Many an experienced crossdresser will tell you that it’s not all music and roses – being a woman takes hard work, courage and a lot of patience. Many of us endure almost any discomfort for even a fleeting feeling of femininity. But there are those days when being a woman can get so frustrating you just want to scream.
You’ve laddered your second pair of pantyhose and then spilled makeup on your best white blouse. You overtweezed one eyebrow and in an effort to even them out both eyebrows are in a race to extinction. Your heel broke, your nail polish smudged and you emerged from shaving looking like a wounded warrior.
*sigh* Sometimes you think it might just be easier being a guy. Now is your opportunity to vent a little – go to https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/what-do-you-dread-most-about-crossdressing/ and let me know – what do you dread most about crossdressing?
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Shoot, I voted for Nothing it's all great, and then saw the going back to male mode option. Read it through first Vicki! LOL. I'm so blonde at times, especially in Vicki mode. No it is all great, the minor irritations like snagged hose, dripping nail polish etc.. well that's all part of the package, outweighed by the wonderful feeling of being my true self. And don't get me wrong, I'm as rough and tumble a guy in male mode as you can find, love my Husky football and Seahawks and Mariners and all. Wouldn't it be nice if it… Read more »
There is nothing i dread about crossdressing because i love it.I just hate going back to horrible male clothes after.
Hi Sharon, I know how you feel it takes ages to get dolled up only to have to go back to boring old mens clothes. I love being dressed xx
I do not worry too much about being out dressed. The one thing I do worry about is makeup meltdown, but that is part of being a women.
Too true hon!
Dear, I think this is something we all go through – the mirror is both my best and worst friend.
Do your best, keep learning and have fun. I've come to terms with the fact that I'll never pass 100% – even after I complete all the hormones, surgeries and voice training. Because 100% is too high a bar for anyone, even if you're blessed with a small feminine figure.
Cleaning up the mess when I'm done. Everything has to be back to normal, if and when someone else walks in.
ah well, although i seldom get the chance to wear makeup in my world, tis what i wear underneath that allows me to seldom if ever go back to boy mode! i always wear panties under my girly jeans,and usually a bra as well.mainly because i haven't owned any boys undies or jeans for a few decades. it all feels right to me and always has. so i guess i'll keep on keepin on! be well, no matter what!
Hi Vanessa
I have 2 dreads. The first is nicking myself when shaving and the second is getting a run in my pantyhose. The pleasure I get makes it worth while.
Regards
Aleesha
I am a 65 year old CD and out of my 65 years, I have had only8 years to enjoy being who I am inside. On one, including my wife of 23, around me understands how I am hurting inside to have the chance to be the person I am inside, if only for a few hours per week. I have hit the breaking point too many times and ended up throwing all of my material things away that made me feel like the woman inside. I have no one to talk to and it is killing me inside. I… Read more »
I have one “dread" about being transgender/crossdressing. That is that I must live in a male body when I am a woman inside. To me I feel I am crossdressing when I have to dress as a male. I feel highly cheated that I wasn’t born with the female body to match who I am inside. I fathered three children trying to make the best with the male body I was born into. I should have been mother to three children not their father. I am a woman and it is very painful to awake everyday with this horrible male… Read more »
I feel highly cheated that I wasn’t born with the female body to match who I am inside – this rings so true to me.
What I dread, is the moment I have to call it! The moment I have to look in the mirror and ry, and say goodbye for a while, if even only a few hours. I am Danielle, and I don’t want to be David anymore. The reality is not so kind. My three children, my business, people that rely on me for thier lot in life, expect David. That is my prison but thankfully it is filled with loving people that love David, and make him feel special. That moment, when I wipe off my face, and remove my hair,… Read more »