When I tried on a bra for the first time (and liked it), I never imagined that I would learn so many things – not only about bras but the feminine universe. I had always been curious and noticed girls at school starting to wear theirs and deciding to try on one – secretly, of course – one of my sister’s bras.
I had to learn how to adjust the straps and button it. It was difficult, but I eventually could adjust the straps and button it – with my hands behind my back, literally: without turning.
Then, I learned how to unbutton it – with one hand behind my back. Many guys have trouble unbuttoning their girlfriends’ bras. When you button and unbutton a bra so many times, your practice makes it become easier.
Between the buttoning and unbuttoning, there is the experience of wearing a bra. For me, it is exciting to wear a bra. I like the feeling of the permanent hug it provides, as well as the contact of the fabric with my body.
Of course, after a long time in a bra, even those who really like this accessory prefer to take it off – just as many women do. I came to understand why some women don’t like this piece of clothing so much – and, of course, like many women, I became adept at taking off my bra without having to take off my shirt. With my bra removed, I noticed the marks that it left on my body. I think this also helped me to feel more empathy for women.
Despite this, soon after it is off, I start to get anxious to put on a bra again.
Of course, between buttoning and unbuttoning, you can feel a lot of things. The touch of the fabric on your skin, the feeling of a hug, the touch of the straps on your shoulders. This is comforting and, at the same time, exciting.
More than feeling the bra, it’s seeing yourself while wearing it.
You learn about the different types of bras and their different fabrics and prints.
Those who aren’t very thin even discover that they have some breasts. It’s interesting to see the bra shaping them, even if the volume is small. This makes the experience more interesting, pleasurable, and fun.
We get curious to know what it would be like if we really had female breasts. Sometimes I like to put socks inside the bra, just to appear bigger!
We discover that women’s breasts are very different when they are inside and outside the bra.
I also learned that there are different types of bras, each designed with its own purpose. A bra with padding can make it seem like you have breasts, but a bra without padding increases the contact of the bra with the skin, improving the experience. And there are also super push-up bras, which lift and add volume!
I always preferred traditional bras, with thin adjustable straps and back fasteners. But I have found that seamless leisure bras can be interesting too – they can be worn under men’s clothing without showing through the clothes. That’s fantastic!
Of course, in more favorable situations, I prefer things that are more intense. I love lace, silky fabrics, and prints! I find them very fun and sensual. As a woman, it is interesting to show the contour, relief or color of the bra through the transparency of the blouse. Wearing clothes that show the strap is also interesting. A strap made entirely of lace is incredible!
Wearing a bra has also taught me something unfortunate: Bras are expensive.
Bras have also “broadened” the horizons of my feminine side. Suddenly, I realize that I need to combine the bra with panties – another day I’ll talk about panties – and then with tights. In a short time, we start experimenting with dresses, skirts, wigs, shoes, and makeup.
They say that every woman remembers her first bra. I remember the first bra I wore, which belonged to my sister – and also the first bra I bought. One just for me!
I never imagined I would learn all this by trying on a simple bra.
– What have you learned from wearing bras?
– What was your favorite thing about wearing bras?
– What was your best experience with bras?
Sincerely
Marie Claire
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Hi Marie Claire, Thank you for creating such a welcoming space for stories like ours! As I wrote before, being the only boy in a family of three sisters brought me close to their world in ways that felt both thrilling and nerve-wracking. The first time I slipped one of my sister’s bras over my shoulders, my heart raced as I took in the sensation of the soft fabric against my skin. A part of me felt like I’d crossed into forbidden territory, and the thought of someone finding out filled me with fear. But the thrill of feeling feminine… Read more »
I am grateful to have access to a space like CdH to share my ideas and interact with so many people!
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Wearing a bra is a magical experience.
Thank you for reading my article and sharing your experiences!
I have tried them, but I prefer not to wear one, mainly because I could never work out what size to get, I don’t know about cup size, looking down at myself, I’d settle for medium sized saucers 🙂
One of my girlfriends used to refer to bras as flopper stoppers. I’m not sure that that’s a problem we’ll ever have 🙂
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@Marie Claire I have been curious about the attraction of wearing a bra for a while and after tentatively trying a couple over the past few months I finally found some that fit. In particular, without breastforms I seem to be a 38b and recently have a couple bras that I love to wear all day. It feels good to be “held" in that way. A new sensation for sure.
Evie
Very good!
One thing that I have learned about wearing bras is just how sweaty the front of the cups can get.
This baffles me how this is possible.
Very interesting!
Good afternoon girls, love the article about first time wearing a bra brings back lots of memories, I was nine years old and my best friends sister had left her bra on the counter in the bathroom as I used their bathroom I could not help myself but stare and think about what it would be like to put it on. As I finished up in the bathroom washed my hands and I walked out but for the next few hours as I hung out at his house, I cannot stop thinking about that bra on the counter, and what… Read more »
Thank you very much for reading the article and sharing your experiences
You are most welcome. Thank you for sharing. Your article brings back memories.
@Marie Claire Another thing that I have to be careful of when picking bras is to find one that won’t let the forms escape. Yesterday, I went abroad and wore a bra that I had worn a few times. The triangle forms were probably B-cup in size. It was a good thing that I had tucked in my shirt because one form fell out of the cups without me being aware of it. The unusual thing was that it escaped from underneath the band! I didn’t think that that was possible, since the band was as tight as it can… Read more »
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I love myself adhesive forms they don’t escape anymore. I had an embarrassing situation where one ended up on the floor thankfully no one saw
My first experience with wearing a bra when I was 12 years old. It was for a Halloween party at school. When my mother dressed me as a cowgirl with all lingerie that women were under their out wear. It felt like electric was shooting through me. I was so excited from the feeling of being changed into a female. I loved the feeling of having breasts, even though the bra was pad with t toilet paper. That’s when I thought I was in the wrong body. Yes there many types of bras and sizes. I really enjoy the deep… Read more »
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Congratulations to your mother!
That was the only thing she did for me that was nice, and I believe she really wanted me to be her first born Daughter, not a son.
I am greatful that day, find who I really was, FEMALE.
Your article impressed more to dress up even more.
Thank you 🥰
@Marie Claire Thank you for sharing your thoughts on bras. My experience is limited. Yesterday, my wife wondered why I hadn’t worn one recently; I told her mine were lost. She said we’d have to look for them!
Thank you very much for reading the article!
@Marie Claire I feel so comfortable and much more complete when wearing a Bra. It’s hard to convey how good it lets me feel.
Very good!
Hi Marie! Great article! I can remember trying on one of my mother’s bras while wearing her pantyhose as a young teen. At the time the pantyhose felt amazing but the bra looked and felt weird to me. It was a bullet bra and had weirdly shaped cups. I can’t say that I even noticed what kind of bras my mom wore back then. Fast forward to a few about 6 years ago and I got my first bralette online only because I wanted the panties and they were a matching set. Red mesh and black lace. The bralette was… Read more »
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@Autumn Valiant Autumn, I admire your tenacity. Heck I’m no expert but it sounds like you definitely need forms. And maybe a professional bra fitting? xx.
Girl you need to check out the Breast form store. Their forms are the best. Worth every penny, I don’t leave home without them. I have B C &D sizes to fit every mood