.

On colder days, you can even risk a model with adjustable straps and hooks – the various layers of clothing that you will wear over the top will help you.

There is also the possibility that you may have an accident or become sick outside the home. If doctors and nurses need to take your clothes off and discover your secret, they may even think this is funny, but never ridicule it in front of other people. Health professionals must follow a strict code of ethics and violating it has serious consequences for them.

In fact, these days you can even wear pantyhose, it will be amazing!

On very hot days, you will have to look for a very discreet color of hose or just wear panties, which is already a way to practice underdressing.

Before leaving, check in front of the mirror if you can see any detail of your bra.

When you are dressed in men’s clothing, remember that these are wider than women’s and therefore hide the lingerie better.

Try to use beautiful pieces that you like. The important thing is that YOU know what you are wearing, and that can make your day more beautiful and happier!

There is nothing better than wearing a beautiful lingerie, wearing much more beautiful panties than your underwear and feeling the permanent embrace of a bra.

Have you ever worn lingerie outside the home?

Do you have a habit of underdressing inside and /or outside the home?

How do you feel wearing panties and bra under men’s clothes?


I hope you enjoyed this article and I’m curious to know what you think and your answers.



Marie Claire


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Christie Deville
1 month ago

thanks for the tips!
I always underdress in panties and sometimes hose.
Have only ventured out when i can layer wearing a bra and is so exhilerating.


Lucinda Hawkns
Active Member
1 month ago

during the winter time its easy to under dress, lots of men cloths to cover up the bra area so no one can see it. but yes with this virus going around its easy to get away from, they can not hug you and feel your bra straps, but wish this virus would end get back to a normal living. well back to under dressing, i under dress during the summer time also but I wear a girdle or satin or silk panties with pad on certain days to get the feel of being a female. i also wear nylons… Read more »

Active Member
1 month ago

Great trips I have been under dressing for as long s I can remember with added touches of ladies jeans and tee shirts for my day to day clothing, no one ever notices

Sandy Jayson
Active Member
1 month ago

I have started underdressing just last week again at work, panties only. But I just remembered a few of the coldest days the last 2 winters I would wear leggings as a third layer under my uniform pants on the coldest days
. Sandy

Amy Myers
Noble Member
1 month ago

I have worn panties every day for the last year and a half or so, and I found some micro fibre ones which fit good and feel lovely. Even to doctor’s appt’s.
I’ve worn bras out underdressed, and yes I have the concern about being noticed.

Caty Ryan
Active Member
1 month ago

Taken straight from post, “Do your worries go away” etc etc On a serious note, due to ongoing, but relatively minor memtal health problems, I am finding that underdressing in cami and panties, plus in the winter heavy duty tights is quite calming. On really cold days I add an a cup bra and unless it is really hot at night, C bra and forms for bedtime. If I wake up in the middle of the night, off comes the bra and my self adhesive forms are up to it, I sleep braless for the rest of the night.. Once out… Read more »

Amy Anne Miller
Amy Anne Miller
1 month ago

Thanks for this wonderful article. I change into panties as soon as I get to the office – one of the highlights of my day! Have risked a bra under my sweater during colder months. It’s the best I can do in my situation – but it certainly helps. Thanks again for sharing!

Active Member
1 month ago

Thanks. Yes I wear panties under my men’s clothes about half of the time and a bra occasionally. It is much easier in cooler weather. I find that my wife is even aware of it and doesn’t mind. In cooler weather I have also worn leggins under loose fitting sweatpants when I am out for a walk. Being underdressed is great way to get by until I have the time to get fully dressed.

Patricia Gil Hernandez

Been under dressing since I was 13. Went to school in a pantygirdle with thigh high nylons since pantyhose hadn’t quite made it on the scene just yet. By graduation I was wearing pantyhose almost everyday. These days its, pantyhose, leggings, camisole, cute top, and kitten heels. Finish all this off with a schrunchy since my hair is well past my shoulders, and pearl earrings. I just love it this way, and have even been out a few times this way.

Trisha Rave
1 month ago

Thank you for these tips also

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